ok, maybe i mispoke...i didn't mean that a person who uses the word is racist. i mean that it is a racist word. sure, it is used as a term of affection, but that should be among the black culture (as i believe a term such as honky shouldn't be used by anyone who isn't white, though i prefer it not to be used at all). the n-word was introduced as a word to degrade and demoralize black people, and in slave times, the slaves began to use it as a way to lessen the power. that being said, when someone who is not black uses the word, their intentions of affection might be good, but i (personally) find the use disrespectful. sorry for any misunderstanding