Valentine's Day

[Pittsey]

When will people realise you don't need to make defensive posts several paragraphs long. If you binary digits don't like me, then fuck you. I'll still post though. : )

 

[Synful*Luv]

It seems to always be like this though. It was Bobby for awhile too. It's always someone.

IDK maybe i'm being overly sensitive about the matter and I know i'm certainly not the most liked member here... but I'm personally not comfortable with how we treat one person at a time here.

Sandeep has his moments, but we all do. He doesn't appear to be a jerk to me, but maybe his interactions with me are different from with you guys. Either way, he posts and contributes on the board a lot. Do we really have so many active members that we can behave like this is the "cool table" in HS and shun members away?

Don't get me wrong, i'm not addressing any one person here. Or even just the situation with Sandeep. But it seems we've collectively managed to chase away a lot of really good members for no real reason other than we don't know how to stop when things go to far or treat one another with basic civility. I mean, it's one thing for two members to argue and not get along with each other. But in this case, we have a kid who is being bullied (so to speak) by several prominent members. Eventually, he's probably going to just leave. And fine, go ahead and say "who cares" or whatever.. but he POSTS and he posts information and music and comments that are frequently (when not about someone's personal life) valuable.

Just my two cents. It's frustrating to see it constantly happen. I'm not saying he's innocent. But I just hate to see one person be collectively picked on by the majority. It's the difference of watching two people fight or one guy get jumped.

 

[Da_Funk]

Guys will be guys. We talk shit and hassle each other every chance we get. If your not man enough to take it (for lack of a better statement) your going to get it ten times worse (see sandeep, bobby, rahim). And guess what the real world is much worse so get over what some nerds on a message board think of you.

if you hadnt noticed, the day actually surpassed by the most recent time that i saw her. just seen your message now, da funk. anyway i saw her earlier and going for coffee on thursday.

just FYI, i did see SOFI's post. and i must say im impressed by the way he replied because usually i get abuse by the both of you.

this girl has recently broken up with her ex and is still quite upset. but on a phone call i heard her say that he was "the biggest mistake of her life". could work in my favour... maybe. anyway, last week she said she's not ready just yet hence why im taking things slowly, but im making my feelings known (to an extent). don want to overwhelm her in a bad way. i think she really likes the fact that i acknowledge her friends and speak to them when they are around e.g. today. she did the same too. usually people shy away. it annoys me when her friends come with her though because i wanna spend time alone with her if you get me but i dont let it be known that i dont always want her friends around when its just me and her because it'd be perceived as anti-social. hence why im taking her out - just us two.

Well if this is the case you are walking a fine line. You don't want to be her rebound and you don't want to be the nice guy she falls back on.. good luck. I still think you missed a great oppourtunity with valentines day.

 

[THEV1LL4N]

who seems to lack any social experience..

but look at your post count since june...

 

[THEV1LL4N]

to be honest and i dont have a lot of time here. dilla did start the whole thing. dilla, you think that members have only told you to ignore me? ive been told the very same thing - to ignore you.

this is just a forum and its not a significant part of my life. i only come on here for a handful of users - but one significant member doesnt even post here any more thanks to people like you who love to drive people away. i could leave and this could be my last post ever, but it wont be because you drove me away.. it'd be more to do with spending my time more wisely.

you call me 'raging' and you seem more cut up about it. you stoop as low as the remarks you make, but all you're good for is posting up GIFs and comic images.

 

[Pittsey]

It seems to always be like this though. It was Bobby for awhile too. It's always someone.

IDK maybe i'm being overly sensitive about the matter and I know i'm certainly not the most liked member here... but I'm personally not comfortable with how we treat one person at a time here.

Sandeep has his moments, but we all do. He doesn't appear to be a jerk to me, but maybe his interactions with me are different from with you guys. Either way, he posts and contributes on the board a lot. Do we really have so many active members that we can behave like this is the "cool table" in HS and shun members away?

Don't get me wrong, i'm not addressing any one person here. Or even just the situation with Sandeep. But it seems we've collectively managed to chase away a lot of really good members for no real reason other than we don't know how to stop when things go to far or treat one another with basic civility. I mean, it's one thing for two members to argue and not get along with each other. But in this case, we have a kid who is being bullied (so to speak) by several prominent members. Eventually, he's probably going to just leave. And fine, go ahead and say "who cares" or whatever.. but he POSTS and he posts information and music and comments that are frequently (when not about someone's personal life) valuable.

Just my two cents. It's frustrating to see it constantly happen. I'm not saying he's innocent. But I just hate to see one person be collectively picked on by the majority. It's the difference of watching two people fight or one guy get jumped.

I agree with you. And I think this needs to stop now.

 

[dilla]

Never listens.

 

[Prize Gotti]

Being as you two are south Asian, I think you should settle this with a Bollywood Dance-Off. Best "Jai Ho" wins.

 

[Pittsey]

7 days ban for Coonie. Doesn't listen. Next time a permanent ban.

 

[_carmi]

Midterms week...

We did spend all of last weekend together which is a first in months. Although we didn't do anything special for Valentine's day per se. I've been too busy catching up all the readings I had to do for the midterm I have to write in 55min. I'll probably do something special for him next weekend. He bought me a netbook (well partially but wtv that's fine I'm no gold digger )

Ps my posting here shows my giving up of passing this exam.

 

[Pittsey]

^^

Damn. I've never revised in my life.


But then I never got the grades I was expected to get either. I am happy to find the middle road in life. Or at least that's what I tell myself as I underachieve.

 

[ill-matic]

coonie, you got a superiority complex. shut the fuck up already.

 

[vg4030]

Midterms week...

We did spend all of last weekend together which is a first in months. Although we didn't do anything special for Valentine's day per se. I've been too busy catching up all the readings I had to do for the midterm I have to write in 55min. I'll probably do something special for him next weekend. He bought me a netbook (well partially but wtv that's fine I'm no gold digger )

Ps my posting here shows my giving up of passing this exam.

HAHA. If you could 'chart' my activity here, it always spikes during exams

 

[Da_Funk]

^Mine too.. what did dilla say?

And to be fair to sandeep, dilla is just as much of a bitch, actually probably a bigger one than sandeep.

 

[Casey]

I missed what was said...... but perhaps we need to bring back the "On Probation" thing we had before? Whereby if someone's on probation and fucks up they get permabanned.

Props on taking action against bullying posts though, Pittsey.

 

[ARon]

I feel as if Casey is a bully in veggie threads and also god threads

 

[Casey]

I feel as if Casey is a bully in veggie threads and also god threads

You're right and I admit it. It's been a while since we had one of those threads and I've calmed down a lot of late.

Frankly I have a lot less interest in debating either of those topics any more, much less the time to do so. I don't believe I ever singled anyone out, but if anyone in the general "meat eater" and "religious" groups ever felt specifically picked on by something I said, then I apologise.





P.S.... Fuck all of you animal slaughtering ass-backwards bible bashers. (jk)


---- You forgot to add, fuck you Apple fans (no jk) ----

- Flip

 

[_carmi]

^^

Damn. I've never revised in my life.


But then I never got the grades I was expected to get either. I am happy to find the middle road in life. Or at least that's what I tell myself as I underachieve.

My GPA needs a boost if I want to get into a masters program after. :sad:

 

[Flipmo]

Studying is for losers. Look at me - I'm a champion.

(Actually, I don't have any midterms, only papers due next month. Hihihihi.... still a champion though *serious face*)

 

[Synful*Luv]

I feel as if Casey is a bully in veggie threads and also god threads

I think we should make sure we distinguish between having a passionate opinion vs picking at someone's every post with something about their personal life.

I.E.

Member One:
I had a fun time on the beach today

Member Two:
So what, on FB I saw you were anorexic and you aren't good with cats. I know because once you dropped a cat and posted about it on SH. So shut up bc you suck.. random endless rant about cats and anorexia... funny gif. mom joke. etc.

Member Three:
Beaches are bad for you because *insert paragraphs here* Maybe follow up with an insult or two.