Originally.. you were talking about what
is offensive.
As a general rule of thumb I try not to attack a person social identity. Race, religion and sexual preference. That's just me though.
*edit* Unless I'm trying to offend them.
But then Sebastian changed the topic slightly by saying:
Race and sexual preference are not in the same category with religion though.
And he defended that topic with:
Nah, thats not what i meant. I wasnt talking about the most offensive topics.
What i mean is, its okay to criticise someone for their belief or political view because the person actually chooses to see things that way. Or the person could change the point of view if he/she really wanted to.
Now its a totally different thing with race and sexual preference. Last time i checked i couldnt pick my sexual preference.
However at this time you were still referring to what is offensive or not, while he was referring to race and sexual preference not being in the same category as religion. This is what you posted right before his other post that I just quoted:
Really? I have to humbly disagree. If I made a top ten list of offensive topics I think religion would be close to the top if not number 1. Along with political views...etc.
Then you tried to pull the topic back in your original direction with this:
But in regards to where to draw the line as to whats offensive and whats not....you're attacking someones social identity.
Now we get to the quote that I thanked.
Okay, so Sebastian quoted you.. the last quote that I posted from you. And he said:
Yeah, well, if you want to see it this way, religion might be part of someones social identity. However, i cant see any reason why you shouldnt attack a part of someones social identity (which is his/her religion in this example). You didnt give an explanation to this either. You just said you dont do it.
Its offensive to them. So what? Im definitely not walking around telling everybody i dont agree with them on some issue. But something being offensive is not really the question to ask here. So, yeah, both of you are not making any point. At all.
My interpretation of his above post is that he was going along with your original post and saying fine, religion can be in the same category as race and sexual preference with regards to what's offensive. But rather or not it's offensive isn't the point. Now that we've (or you guys) have established the point that it's offensive..what's next? or in his words "So what?" He also makes a purpose of stating that he doesn't go around telling people that he doesn't agree with them constantly or I guess he doesn't go around purposefully insulting people.
I agree with my interpretation of his post. Rather that's what he meant or not.. IDK. But it's how I read into it. Fine, it's offensive. So.. now what? Should we all make nice and never post or say anything that might offend someone? Do we throw all rules out the window and say whatever we want? What's the next step?. I wasn't thanking the part about his conceding to your point of social identity. Social identity is just a theory anyway.. not a definition. So technically, anything (like Casey's post stated) can be a part of someone's social identity. But I still wouldn't put race and sexual preference in the same category with religion and politics. It's like.... do you settle down with someone because they are only attractive (the equivalent of race and sexual preference.. something they were born with) or because they have a good personality or are funny (Something that they can control).
That's why I thanked the post. lol