As a general rule of thumb I try not to attack a person social identity. Race, religion and sexual preference. That's just me though.
*edit* Unless I'm trying to offend them.
Race and sexual preference are not in the same category with religion though.
Nah, thats not what i meant. I wasnt talking about the most offensive topics.
What i mean is, its okay to criticise someone for their belief or political view because the person actually chooses to see things that way. Or the person could change the point of view if he/she really wanted to.
Now its a totally different thing with race and sexual preference. Last time i checked i couldnt pick my sexual preference.
Really? I have to humbly disagree. If I made a top ten list of offensive topics I think religion would be close to the top if not number 1. Along with political views...etc.
But in regards to where to draw the line as to whats offensive and whats not....you're attacking someones social identity.
Yeah, well, if you want to see it this way, religion might be part of someones social identity. However, i cant see any reason why you shouldnt attack a part of someones social identity (which is his/her religion in this example). You didnt give an explanation to this either. You just said you dont do it.
Its offensive to them. So what? Im definitely not walking around telling everybody i dont agree with them on some issue. But something being offensive is not really the question to ask here. So, yeah, both of you are not making any point. At all.
its like one big circle jerk
Originally.. you were talking about what is offensive.
But then Sebastian changed the topic slightly by saying:
And he defended that topic with:
However at this time you were still referring to what is offensive or not, while he was referring to race and sexual preference not being in the same category as religion. This is what you posted right before his other post that I just quoted:
Then you tried to pull the topic back in your original direction with this:
Now we get to the quote that I thanked.
Okay, so Sebastian quoted you.. the last quote that I posted from you. And he said:
My interpretation of his above post is that he was going along with your original post and saying fine, religion can be in the same category as race and sexual preference with regards to what's offensive. But rather or not it's offensive isn't the point. Now that we've (or you guys) have established the point that it's offensive..what's next? or in his words "So what?" He also makes a purpose of stating that he doesn't go around telling people that he doesn't agree with them constantly or I guess he doesn't go around purposefully insulting people.
I agree with my interpretation of his post. Rather that's what he meant or not.. IDK. But it's how I read into it. Fine, it's offensive. So.. now what? Should we all make nice and never post or say anything that might offend someone? Do we throw all rules out the window and say whatever we want? What's the next step?. I wasn't thanking the part about his conceding to your point of social identity. Social identity is just a theory anyway.. not a definition. So technically, anything (like Casey's post stated) can be a part of someone's social identity. But I still wouldn't put race and sexual preference in the same category with religion and politics. It's like.... do you settle down with someone because they are only attractive (the equivalent of race and sexual preference.. something they were born with) or because they have a good personality or are funny (Something that they can control).
That's why I thanked the post. lol
What's that? A book? Isn't that what caused the problems in the first place? Wait... no, first and foremost is the stupidity of some humans, but second is the book they follow blindly and literally. How do people learn moral values? Books? School? Parents? Each of those three ways can vary to an infinitesimally small extent and still cause the same problems religion causes today.
Books? You show "Morality for Dummies." Won't there then be a "Morality Demystified?" "Morality Cliffnotes" "Morality Sparknotes?" Each say the same thing in different words, yet people will fight over the proper way to say it all.
Schools? Then schools become exclusive "fraternities" or societies and with the number of schools in the world, each teaching "morality" on a different level (think private schools and then public schools and the methods used to teach it) we're, again, looking at different schools of thought. Which is what religion is.
Understand that. Chimpansees have no books, no written laws and (as far as we know) no religion. Yet they don't bash each other's head in in the social circle of their own tribe. Why?
Social evolution.
I just typed up a long response and it got deleted. :evil:
Anyway...my original and ONLY point was that it's offensive. No IDGAF if you say offensive things. I don't care that Casey wants to kill Allah. I didn't care when whoever said n*gger...repeatedly. I'm all for freedom of speech. But obviously some members do care bc they left and the n-word was censored and another member was banned. I was using this thread to point out the hypocrisy on the board (like someone else mentioned older members mouthing off bc they've been here longer) Where the line is drawn is common sense to me. You respect ppls differences. Either the rules be enforced...or we say whatever we want.
They bash neighboring tribes when they want to expand their territory
I just typed up a long response and it got deleted. :evil:
Anyway...my original and ONLY point was that it's offensive. No IDGAF if you say offensive things. I don't care that Casey wants to kill Allah. I didn't care when whoever said n*gger...repeatedly. I'm all for freedom of speech. But obviously some members do care bc they left and the n-word was censored and another member was banned. I was using this thread to point out the hypocrisy on the board (like someone else mentioned older members mouthing off bc they've been here longer) Where the line is drawn is common sense to me. You respect ppls differences. Either the rules be enforced...or we say whatever we want.
or do you guys just go through and thank all the ppl who don't believe in god bc that's really what it seems like.
Holy shit this thread is still going?
Duke give me a quick recap of what I missed since page 10 or so lol
They bash neighboring tribes when they want to expand their territory
I don't think people have a right to be immune to being offended just because they're religious. We have a moral duty to think, and religious people have stopped being moral at the point where they've stopped thinking about something and just accept it on faith. If you don't kill or steal or cheat on your spouse because of your religion or fear of god or hell, you are an unthinking immoral fool that needs to have their shit called out. You need to be made an example of as much as possible. )