RFTP said:
I can believe you actually believe in what you say. You're saying that a woman in Iran (example) has no absolute fear to go the policedepartement and talk about beeing raped (by her husband or whoever) If you REALLY believe this then discussion ends here cause I know very well how things goes on in Iran and Afghanistan (one of themost conservatives).
"No absolute fear"? no i never said that, some do and some dont, plus i thought we were talking about Saudi Arabia the country you brought up, not Iran, The fear to report a rape is found in every country. so if the rape count in Iran or Saudi Arabia would rise if that wasn't present than so would all countries.
Sure there are beeing reported but I'm very sure that there are unreported rapes aswell, specially if its in the family.
I'm also pretty sure that there are unreported rapes in the west as well, CNN had a show on teengae schoolgirls who dont even think about reporting a rape in fear of backlash from the accused's friends and being labeled a lier etc. many go unreported everywhere!
In sweden they take a girls testimony ahead of a mans. In most cases, the woman have won. What's to prove really? That her pussy got torned apart? If she gets fucked and she said NO, clearly and u still do it u will be convited with rape. That case will be as clear as crystal.
Well if her pussy got tortured than thats a proven case now isn't it? so your point of sweden recording all kinds of alleged rape is not true, only proven and actuall ones..
It was one of the scenarios of a rapecase. I didn't say that this is what specifically happens! What you failed to understand with that is that in western countries a womans body is HER right only and HER property. This is not shared in alot of islamic countries, such as iran.
Again you're accusing millions of Iranians of viewing their wives as possessions. thats absolutely unknowable, you can't make such an accusation and neither can i oppose it. Because we simply don't, know we're not all knowing, you of all people should know that. I'm not trying to deny the fact that some Muslims do control their wives, However, that happens everywhere in the world including the west.
They, as the men, the goverment etc. Don't tell me it's not like this cause I KNOW how it's like in Iran. Very well aware of it.
Are you serious? WHY do many people here love to generalize? "the Men" as in all men see their wife only for satisfaction? get real! you dont know them and you haven't got a pint size of a right to accuse them of that. Again dont speak for others you have neither met or even herd of.
Obviously I wasn't speaking of all Middle-easten countries but from the most conservatives one that's just how it is. Plus your taking your own experience as a way of proof that they do leave the nest. First of all don't take that litterally, second, if you claim that any of these women have as much freedom as the ones in West then your dellusional.
So we went from never leaving the nest, meaning hardly leaving the house to having as much freedom as the females in the west, thats a big jump, the point i was trying to make is the opportunity for rape is definitely there. period, That's the reason you used to explain the low rape cases in those countries wasnt it? i'm pretty sure it is
The boring stuff of this whole debate is that I feel us muslims try to portrait countries and our religion too well. Why bother, if someone is interested let him seek to the knowledge. I didn't read his comment as I mostly skip through bullshit posts like that (ain't worth responding too really) but the reason I responded to this is cause I feel alot of muslims are trying to spread propaganda using their societies as examples where there is major flaws. I don't know.. I'm off to bed anyway...
Well i really suggest you read what im replying to before you reply to me. I'm not trying to paint an imaginary image of all Islamic countries like they're some of the best societies to live in, No, i have the right to defend my beliefs and point to the Ignorant that the dream world they live in is equally as bad as the rest in many different ways.