Okay, so my dad is a jap and my mom is white american. True story, god bless my mom, teenage exchange student from Minnesota to Japan in the 70s. she stood out like a sore thumb, first to wear a miniskirt in the region, some bumfuck backward ass village, reprimanded for chewing gum in class. The japanese high school students would ask her for a strand her blond hair like it's some kind of good luck charm, no joke. She paid her dues and I love her for it!! My own blood disrespects her these days. America fuckked. So, all I want to say is take care of your family, breathe the same air with them. Just spend time..... time is precious.