Agree A LOT with "nursing home" part. They call it "senior living" here now.
The example reverberates with other social problems.
There are lots of nasty shit that goes on in those places and I would never ever put my family in one.
It's going to change but I'm afraid the change is forced and for the benefit of a few. We can't rely on
these people leaders in the West with this. They'll fuck it up like everything else. That much is clear to me.
I'm a technological conservative (? lol). Instagram is fine, but it can be used in better ways. Teaching to utilize a tool in proper efficient way is not a problem. I think the problem with children and digital socialization has been around even before covid and during the pandemic while American teachers and parents were arguing I just kept thinking - if "lower IQ" is a concern, why not engage with the child? I mean, does it really take a room full of talking kids to raise a child's IQ?
At one point, I had to pause and imagine being a child going to classes for a year without ever seeing other children's facial expression - it would have been a trouble for me - I agree the impact is there. Those things we can overcome easily in my mind but I'm afraid the problem is that they're not going to let the people improve that easily....
And then, another issue to be taken into account is how this all fits in with western economic growth. I'm not super into economics, never traded stocks, even for a bit of fun. I'm more the kinda guy that wish I could afford an organic farm. If I could grow everything I need and maybe even sell a little bit of it, and otherwise be self-serving, maybe I could get away with not having a regular day job. I 100% will never do it, but I like to daydream about it.
But if we look at world poverty, we're definitely doing something right in the west. I have this stereotypical (and probably discriminating) idea that poor people in poor countries still have generational housing where great grandparents, grandparents, parents and children live in the same house. I'm basically talking out of my ass at this point, but I can't shake the gut feeling that there's a correlation between the way we've divided up the logistics of taking care of everyone, and the way our economies are ever growing. Crudely put, when mommy and daddy can both go to work, they can both supply the family with an income. And when they don't have to spend their evenings catching up with everything they would have had to do throughout the day in a more "primitive" scenario, they maybe have more "oomph" the next day. Maybe the best of us wouldn't be so remarkable if they were burdened with these innate-to-human-life chores that we've dealt away with in the west. I just know from sensing my own feelings that I have more to give when less is demanded of me. And then, in periods where the demands are really high, I'm really just trying to keep my head above water. I can't tell if that's a product of the life I've lived, or something more primal and typically human. Maybe I'm bullshitting myself here, but I honestly believe the relief of burden is a cornerstorne of western life, and thusly, that western life would tip over if we removed it.
But with the environment and the food crisis, and population that will (definitely) increase before it (speculatively) zeroes out at, what was it, 11 billion? I forget but I saw a TED talk from the guy that presented the idea and compelling points were made for why that's feasible. These current issues may inform us that we need to adjust our expected life quality down a few notches and accept something less sweet than what we have now (but still 10x better than where we came from). Maybe chasing the utopian society is the mistake, and the right course of action is accepting compromises to a greater degree than we do today. Maybe we need to redefine the idea of rights into something that doesn't make us feel so entitled in all these ways that's different from one person to the next, and therefore, making it increasingly more difficult for our systems to remain stable. Wow, that's the tyrant in me seeping through. Anyway lol, I think it's a cool and very meta idea that I like to think about.
I actually work as a care-taker. Not in a nursing home, but with disabled children. This all spurred out of me thinking about how many sets of nitrile gloves I use on one shift. Then thinking about how many people are on shift right now in my little shitty town. I came up with a rough estimate, then scaled that up to our population size. I forget what numbers I landed on, but when you consider the whole world, and care-takers using nitrile gloves every time they wipe someone's ass, and all those gloves being sent in plastic bags along with diapers and other shit to be burned or whatever the fuck happens to it... then no matter if we all reduce our glove usage by 75%, which is unthinkably good, the numbers are still so crazy. Just for gloves. Then there's like 3000 more categories. What about plastic syringes that come packed in plastic to be sterile? I don't see any viable alternatives, nor any ways to reduce the usage without also incurring worse public health on everyone. And then thinking about the microplastics issue and how we're never gonna hit any meaningful milestones in our attempt to save the environment as long as things like this is allowed to continue. But without gloves, a lot of those asses would go unwiped. So what do we do, accept a worldwide sore butthole problem? I don't even wanna think about how much zinc balm we would have to produce to relieve all those sore assholes. The problem is that shit's too good right now. We should have stopped the development when we had linen diapers. We didn't need to advance from that, but we did, and now we're used to something way better and easier, and no one's gonna wanna be the first to take two steps backwards. Or something. Not very eloquently put but I think this is a side of...
some issue, that's worth taking into consideration.
What can we take home from this? As far as the issues go, nothing. As far as what we as humans should do? Don't judge environmentalists. But don't judge people that don't give a fuck, either. It's hard to tell rights from wrongs in the final equation, with all things considered. We're between lots of rocks and lots of hard places. Truth is subjective. Final grade: so-so. The fence is starting to dig it's way into my ass cheeks and my balls hurt.