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keco52

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Yeah, I give my number.
Why don't you just tell Mr. July 28 that you're not interested. Same as Mr. Weekend.

There's nothing wrong with being direct with a person, it's like ripping off a bandage quickly - at first it's a pain, but you're relieved within seconds. It's better than having to deal with the same person every week or so, hoping he gets the message.
If we have been on more than a couple of dates or had sober sex at least once, I'm direct...otherwise, I think the fadeout is perfectly acceptable.

I was direct with a guy last week and he sent me a picture of bs breakup lines and we had only been on one date/one kiss. AND he told me about another date he had and said "I'm keeping my options open." He said "I don't think I'll want to hang out as much anymore" and i told him I understood but then he asked me the very next day if I had plans for the weekend.

??? No win situation.
 

Flipmo

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If we have been on more than a couple of dates or had sober sex at least once, I'm direct...otherwise, I think the fadeout is perfectly acceptable.

I was direct with a guy last week and he sent me a picture of bs breakup lines and we had only been on one date/one kiss. AND he told me about another date he had and said "I'm keeping my options open." He said "I don't think I'll want to hang out as much anymore" and i told him I understood but then he asked me the very next day if I had plans for the weekend.

??? No win situation
Sounds like a crazy person to me. I guess just keep replying with cold distant answers.
I can't remember the area where you live, but lots of crazies there it seems.

Gurrrl, you got to get out dat hell hole, naw whadda mean? *snaps finger*
 

keco52

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Sounds like a crazy person to me. I guess just keep replying with cold distant answers.
I can't remember the area where you live, but lots of crazies there it seems.

Gurrrl, you got to get out dat hell hole, naw whadda mean? *snaps finger*
*nods* I know. I met July 28 when I was working in PA though. I don't always attract clingers...but when I do, they are stage 5.
 

Pittsey

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If we have been on more than a couple of dates or had sober sex at least once, I'm direct...otherwise, I think the fadeout is perfectly acceptable.

I was direct with a guy last week and he sent me a picture of bs breakup lines and we had only been on one date/one kiss. AND he told me about another date he had and said "I'm keeping my options open." He said "I don't think I'll want to hang out as much anymore" and i told him I understood but then he asked me the very next day if I had plans for the weekend.

??? No win situation.
He was trying to show you how cool he was. Acting aloof, and showing how successful he is with the ladies. It obviously back-fired. lol
 

dilla

Trumpfan17 aka Coonie aka Dilla aka Tennis Dog
I don't think I've ever done any of the things to girls that a lot of girls tell me guys do to them. The lines they say, the stunts they pull, the extent to which they would go for vag. I don't care how bad you want it or how hot she is, if she shows signs of not being interested, I tell myself to fuck off. It happens. But I feel it all lies in how you react to it. If you push back even harder and try and resist his/her disinterest, you risk become the butt of a joke he/she tells their friends about how you can't take a hint. And I would hate that for myself. I hate it when girls tell me of other guys I know (usually from our school) that say some shit that seems so out of character for them. Maybe the girls lie or exaggerate a little bit to get sympathy. But I've seen some guys go ape shit over poon. More ape shit than someone should be over some strange.

Now, if it's someone you like-like, then it's different. The rules change, but still, not by much.
 

S O F I

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for the past year or so, i've moved on to shirts without graphics. i wear a lot of v-necks like other hipster douchebags, but even the ones i don't, they're all just solid colors with no graphics. i can't rock graphics anymore, i'll be a quarter century in december. grown man shit.
 

Jokerman

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Vagina costumes? I want one for Halloween. "You pussy!" Me- "Uh, yeah." I liked to have shown up there in a penis costume and chased them around.

 

Da_Funk

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for the past year or so, i've moved on to shirts without graphics. i wear a lot of v-necks like other hipster douchebags, but even the ones i don't, they're all just solid colors with no graphics. i can't rock graphics anymore, i'll be a quarter century in december. grown man shit.
Hahahaha yeah.
 

Flipmo

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for the past year or so, i've moved on to shirts without graphics. i wear a lot of v-necks like other hipster douchebags, but even the ones i don't, they're all just solid colors with no graphics. i can't rock graphics anymore, i'll be a quarter century in december. grown man shit.
I'm at that point as well. Been for the last year or so.
 

Ristol

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I'm really, really glad I'm not involved in the whole dating thing. I make no effort to impress women. I'm a good dad and a completely nonsexual being and I like to eat chicken. That's the deal, and I couldn't be happier.
 

Da_Funk

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for the past year or so, i've moved on to shirts without graphics. i wear a lot of v-necks like other hipster douchebags, but even the ones i don't, they're all just solid colors with no graphics. i can't rock graphics anymore, i'll be a quarter century in december. grown man shit.
One thing I've noticed about Australia is that guys, and to a lesser extent women, are perfectly content to go around as walking advertisements. I don't get it.
 

Pittsey

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One thing I've noticed about Australia is that guys, and to a lesser extent women, are perfectly content to go around as walking advertisements. I don't get it.
Some people in the UK and USA do it too.

I have noticed Prada have written Prada, albeit it's small and embossed rather than written, on their new shoes. $800 a pair and have Prada written on them. I hate logos.
 

keco52

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I was so starstruck last night lol. I always see Dave Chapelle around...he used to go to my gym but I've never had the chance to just sit down and hang out with him. :)
 

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