For those who believe in god, why do you PERSONALLY think god is real?
I don't mean from what you read in religious texts.
PERSONALLY.
I don't mean from what you read in religious texts.
PERSONALLY.
i dont have a lot of faith but i do have some. i personally believe in god because without some higher power i feel like its kinda hard to find any real meaning in life. i really think that everything happens for a reason, and everything you do, good or bad, comes back full circle sooner or later. if i didnt have some small hope in a god, its like- whats the point of living a good honest life.
lol no offense but i cant stand when people say everything happens for a reason. i have countless friends that say it and it drives me insane. things do not happen for a reason. this world is not all about us. things happen because they happen. sadly, that's all.
whats the point of living a good honest life.
This kind of logic scares me.Don't say 'no offense'. You have a very valid and correct point, it doesn't fucking matter if you offend someone that doesn't agree with it.
You read WAYYYYYYYY too much into that Preach.
My point with what you quoted was simply this: Nobody should have to "apologize" for their opinion. Compassion comes into play when you choose whether to express the opinion in the first place or not.
If you're compassionate enough to care about, to use your example, a fat person, then don't call them fat. Don't say "no offense but you're fat". Clearly, in that situation, you didn't really care if you caused offence, because if you cared that much you wouldn't have said it in the first place, or found a compassionate way of saying it.
If you're assertive enough to express potentially controversial opinions, then you should have the balls to not try and sugar coat it. Saying "no offense" is just pointless because 99/100 you probably are going to offend them and prefixing it with that statement isn't going to change that. Express your opinions and stand by them.
I actually agree with this. Saying "no offence" is quite redundant and pointless in my opinion. Obviously, if you're saying that, you're aware of the implications of what you're about to say - you already know it may cause offence. To say "no offence" in front of it as a means to somehow reduce its degree of offensiveness is just silly.
Casey you seem to think that by saying no offense one devalues their point to avoid confrontation.
It's not about devaluation one's point, it's just trying to be more I guess "nice" about it.
Maybe you meant that but the way you put it sounded like "fuck what other people think, I'm entitled to my opinion and fuck others' opinions". Which btw seems to be the way you act toward meat, god, apple, and anything else that is not what you believe in.
People need something to believe in.
Everyone has faith in some higher power or some perspective that helps them face death and other things that are out of our control as human beings.
The more desperate ones end up in sects where they are abused financially, physically and psychologically.
You're putting words into my mouth. That isn't what I said at all. Read again - nobody should have to apologize for their opinion.
I understand why it happens. However, you're saying the same thing regardless of whether you tack on that prefix or not. Sometimes, people NEED to feel that you are attacking them in order to get the message across. If you were truly passionate about the point, you wouldn't say it. I haven't said that phrase ONCE in my life, ever.
If you REALLY wanted to be nice about an opinion that could offend someone, you would not say it in the first place.
Hmm, judgemental much? You've just showed that you skim over most of what I write as opposed to reading it and letting it sink in.
When I post about meat, god, apple, etc, I'm generally not expressing opinions, I'm expressing FACTS. That's the difference between the way I debate and the way 99% of people on this board do. Every debate I've ever been in, I can back it up with evidence and facts, and there's no way that anyone debating against me will be able to pull out more evidence or facts than I do, because I don't debate topics that I'm not passionate enough about to know everything about them. The only person that can do that shit better than me on this board is Jokerman, and 99% of the time we see eye-to-eye on everything.
If you think I'm simply expressing opinions in my debates, you have not been reading them properly, and if you haven't been reading them properly, then it seems fruitless to discuss them forthwith.
You're generalizing. I believe in myself. I don't "need" anything else to believe in.
I don't and I have no issue facing death or anything beyond my control. My mother died when I was 4 years old, and not once have I needed any sort of faith or belief in anything to "help me". People live, people die. That's it. It sucks when people die, but everyone else's lives go on.
To believe in something else having any sort of measure of control over your life is doing yourself a disservice as human being and preventing you from being all that you can be. I dislike when actors and musicians win awards and spout some nonsense about being thankful to god, when really they should be thanking the huge team of people that busted their asses in order for that person to be winning that award. The actor that wins an Oscar shouldn't be thanking a non-existent deity, he should be thanking the director, screenwriter, cameramen, producers, editors, other actors, crewmember, runners, etc .The singer that wins a Grammy should be thanking their producer, management and the marketing staff at their record label.
All religions, but more specifically cults and sects prey on the vulnerable. It's why you see Scientologists setting up tents at tragedy scenes.
Prince, for example, was brainwashed into the Jehovah's Witness cult at a time when he had lost his infant son, his mother, and had just been divorced and experienced a disappointing return on an album that he had put a lot of effort into, but was ultimately ruined by misguided interference by Clive Davis and Arista Records. A string of tragedies and misfortune like this would test most people's resolve, even if they are only slightly religious.
On some level, this happens to most people. People become more religious at hard times. It would never happen to me though, because I'm an atheist. The worst of events isn't going to convince me that there is a god, because my reasonings are based on factual evidence, or lack of it.
