What would you do when a friend breaks your trust?

[Amara]

They know who they are... as do I.

 

[k69atie]

have you spoke to them about it?

 

[Synful*Luv]

That sucks, I say talk to them still. I don't know, i'm the type of person, I always feel like I need an explanation. *shrugs shoulders* then again, I guess I don't.

 

[Amara]

have you spoke to them about it?

Nope but I think I've made the move to state what I know, so it's up to them if they wanna clear their conscience to make the most of this opportunity and message me or email me or something. But then considering some advice from sara, if I have to ask for an apology then it wont mean anything.

 

[k69atie]

yeah that's a good point

 

[ArtsyGirl]

Why do people find other peoples lives so interesting that they gotta talk about it so much? Anway hope that person can be woman enough to come forward.

 

[Amara]

Why do people find other peoples lives so interesting that they gotta talk about it so much? Anway hope that person can be woman enough to come forward.

Yeah, I dunno... seriously didnt think anyone would say anything and that I was being over precautious in asking for privacy. oh well. lol.

Still no word...............................

 

[k69atie]

maybe they could be punished? (a ban from all about you? for example)

 

[_carmi]

well i guess just pm'ing amara would be a good start. then exclusion from the FF could be done after.

but amara if the girl never comes up to you to tell you, what are you gonna do?

 

[ArtsyGirl]

maybe they could be punished? (a ban from all about you? for example)

I was thinkin something like that..

 

[k69atie]

yeah it seems the only thing to do, or give them a warning and then after that they are banned?

 

[ArtsyGirl]

I figure the person knew that this forum was just for Femme Fatale therefore us girls only. Theres the thread saying Whats said in here stays in here, so there was fair warning. If it were my choice I'd kick the person out of FF altogether, especially since she hasnt even come forward.

 

[keco52]

I just got lost. I hope the person who said something apologized?

 

[Amara]

^ No they didnt. Disrespectful and gutless apparently. I find it very hard to believe she read this without knowing it was her.

What now?

 

[Helena]

do you know she read this?
you could say her name here. or if you have her on msn...confront her directly?

 

[keco52]

Is it me? I know I've never talked about you...I don't even have time to get on aim or msn...but I don't know...anyone could make something up...???

You don't feel right just naming the person?

 

[Amara]

^ Yeah I dont feel right about naming them, thought they might own up. Nah it's not you though keco, lol @ you know you havent talked about me, but this got you questioning your conscience? Sorry... :sad: happened to a couple of the other girls too. I seem to be making all the wrong people worry!

Yeah Helena, I can tell she's read it. One of the perks of being an Admin I can see who reads what even if they're invisible... *evil laugh*

 

[keco52]

^ Yeah I dont feel right about naming them, thought they might own up. Nah it's not you though keco, lol @ you know you havent talked about me, but this got you questioning your conscience? Sorry... :sad: happened to a couple of the other girls too. I seem to be making all the wrong people worry!

Yeah Helena, I can tell she's read it. One of the perks of being an Admin I can see who reads what even if they're invisible... *evil laugh*

:/ I try not to talk about ppl but I dunno I've slipped up a couple times...never to be cruel or gossip but ya know. :shrugs: Hopefully she didn't do it to be nasty...

But damnit I don't ever wanna piss Amara off...She had me scared even tho I didn't do anything :laugh:

 

[Suzy]

so everything in here stays strictly confidential? and someone has abused that? WOW, that's bad...reading some of the threads made, you girls seem like a very tight-nit community and it's not very nice to know that there is a Judas amongst you.

by the way, seeing as this person has abused your trust, don't you think it's only fair that the rest of you girls should know who it is, so you know not to tell that person anything that they don't want anyone else to know? i mean, u've given her a chance to own up and apologise and she hasn't....


i'm sorry, i don't want to seem like i'm interfering in you girls' business, i just thought i should state my opinion

 

[_carmi]

^nah its fine. you're part of the family now