What if your child said he was gay?

[Robert Key]

i would disown my son/daughter if they were gay. though i would try my damn hardest to convince them "THERES NO SUCH THING AS BEING GAY". but if they wanted to live their life as a poof i'd tell them to fuck off, that they've disgraced the family name, and never to set foot in the house again.

just to add, theres so much gay stuff on t.v. these days so i wouldnt be surprised if someone's child here grows up to be "gay". t.v. is filled with gays being accepted and being successful in real life, which in reality isn't true.

i also dont believe one can be born gay. i think it's some mental disease thats picked up through life being turned on by men and not women.

 

[Sebastian]

i will sue this guy..because it hurts reading this nonsense

 

[not really ken]

i would disown my son/daughter if they were gay. though i would try my damn hardest to convince them "THERES NO SUCH THING AS BEING GAY". but if they wanted to live their life as a poof i'd tell them to fuck off, that they've disgraced the family name, and never to set foot in the house again.

just to add, theres so much gay stuff on t.v. these days so i wouldnt be surprised if someone's child here grows up to be "gay". t.v. is filled with gays being accepted and being successful in real life, which in reality isn't true.

i also dont believe one can be born gay. i think it's some mental disease thats picked up through life being turned on by men and not women.

your 'thaheartless' right?

 

[k69atie]

I would support them, i can imagine coming out to your parents is a very hard thing to do,the last thing they would need is for their parents to disown them or try and talk them out of it. at the end of the day they are my flesh and blood, i'm going to love them no matter what

 

[not really ken]

no matter what

i'm sorry but will everyone stop saying this, it's not true

 

[-=ArtofWar=-]

Well I'll accept my sons decision but as long as he lives under my house he'll have to go straight cause Im not going to let him have any boyfriends we gonna go to strip joints on weekends where there is only women buy his ass lesbo magazines cause I dun want him looking at the man force his ass to get a girlfriend when he is able to leave the house if his still gay atleast I know I tryed if I was able to changed his mind atleast I accomplished the impossible and if he went both ways atleast I got him to love women

 

[bigmack]

lol, the whole argument is based on the "if u dont see a problem" part...

i would know that its wrong to do, but i still wouldnt have a problem doing it thats why i would still be doing it.you're confused little boy. stop trying to make shit up because you ran out of arguments.im done with u :thumb:

 

[dedbrd]

i would disown my son/daughter if they were gay. though i would try my damn hardest to convince them "THERES NO SUCH THING AS BEING GAY". but if they wanted to live their life as a poof i'd tell them to fuck off, that they've disgraced the family name, and never to set foot in the house again.

just to add, theres so much gay stuff on t.v. these days so i wouldnt be surprised if someone's child here grows up to be "gay". t.v. is filled with gays being accepted and being successful in real life, which in reality isn't true.

i also dont believe one can be born gay. i think it's some mental disease thats picked up through life being turned on by men and not women.

i guess elton john, ellen and rosie o'donnell are not successful in real life, in reality they must just be acting that way?

 

[Jokerman]

I would find a gay prostitute and have sex with him until it allowed me to accept my gay son.

 

[Illuminattile]

if i snorted coke and smoked crack, i would know its wrong to do it(even if i was still doing it),thats why i wouldnt want my kids to do it.hypocritical? sure it is,so what,call me a hypocrite.

read ken's post above.

Ken's post said pretty much the same thing I did. If you smoke crack because you're addicted to it, but you realise that it's wrong and you DO have a problem doing it then it's not hypocritical to say to your kids "Don't do drugs". Oral sex is a different matter. Unless you're addicted to oral sex, I don't see how you can enjoy receiving it yourself, but find it completely scandalous for your daughter to perform it.

but if they wanted to live their life as a poof i'd tell them to fuck off, that they've disgraced the family name, and never to set foot in the house again.

Hitting them where it hurts, the surname. Why would a homosexual want to live in the same house as his or her bigot of a father?

just to add, theres so much gay stuff on t.v. these days so i wouldnt be surprised if someone's child here grows up to be "gay".

Right, because a guy sees Elton John getting lots of praise and lots of money and goes "You know what? I'd like to fuck a guy".

t.v. is filled with gays being accepted and being successful in real life, which in reality isn't true.

You're right, I can't name a single accepted or successful homosexual. They all live in caves, ostracised from heterosexual society and left to die of starvation.

 

[TecK NeeX]

I see it mentioned in the post you were referring to.
"I can see your future kids waiting in line at the abortion/hiv clinic with all that crap you said"
All that crap he said was about oral sex.

Little things do really affect little minds, my post was aimed at his statement regarding parents should allow their children enjoy things simply because the parents enjoy it, it was aimed at his post in general, hence i did not mention 'oral sex'.. stop nit picking, i can break it down for you if this does not somehow go through

That's hypocrisy. If you enjoy something and see no problem with it, why should you have a problem with your children doing it?

No I call that a caring responsible parent, I brought my children into this world, they are my belongings. until they're old enough to care for themselves i will decide whats right and whats wrong for them.

I will raise em up to not be part of 1) the millions of teenagers out there running around pregnant with absolutely no way of taking care of their offspring 2) God knows how man girls waiting in line at abortion clinics and 3) thousands if not millions of HIV positive girls who get used more than kleenex. I will not give my daughter the chance to be among that population nor will i give my son the chance to be among the millions of teenage dads out there running from the women they got pregnant, I dont want a girl knocking on my door telling me that my son had got her pregnant and needs child support which i will end up paying. you call that hypocrisy? you dont even know the meaning of the word.

what parent in their right mind would not want that for their offsprings? apparently not you and the reason and only reason why you would disagree with me on this is because of the fact that religion forbids it!, seems like you're out on a mission to preach the exact opposite of what religions teaches.

If religion encouraged parents to allow their children to engage in sexaul intercourse i guarantee you would be in this same thread calling these sort of commands sick, disgusting or whatever

Bullshit. Turn on any daytime chat show and you'll see a bunch of close-minded, ignorant parents just like yourself complaining about how their son or daughter is gay. You think every homosexual comes from a family that were supportive of their child's sexuality? No. You're no different to any of the other homophobic parents who ended up having homosexual kids.

How did you come to the conclusion that i'm a homophobe? when did i ever attack homosexuals? i never once in my entire life cursed a homosexual, i was taught to not judge people for what path in life they decide to take and let God decide their fate. If you think im homophobic simply because i believe homosexuality is unnatural than that makes you a homosexual for believing it is. As long as i raise my child the way I was raised i have NOTHING to worry about

 

[The.Menace]

Originally Posted by The.Menace
Ok. So how are you children supposed to have sex, what's the right way 2 have sex? .

sex doesnt have to be oral sex dumbfuck

I know that, but still this is not an anwser to my question. If oral sex is that bad that your kids shouldn't do it, how are they supposed to have sex? What is the right way 2 have sex? Or shouldn't they have sex at all?

Either you think coke is fine or you don't. It's perfectly possible for you to do something yourself that you don't agree with, because you can't stop. Obviously if you're addicted to crack and realise how fucked up it is, you won't want your childrent to get hooked on it.

right It's bullshit to compare drugs to oral sex. Coke can destroy a life so therefor so you don't want your kids to do it, oral sex more likley won't do that.

And Tech, it's about oral sex in gerneral, u don't want your daugther to have a child at the age of 17, that's ok. But we're talkin about oral sex in general, so what if your daugther is married and with a guy she loves - isn't she allowed to give him a blowjob? ... in Bickmack's view she isn't.

 

[not really ken]

Ken's post said pretty much the same thing I did. If you smoke crack because you're addicted to it, but you realise that it's wrong and you DO have a problem doing it then it's not hypocritical to say to your kids "Don't do drugs". Oral sex is a different matter. Unless you're addicted to oral sex, I don't see how you can enjoy receiving it yourself, but find it completely scandalous for your daughter to perform it.

hmm, I think Bigmack himself does view oral sex similar to cocaine abuse. NOT the oral sex itself but everything that is entailed and is part of the same terriotry as oral sex. Sleeping around, being promiscuous, having children out of wedlock being a slut of sorts.
When it comes to the issue of oral sex, most of you are viewing it as just that, blow jobs! But big mack is looking at the bigger picture of his daughter sleeping around and trying out all the other 'candy' that the 'store' has to offer.

 

[bigmack]

right It's bullshit to compare drugs to oral sex. Coke can destroy a life so therefor so you don't want your kids to do it, oral sex more likley won't do that.

oh with coke my point is valid but with oral sex it becomes invalid. ur a funny man.

But we're talkin about oral sex in general, so what if your daugther is married and with a guy she loves - isn't she allowed to give him a blowjob? ... in Bickmack's view she isn't.

man are you really that stupid? who said anything about when she gets married? thats a totally different story.

does someone go to someone's wife and tell her, you got fucked by your husband? hell no.would they tell her, you sucked your husbands cock? again no.if it was someone she was dating,or maybe a random guy,he might go around telling alot of people she gives me head,then they can call her a cocksucker. if she was married do you think her husband would go around telling his friends and other people about how he got some ass? or some head?? think about it? its a totally different story.

i wouldnt want my daugher to have oral sex before getting married,let alone sex at all for these reasons. when she gets married she can have any type of sex she wants.nobody's gonna go call her a cocksucker then now are they?

 

[The.Menace]

BUT WE AREN'T TALKIN ABOUT THE BIGGER PICTURE. We don't. I said now 3 times, what if you're daugther is married and in love, she isn't allowed to give someone a blowjob? And how is a blow job connected with beein a slut? If so, everyone of you that ever got a blowjob is a slut. That doesn't make sense.

 

[not really ken]

so what if your daugther is married and with a guy she loves - isn't she allowed to give him a blowjob? ... in Bickmack's view she isn't.

I'm married, I would never recieve oral sex from my wife though. HEr father would hope for the same and would trust me to make this decision. <--this is what it's like in our community. If you even talk about receiving oral sex from your wife you lose a lot of respect. Becasue a mans actions and desires speak volumes about his charachter.

And if I had a daughter and she was married to some guy who was asking her to perform oral sex. IF I found out, I would cum into a cup and say to my son-in-law, drink this cup of cum first and then you can go get a blow job of my daughter. If he didn't still come to his senses, then he was not nowhere near up to my standards (i'd be an over protective father) and it would be of to camping for a few days of 'getting to know each other better'

just my 2 cents

 

[The.Menace]

oh with coke my point is valid but with oral sex it becomes invalid. ur a funny man.

You really don't get the difference between oral sex and crack?

who said anything about when she gets married? thats a totally different story.

I said that. 3 times. If you aren't able 2 read I can't help you and I don't know what are you doing on a msgboard.

i wouldnt want my daugher to have oral sex before getting married,let alone sex at all for these reasons. when she gets married she can have any type of sex she wants.nobody's gonna go call her a cocksucker then now are they?

Why not? she still suckin dick right? Thsi si exactly what you said 2 pages ago, if she does it she does deserve it to be called cocksucker.

 

[bigmack]

BUT WE AREN'T TALKIN ABOUT THE BIGGER PICTURE. We don't. I said now 3 times, what if you're daugther is married and in love, she isn't allowed to give someone a blowjob? And how is a blow job connected with beein a slut? If so, everyone of you that ever got a blowjob is a slut. That doesn't make sense.

i'll tell you what. when you have a daughter and she becomes a teenager ill let her suck my dick,then ill go and tell all your friends about the experience :thumb:

 

[not really ken]

BUT WE AREN'T TALKIN ABOUT THE BIGGER PICTURE. We don't. I said now 3 times, what if you're daugther is married and in love, she isn't allowed to give someone a blowjob? And how is a blow job connected with beein a slut? If so, everyone of you that ever got a blowjob is a slut. That doesn't make sense.

blow job out of wedlock and blowjob within wedlock is different. Like sex outside of wedlock and sex within wedlock is different.
A blow job isn't always neccesarily connected with being a slut. But I've never heard of someone who doesnt't give blowjobs or other sexual favours being called a slut.
You'd think that giving blowjobs would more qualify you for the title of slut and besides who decides the definition of a slut, it's all subjective.
And yes, if you;ve ever given a blow job outside of marriage you are a slut to me.

 

[The.Menace]

i'll tell you what. when you have a daughter and she becomes a teenager ill let her suck my dick,then ill go and tell all your friends about the experience :thumb:

You wouldn't want a blowob cause it's all bad, so this will not happen. Over all you don't have no arguments no more and didn't anwser one single question so far so let's jsut say this convo is over and you lost. I can live with that.

ken, I can accept you'r opionion cause you pratice what you preach, bickmack is not.