What if your child said he was gay?

[HitEmUp21]

I love my family to death, but they are my family, they're not my friends. And parents need to be a childs friend as well.

It's the same way with me, and one thing I will try to ensure for my children is that they get someone that they can talk to, that they don't feel suppresses them emotionally, someone that at least understands and doesn't ridicule everything that someone may do.

Seriously, all the people here making comments really are just talking a lot of stuff that they have no idea about, nearly everyone who replied doesn't even have children, let alone children that are homosexual, so we really can't accurately say how we would act in such a situation.

 

[The.Menace]

if she does it then she deserves to be called that. i teach my kids that if they do something wrong then they need to take full responsibility for it. if its true,my kid will know it.if its not true,then my kid will know it too.i make them as trustworthy as possible with me,so if something is up,they tell me the truth.if they dont tell me the truth and i find out,then that trust is gone and its gonna take a hell of alot of time for me to begin trusting them.

If they do something wrong? So it's wrong for your daugther to give a blowjob to a guy. Ok. So how are you children supposed to have sex, what's the right way 2 have sex? None I guess. I'm pretty sure you enjoyed oral sex, but it's wrong for your kids to do it?

I don't know, your views seem really fucked up - and I tell you something, I wouldn't be surprised if your education leads the kids in a wrong direction. Seriously, you make yourself look like a father no kid wants....don't be surprised if your children all move out as soon as possible.

 

[TecK NeeX]

If they do something wrong? So it's wrong for your daugther to give a blowjob to a guy. Ok. So how are you children supposed to have sex, what's the right way 2 have sex? None I guess. I'm pretty sure you enjoyed oral sex, but it's wrong for your kids to do it?

I can see your future kids waiting in line at the abortion/hiv clinic with all that crap you said, re-read it man, the idiocy packed in it is unbelievable.

what you're saying is

1- if the father was a male slut back in his day and had his dick sucked on a daily basis then there is nothing wrong with your children experiencing the same because the father did it. fantastic advice buddy :thumb: wtf happened to parents not wanting their children go through parents went through?

2- your children should grow up to be just like the parents no matter how fucked up their lives were.

3- you're making it sound like if your child does not practice oral sex he/she will never be able to have sexual intercourse for the rest of his/her life. with your "if its wrong for your children to have oral sex, OK, so how are your children supposed to have sex?" there is more to sex than just oral sex, you do know that right? wow

and now in your own words

"I don't know, your views seem really fucked up - and I tell you something, I wouldn't be surprised if your education leads the kids in a wrong direction"

 

[The.Menace]

No what I'm saying is......all the guys enjoy a blowjob, but as soon as it comes to your own daugther it's all bad? What's that?

so you better go and re-read it.

1 - I never said the father is a male slut, I just talk about oral sex. I never said daily base and I never said it couldn't be your wife that gives you a blow job.

2 - when did I say that? I say if my son says he's gay I won't disown him and I'm not gay so you basically got everything wrong, if there is someone that wants his children to be thinkin like himself it's bickmack.

3 - I never said that. We were talkin about gays, then about oral sex. So did I. I don't know why you try to pick on me but I hope you enjoyed it.

Now chill, cause you got everything wrong - until this moment I thought of you as an intelligent person.....I'm in doubt now.

 

[Illuminattile]

I can see your future kids waiting in line at the abortion/hiv clinic with all that crap you said, re-read it man, the idiocy packed in it is unbelievable.

Why, because he doesn't have anything against oral sex? Run that one by me again...

1- if the father was a male slut back in his day and had his dick sucked on a daily basis then there is nothing wrong with your children experiencing the same because the father did it. fantastic advice buddy :thumb: wtf happened to parents not wanting their children go through parents went through?

Obviously you view oral sex as 'wrong' or 'immoral' or whatever, but he doesn't. And neither do a lot of people. If he has nothing against oral sex, why should he have anything against his offspring engaging in oral sex?

 

[TecK NeeX]

No what I'm saying is......all the guys enjoy a blowjob, but as soon as it comes to your own daugther it's all bad? What's that?

1 - I never said the father is a male slut,

3 - I never said that. We were talkin about gays, then about oral sex. So did I. I don't know why you try to pick on me but I hope you enjoyed it. .

lol Im not trying to pick on you, i might have come at you pretty agressive but thats because i had a hard time swallowing what you said, also you completely misunderstood my point, i used the father being a male slut as an anology that children dont neccessarly have to do what the parents did in their early years,

after all you are the father, not a complete stranger to your children. It is a parents responsibility to educate their offsprings on sexual intercourse, until my children reach adulthood or until they get married, i own them, i dont wanna hear about my daughter sucking dick or gettin nailed at the age of 15, 16, 17, i will teach them better than this, if you dont see anything wrong with that than we are from 2 completely different worlds, but i did find it funny you criticizing bigmack's view after what you said above

its no wonder why teenage pregnancies and abortions is at an all time high

Why, because he doesn't have anything against oral sex? Run that one by me again...

I dont see oral sex mentioned anywhere in my post

Obviously you view oral sex as 'wrong' or 'immoral' or whatever, but he doesn't. And neither do a lot of people. If he has nothing against oral sex, why should he have anything against his offspring engaging in oral sex?

we are not talking about a brother/brother or a sister/sister, we are talking about parent + child, i see a major difference here, there are alot of things a parent might enjoy or have nothing against that they dont want their children involved in. i guess it all comes down to how you view things and what your definition of whats right or wrong

now as for the topic of this thread, I can't share my thoughts on this, i know for a fact that my children will not be 'born' gay as some say, as a firm believer of homosexuality being choice, I have absolutely nothing to worry about, i will raise my children right. thats all it takes

if you disagree with this ^ then go fuck yourself

 

[Glockmatic]

^ and if your kid turns out gay? Will you blame it on the way you raised him/her?

 

[TecK NeeX]

^ and if your kid turns out gay?

The possibility for that to happen to a child growing up under MY roof is zero. its unthinkable on my part.

 

[Illuminattile]

I dont see oral sex mentioned anywhere in my post

I see it mentioned in the post you were referring to.
"I can see your future kids waiting in line at the abortion/hiv clinic with all that crap you said"
All that crap he said was about oral sex.

we are not talking about a brother/brother or a sister/sister, we are talking about parent + child, i see a major difference here, there are alot of things a parent might enjoy or have nothing against that they dont want their children involved in. i guess it all comes down to how you view things and what your definition of whats right or wrong

That's hypocrisy. If you enjoy something and see no problem with it, why should you have a problem with your children doing it?

now as for the topic of this thread, I can't share my thoughts on this, i know for a fact that my children will not be 'born' gay as some say, as a firm believer of homosexuality being choice, I have absolutely nothing to worry about, i will raise my children right. thats all it takes

Bullshit. Turn on any daytime chat show and you'll see a bunch of close-minded, ignorant parents just like yourself complaining about how their son or daughter is gay. You think every homosexual comes from a family that were supportive of their child's sexuality? No. You're no different to any of the other homophobic parents who ended up having homosexual kids.

 

[bigmack]

If they do something wrong? So it's wrong for your daugther to give a blowjob to a guy. .

for me it is...

Ok. So how are you children supposed to have sex, what's the right way 2 have sex? .

sex doesnt have to be oral sex dumbfuck

None I guess. I'm pretty sure you enjoyed oral sex, but it's wrong for your kids to do it? .

yes. u got a problem with that?

I don't know, your views seem really fucked up - and I tell you something, I wouldn't be surprised if your education leads the kids in a wrong direction. Seriously, you make yourself look like a father no kid wants....don't be surprised if your children all move out as soon as possible.

dont be surprised if your children end up blowing your fuckin head off

 

[bigmack]

That's hypocrisy. If you enjoy something and see no problem with it, why should you have a problem with your children doing it?
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so if i snort coke i shouldnt have a problem with my kids doing it???

 

[Sebastian]

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since u do it yourself and enjoy it, no, u shouldnt have a problem with your kids doing it!!

 

[bigmack]

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since u do it yourself and enjoy it, no, u shouldnt have a problem with your kids doing it!!

bullshit....

hey dad what r u smoking there???

oh its crack son!!!!

can i smoke with you???

sure son

 

[Sebastian]

the only thing which is stupid is your opinion and the comments u made in this thread..maybe Illuminattile will explain the "why"...

 

[bigmack]

the only thing which is stupid is your opinion and the comments u made in this thread..maybe Illuminattile will explain the "why"...

you're looking like a fool for calling an opinion stupid....moron

 

[not really ken]

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since u do it yourself and enjoy it, no, u shouldnt have a problem with your kids doing it!!

Flawed.
Although hypocrytical, I don't see how it could be seen as negative. Ultimately the best example is thorugh practicing what your prech/teach.

However, to tell someone to do good regardless of what you yourself do is only a positive. I don't think Bigmack would have a problem with his son receiving a blow job, just with his daughter giving one.
If you morally and ethically acknowledge something is wrong and continue to do so regardless, it doesn't make it right just cos u enjoy it. But to encourage or allow others to do what you consider is wrong although hypocrytical its like the 'two wrongs dont make a right' adage.

Ofcourse if you don;t see a problem with what your doing is a different argument. Though i think both teckneekz and big mack would acknowledge oral sex is wrong both receiving and giving.

 

[bigmack]

Flawed.
Although hypocrytical, I don't see how it could be seen as negative. Ultimately the best example is thorugh practicing what your prech/teach.

However, to tell someone to do good regardless of what you yourself do is only a positive. I don't think Bigmack would have a problem with his son receiving a blow job, just with his daughter giving one.
If you morally and ethically acknowledge something is wrong and continue to do so regardless, it doesn't make it right just cos u enjoy it. But to encourage or allow others to do what you consider is wrong although hypocrytical its like the 'two wrongs dont make a right' adage.

Ofcourse if you don;t see a problem with what your doing is a different argument. Though i think both teckneekz and big mack would acknowledge oral sex is wrong both receiving and giving.

A+ :thumb:

 

[Illuminattile]

dont be surprised if your children end up blowing your fuckin head off

Why, because he doesn't oppose oral sex? Right, I'm sure that's the cause of tons of homicides...

so if i snort coke i shouldnt have a problem with my kids doing it???

If you don't see a problem with yourself snorting coke, why should you see a problem with anyone else snorting coke? Either you think coke is fine or you don't. It's perfectly possible for you to do something yourself that you don't agree with, because you can't stop. Obviously if you're addicted to crack and realise how fucked up it is, you won't want your childrent to get hooked on it.

 

[bigmack]

Why, because he doesn't oppose oral sex? Right, I'm sure that's the cause of tons of homicides....

i was being sarcastic to show him what he said was moronic.it was the same goddamn thing

If you don't see a problem with yourself snorting coke, why should you see a problem with anyone else snorting coke? Either you think coke is fine or you don't. It's perfectly possible for you to do something yourself that you don't agree with, because you can't stop. Obviously if you're addicted to crack and realise how fucked up it is, you won't want your childrent to get hooked on it.

if i snorted coke and smoked crack, i would know its wrong to do it(even if i was still doing it),thats why i wouldnt want my kids to do it.hypocritical? sure it is,so what,call me a hypocrite.

read ken's post above.

 

[Sebastian]

lol, the whole argument is based on the "if u dont see a problem" part...now u go on and say:

if i snorted coke and smoked crack, i would know its wrong to do it(even if i was still doing it),thats why i wouldnt want my kids to do it.hypocritical? sure it is,so what,call me a hypocrite.

...dont tell us to read kens post because u dont even know what u said yourself....no need to argue with a hypocrite anyway.