the official " tell me whats wrong with your life thread"

Amura said:
Sorry if I'm stamping on your turf, Frank. But, some of this I could relate to.
no defintely not, i made this thread for everyone to help each other out, lol, i cant do it all myslef.



Mark Deez said:
aight here goes whats wrong with my life...

frank -

i'm in 10th grade. i've got 2 years left in school and i'm failing. i need to pass all six classes this semester to make it into the 11th grade and it doesn't look like imma do that. all i ever wanna do is rap - thats my only ambition - to work on my craft and try to get better at it. in class, i barely listen anymore. all i do is write raps, its the only thing i can truly focus on. everybody around here has faith in me, they tell me to keep on doing what i'm doing. i'm starting to realize what a mistake i've made. i still think i can graduate in 2007 - just gonna have to go to summer school. whats your advice on this? should i try to focus on school for the next 2 years and then worry bout the rapping? or say fuck school and attempt to meet my goals in rapping as of right now?
im fucked like that to in school, i couldnt study anymore, studying is impossible for me, my mind just drifts so easy into things im acutaly interested in, and it drags in the back of your mind when u know your gonna fail at school.
but, i got to the point in my life where they said to me at school, either catch up on all your work or walk out now. unfortunately i left and regretted not finishing school so bad to the point where it almost made me depressed. 6 months later i woulda paid a million to be able to go back 6 months to the point where i could turned it around and got all my work up to date. but it was too late. anyway what i mean is, your in that stage where you can turn all your work around and have a decent attempt at passing. you'l never be in that situation again, despite however much you hate school. as far as rapping, deifntely keep goin with that. but when its something you love doing i wouldnt wanna make it a task. like if you leave school and work on that your realy relying on it 100% and its probaly not a situation you'd wanna be in. but defintely keep writing man and shit could happen.
 
k69atie said:
I have a crap job, that pays crap money i am single can i cant drive!!

At least you have a job though. May not be what you plan on doing for the rest of your life, but it's a start.

Driving is overrated. Especially when you have to pay shit loads for petrol and insurance and repairs and the odd speeding ticket...lol. Financially, you're better off sticking to public transport or being chauffered around!

You'll meet a great guy sometime, no doubt about that. You're young and attractive with a fun personality. Maybe you just need a change of scenery coz I'd imagine you'd have no trouble meeting people...hey there'd be plenty of hot aussie boys waiting for you here...

FlipMo said:
Been in the mood to saw someone's head off....

lol. Yeah, I felt that way myself yesterday. My dickhead ex has been trying to alienate me from my best friend and another close friend by saying bullshit crap about me... hmm, a saw would come in very handy indeed.


lol @ Grimey calling me Amura! hehehe
 
AmerikazMost said:
that's what 2pacboard is for :p

or are we too boring for you? :mad:
lol, im getting bored of your face! lol j/k no, i was just bored, and had nothing to do, im still bored, not as much tho :)
 
- A university took away a $3000 CAD scholarship because of some mistake in the form i filled (some stupid shit like my 4 looked like a 9 for social security #) and its too late to get it back
- I broke my thumb
- I keep CDs in my garage for when we play basketball outside and listen to music, and someone stole $250 worth of CDs when i left my garage open
- I can't play basketball with my broken thumb
- I can't stop making up fake problems and posting them on message forums









but really, everything is going great. i couldnt complain :thumb:
 
Amara said:
At least you have a job though. May not be what you plan on doing for the rest of your life, but it's a start.

Driving is overrated. Especially when you have to pay shit loads for petrol and insurance and repairs and the odd speeding ticket...lol. Financially, you're better off sticking to public transport or being chauffered around!

You'll meet a great guy sometime, no doubt about that. You're young and attractive with a fun personality. Maybe you just need a change of scenery coz I'd imagine you'd have no trouble meeting people...hey there'd be plenty of hot aussie boys waiting for you here...

Cheers hunny, i have failed my driving test four times (arrgh!!! lol) i am having a break from driving at the mo. costing too much for lessons etc.

I wouldn't mind a hot aussie boy!!! lol. Something happened with a bloke on sat night, but aint got a clue whats going on! Men!!!
 
Amara said:
Oh yeah, I remember that....maybe in DFL if I read it (my main stomping ground, lol).

Good luck with it all. I dont know what the system is like there, but courts are usually quite willing to grant child support unless there are very convincing reasons not to... (seems weird to contest it if they buy some things already, why they wouldnt submit to regularity of payments...silly). Hope it all goes well for you.

Well, it didn't go great. He contested the child support order so now we have to go in front of a judge. The woman we saw today pretty much told him he was gonna be paying regardless of what he has to say but he still contested so we go back May 25th. Then he lied about what he makes. Why they didn't make him prove his income I don't understand but they didn't. They just took his word for it so they only set his payments at $84/week. What kinda shit is that anyway? $84 won't even buy a weeks worth of groceries so I'm still in the same situation. I'm going to talk to somebody next week and tell them that he's lying about his income and I want him to have to prove what he makes when we go to court. He claimed he only makes $10/hr and only works 30 hrs/week which I know for a fact is bullshit. He's a foreman on his job, I know he makes more than that and I know he works at the very least 40 hrs/week, for a fact. He has a house payment, electricity, phone, internet, satellite, makes payments on a brand new car plus the insurance and he thinks Ima believe he does all this on $300/wk? BULLSHIT! And to top it all off, the kids wouldn't go with him when he came to pick them up today so I had em call him earlier and tell him they would be coming to his house in the morning because I have to work. So he tells em he has to work and their step-bitch already made other plans so nobody will be there. So now what am I supposed to do? I have to work and I have nobody to watch them. I'll prolly end up having to call in because I won't have a babysitter.
I just feel like dying right now. Nothing is going right for me and I feel like such a loser. This has to be close to the shittest day I've ever had in my life. :(
 
ToopackShaker said:
- A university took away a $3000 CAD scholarship because of some mistake in the form i filled (some stupid shit like my 4 looked like a 9 for social security #) and its too late to get it back
- I broke my thumb
- I keep CDs in my garage for when we play basketball outside and listen to music, and someone stole $250 worth of CDs when i left my garage open
- I can't play basketball with my broken thumb
- I can't stop making up fake problems and posting them on message forums

lol, I'd die if someone stole my CDs! :D
 
Ive been depressed lately.
My son got suspended for punching some kid in they eye and they are going to press charges ( :rolleyes: )
His mother blamed it on me.
Im hungry but i dont want to leave the house.
 
ToopackShaker said:
- A university took away a $3000 CAD scholarship because of some mistake in the form i filled (some stupid shit like my 4 looked like a 9 for social security #) and its too late to get it back
- I broke my thumb
- I keep CDs in my garage for when we play basketball outside and listen to music, and someone stole $250 worth of CDs when i left my garage open
- I can't play basketball with my broken thumb
- I can't stop making up fake problems and posting them on message forums









but really, everything is going great. i couldnt complain :thumb:
Fuck you, I was about to offer a hug, none of this shit... Anyway, my girlfriend's mom has cancer again and has to go through chemotherapy and that's got her real down.
 
Luv4Pac4Ever said:
Well, it didn't go great. He contested the child support order so now we have to go in front of a judge. The woman we saw today pretty much told him he was gonna be paying regardless of what he has to say but he still contested so we go back May 25th. Then he lied about what he makes. Why they didn't make him prove his income I don't understand but they didn't. They just took his word for it so they only set his payments at $84/week. What kinda shit is that anyway? $84 won't even buy a weeks worth of groceries so I'm still in the same situation. I'm going to talk to somebody next week and tell them that he's lying about his income and I want him to have to prove what he makes when we go to court. He claimed he only makes $10/hr and only works 30 hrs/week which I know for a fact is bullshit. He's a foreman on his job, I know he makes more than that and I know he works at the very least 40 hrs/week, for a fact. He has a house payment, electricity, phone, internet, satellite, makes payments on a brand new car plus the insurance and he thinks Ima believe he does all this on $300/wk? BULLSHIT! And to top it all off, the kids wouldn't go with him when he came to pick them up today so I had em call him earlier and tell him they would be coming to his house in the morning because I have to work. So he tells em he has to work and their step-bitch already made other plans so nobody will be there. So now what am I supposed to do? I have to work and I have nobody to watch them. I'll prolly end up having to call in because I won't have a babysitter.
I just feel like dying right now. Nothing is going right for me and I feel like such a loser. This has to be close to the shittest day I've ever had in my life. :(

Err, what kind of backward system are you living in where they wouldnt ask for proof of income? I have to give proof to get my crappy little health care card. Surely you could make a request to the court to assess income? Just sounds like he is being an ass in regards to the custodial issues, which always frustrates me to think about. Children shouldnt be made to feel they are a burdenening or walking on a tight rope between parents. There arent grandparents, neighbours or parents of your kids friends that could take them when you need? Sorry to hear things are going so badly right now, I hope they get better.
 
Amara said:
Err, what kind of backward system are you living in where they wouldnt ask for proof of income? I have to give proof to get my crappy little health care card. Surely you could make a request to the court to assess income? Just sounds like he is being an ass in regards to the custodial issues, which always frustrates me to think about. Children shouldnt be made to feel they are a burdenening or walking on a tight rope between parents. There arent grandparents, neighbours or parents of your kids friends that could take them when you need? Sorry to hear things are going so badly right now, I hope they get better.

The system here really sucks. I couldn't believe they just took his word for what he makes. And when I know for a fact he's lying, it's even more frustrating. You tell me how somebody works at least 8-9 hrs/day Mon-Thurs, half a day on Fri and lately at least half a day on Sat only gets 30 hrs/wk? First grade math will tell you different than that. Yeah, he's definately being an ass, which is nothing new so I'm basically used to it. It just pisses me off that he's doing his own kids like that, kids that he claims he loves so much. If you love em so much, why you trying to deprive them of things, ya know? And I think the kids are noticing it too because they rarely want to go with him on the weekends which is not good for me cause then I hafta get somebody to watch em. My mom keeps em for me cause I can't afford to pay somebody to keep em. But she's getting to where she's bitching about it lately. So I get really frustrated about it sometimes. I just hope they'll give me a little more than $84/wk so I can pay a babysitter instead of putting them on my mom.
Thanks for all your advice. I really appreciate the listening ear lol It's good to be able to vent sometimes and to have somebody to give an outside take on things. Thanks.
 
i jus feel like life's rushin by so fast... and i had big plans made for when i turned 18 and they jus dont seem like they gonna get done...
 
TG1 Ghetto One said:
i jus feel like life's rushin by so fast... and i had big plans made for when i turned 18 and they jus dont seem like they gonna get done...

Yeah, I understand that. But what I figure is, you really have to work to make things happen, even if it takes years, it never comes easily - you gotta earn it. It's too impatient of us to expect to have accomplished all those goals in such a short space of time, and when you think about it, you really are still very young.... Life may feel like its rushing by but it's really not in the grand scheme of things.
 

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