the official " tell me whats wrong with your life thread"

[Missy "C"]

Ok, here we go...

- I don't have a bf, I've been alone for a VERY long time. (and that means no sex! )
- The only boy I could imagine being with lives 1000 km from my city, and he already has a gf, who makes him suffer a lot.
- All my friends have lots of things to do, I hardly see them, we don't go out together very often.
- I don't have a job, so I don't have any money.
- I'm not sure about taking up a modelling job, but anyway, I feel very insecure of my body sometimes.
- I have lots of exams and all of them are extremely difficult, so I sleep only some hours a day, I have to study all night.
- I'm studying business at college, and I hate it! I wanted to study something like arts, journalism or cinema, but I couldn't, I will never be able to get a decent job if I study something like that.
- I'm supposed to be studying right now, but I'm becoming addicted to TB , I check new posts every a few secods, I can't stop it.
- It's winter, it's too cold outside. I hate cold days.

Thx to whoever made this thread (i'm sorry, I didn't read your name!), I feel a great relief now

 

[Frank Grimes]

Well let's see....my kids drive me nuts, their dad is an asshole, my job is stressful, the rent is due, the electric bill is due, the phone bill is due, the cable bill is due, my car is a piece of shit, trying to find a bigger place to live, my "friend" is trippin', my other "friend" is trippin', my washing machine is fucked up, my love life sucks, my everyday life sucks...um....what else?....I'm sure there's more lol Now, fix all that Mr Fix It

sorry your on your own woman.

(were still friends right?)

 

[Frank Grimes]

Ok, here we go...

- I don't have a bf, I've been alone for a VERY long time. (and that means no sex! )
- The only boy I could imagine being with lives 1000 km from my city, and he already has a gf, who makes him suffer a lot.
- All my friends have lots of things to do, I hardly see them, we don't go out together very often.
- I don't have a job, so I don't have any money.
- I'm not sure about taking up a modelling job, but anyway, I feel very insecure of my body sometimes.
- I have lots of exams and all of them are extremely difficult, so I sleep only some hours a day, I have to study all night.
- I'm studying business at college, and I hate it! I wanted to study something like arts, journalism or cinema, but I couldn't, I will never be able to get a decent job if I study something like that.
- I'm supposed to be studying right now, but I'm becoming addicted to TB , I check new posts every a few secods, I can't stop it.
- It's winter, it's too cold outside. I hate cold days.

Thx to whoever made this thread (i'm sorry, I didn't read your name!), I feel a great relief now

thats defintely not an easy one, iv only got 2 mins left on the computer so ill sort out all your issues another day

 

[Missy "C"]

thats defintely not an easy one, iv only got 2 mins left on the computer so ill sort out all your issues another day

lol, thx a lot, intention is what counts! :thumb:

 

[Luv4Pac4Ever]

sorry your on your own woman.

(were still friends right?)

lmao, I knew that one would throw ya

Yeah, we still friends...but only if I get in ya shoutout thread

 

[Amara]

Ok, here we go...

- I don't have a bf, I've been alone for a VERY long time. (and that means no sex! )
- The only boy I could imagine being with lives 1000 km from my city, and he already has a gf, who makes him suffer a lot.
- All my friends have lots of things to do, I hardly see them, we don't go out together very often.
- I don't have a job, so I don't have any money.
- I'm not sure about taking up a modelling job, but anyway, I feel very insecure of my body sometimes.
- I have lots of exams and all of them are extremely difficult, so I sleep only some hours a day, I have to study all night.
- I'm studying business at college, and I hate it! I wanted to study something like arts, journalism or cinema, but I couldn't, I will never be able to get a decent job if I study something like that.
- I'm supposed to be studying right now, but I'm becoming addicted to TB , I check new posts every a few secods, I can't stop it.
- It's winter, it's too cold outside. I hate cold days.

Thx to whoever made this thread (i'm sorry, I didn't read your name!), I feel a great relief now

Sorry if I'm stamping on your turf, Frank. But, some of this I could relate to.

Missy,
Who doesnt feel insecure about their body.... but if a job presents itself and you need the money, why not give it a try. If it makes you uncomfortable or you just dont like it, at least you will have the satisfaction of knowing you gave it a shot,(although remember not to sign a contract first, ).

Careers should idealistically be less about what gets you money and more about what you enjoy. It's practical to consider that some paths offer you a better range of options, but is it worth pursuing if you dont enjoy it? (I am studying law, but dont really enjoy it, everyday I think, shit what is the point, but i figure I'll ride it out, get my degree, then do whatever I want, but at least I will have law to fall back on).

I come on here all the time when I should be studying....it's hard to avoid procrastinating, especially considering I study on the computer, so its not like I can just turn it off. I'm still working out how to stop. If you figure it out, let me know! lol.

Studying at night is not really effective I wouldnt think. You need sleep to revitalise and keep your mind active. Remember quality over quantity - you may get more study done by staying up, but consider that is going to take its toll on your body in which case, you're ability to take in information is reduced.

As for your friends, they cant be busy all the time. I'm sure if you called them, they'd make time. If not, they are probably not good friends anyway. With all this happening, who needs a bf.... usually the moment you stop looking is the moment you find someone.... good things come to those who wait...

 

[Amara]

Well let's see....my kids drive me nuts, their dad is an asshole, my job is stressful, the rent is due, the electric bill is due, the phone bill is due, the cable bill is due, my car is a piece of shit, trying to find a bigger place to live, my "friend" is trippin', my other "friend" is trippin', my washing machine is fucked up, my love life sucks, my everyday life sucks...um....what else?....I'm sure there's more lol Now, fix all that Mr Fix It

Driving you nuts is what kids are supposed to do... in any case, I'm sure what they bring you is enough to defeat your statement that everyday life sucks...
You got responsibilities of your own, dont let so called "friends" complicate things further for you. Friends make things easier not worse.
Is the 'asshole dad' paying child support? I remember you saying once before his partner was making it difficult...think it was you ... anyway, your job plus that income should help with the bills. There's always some outgoing expense, it's hard to 'get ahead' but if you are managing to keep on top of it and your kids are happy and healthy, then you are doing alright, well better than alright.

 

[Missy "C"]

good things come to those who wait...

I liked that phrase, I guess I should take it seriously :thumb:
And I think you're right in everything you said, but sometimes the simplest solution to our problems is the hardest to see, and I have to admit it happens to me very often...
Thx for your advice, I'll try to keep it in mind!

 

[AmerikazMost]

I liked that phrase, I guess I should take it seriously :thumb:
And I think you're right in everything you said, but sometimes the simplest solution to our problems is the hardest to see, and I have to admit it happens to me very often...
Thx for your advice, I'll try to keep it in mind!

i disagree with you on this one. i think the saying is bullshit. if you want something, you gotta go get it. waiting just lets things pass you by.

patience is a virtue, but waiting is costly

 

[Missy "C"]

i disagree with you on this one. i think the saying is bullshit. if you want something, you gotta go get it. waiting just lets things pass you by.

patience is a virtue, but waiting is costly

I think you're right, if u want something you should do your best to get it, but amara said that first cuz I had said that I was worried cause i don't have a bf, and I'm feeling alone, etc. But now I think it's not worth worrying for something like that, it's true that loneliness sucks, but sometimes it's better to wait for a moment, just take it easy. I prefer being alone than dating lots of guys I don't like: I want love, not just some people to "mess around", and that requires a lot of patience.

 

[Luv4Pac4Ever]

Driving you nuts is what kids are supposed to do... in any case, I'm sure what they bring you is enough to defeat your statement that everyday life sucks...
You got responsibilities of your own, dont let so called "friends" complicate things further for you. Friends make things easier not worse.
Is the 'asshole dad' paying child support? I remember you saying once before his partner was making it difficult...think it was you ... anyway, your job plus that income should help with the bills. There's always some outgoing expense, it's hard to 'get ahead' but if you are managing to keep on top of it and your kids are happy and healthy, then you are doing alright, well better than alright.

Yeah, they definately keep me on my toes! The everyday life sucks statement was basically other than the kids, like I'm trying to find a bigger place to live cause right now I only have 2 bedrooms so my lil girl sleeps with me but she's getting older and needs her own room, and it's hard finding a place cause they're out of my price range as of now.
Their dad isn't paying child support at the moment but we go to court Friday so I'm hoping for a good outcome on that. I dunno, could have been me that said his wife is making it difficult, not sure I've mentioned that though, but like I said, could have been. She's a bitch and she has him thinking that receipts they've kept for everything they've bought the kids are gonna keep him from having to pay. Where she gets that from is beyond me but oh well, we'll see Friday I guess.

 

[tHuG $TyLe]

Money problems.
Unmotivated by college.
In the worst form of my life in football (soccer)
Lost someone who i put before everyone else.

My life doesn't suck, just a couple of months have sucked.

 

[Amara]

Yeah, they definately keep me on my toes! The everyday life sucks statement was basically other than the kids, like I'm trying to find a bigger place to live cause right now I only have 2 bedrooms so my lil girl sleeps with me but she's getting older and needs her own room, and it's hard finding a place cause they're out of my price range as of now.
Their dad isn't paying child support at the moment but we go to court Friday so I'm hoping for a good outcome on that. I dunno, could have been me that said his wife is making it difficult, not sure I've mentioned that though, but like I said, could have been. She's a bitch and she has him thinking that receipts they've kept for everything they've bought the kids are gonna keep him from having to pay. Where she gets that from is beyond me but oh well, we'll see Friday I guess.

Oh yeah, I remember that....maybe in DFL if I read it (my main stomping ground, lol).

Good luck with it all. I dont know what the system is like there, but courts are usually quite willing to grant child support unless there are very convincing reasons not to... (seems weird to contest it if they buy some things already, why they wouldnt submit to regularity of payments...silly). Hope it all goes well for you.

 

[Chronic]

I need therapy.

 

[Quasimodo]

aight here goes whats wrong with my life...

frank -

i'm in 10th grade. i've got 2 years left in school and i'm failing. i need to pass all six classes this semester to make it into the 11th grade and it doesn't look like imma do that. all i ever wanna do is rap - thats my only ambition - to work on my craft and try to get better at it. in class, i barely listen anymore. all i do is write raps, its the only thing i can truly focus on. everybody around here has faith in me, they tell me to keep on doing what i'm doing. i'm starting to realize what a mistake i've made. i still think i can graduate in 2007 - just gonna have to go to summer school. whats your advice on this? should i try to focus on school for the next 2 years and then worry bout the rapping? or say fuck school and attempt to meet my goals in rapping as of right now?

 

[Chronic]

or say fuck school and attempt to meet my goals in rapping as of right now?

Think of where you need to be in the rap game for you to be satisfied and not regret finishing school. Then listen to your tracks and be completely honest with yourself. Do you have the skills to get to that point?
If you have any doubts saying 'yes' to that question, finish school and work on getting your skills up while doing so.

Think of some of your favorite artists that are currently struggling to make a living off rap. Then think of all the other people that are currently trying to make it in the rap game. Do you think YOU are going to make it? Forget the whole MC arrogance thing, forget people around you gassing you up. Think about it, listen to your shit and then answer that question.

 

[k69atie]

I have a crap job, that pays crap money i am single can i cant drive!!

 

[k69atie]

Ok, here we go...

- I don't have a bf, I've been alone for a VERY long time. (and that means no sex! )- The only boy I could imagine being with lives 1000 km from my city, and he already has a gf, who makes him suffer a lot.
- All my friends have lots of things to do, I hardly see them, we don't go out together very often.
- I don't have a job, so I don't have any money.
- I'm not sure about taking up a modelling job, but anyway, I feel very insecure of my body sometimes.
- I have lots of exams and all of them are extremely difficult, so I sleep only some hours a day, I have to study all night.
- I'm studying business at college, and I hate it! I wanted to study something like arts, journalism or cinema, but I couldn't, I will never be able to get a decent job if I study something like that.
- I'm supposed to be studying right now, but I'm becoming addicted to TB , I check new posts every a few secods, I can't stop it.
- It's winter, it's too cold outside. I hate cold days.

Thx to whoever made this thread (i'm sorry, I didn't read your name!), I feel a great relief now

Me too, I know the feeling and it's crap and depressing

 

[Emma]

My 'friends' suck. That's about it.

 

[Zero Cool]

My 'friends' suck. That's about it.

Hmm... I know the feeling.