$100,000? Very similar to the debts my family is in. At first it was very stressful, we had enjoyed financial security for a very long time. But when that kind of burden hits you find it difficult to cope at first. But we pulled together and are working our asses off to pay it back. Kinda sucks becasue my father and my brother and me work really hard all month and at the end of it we're still in the red
. but its not so bad now i've kinda got used to it and its helped build charachter as i've never really had this much responsibility before. But it must be much worse for you, its come through no choice of your own and you've had to take a second mortgage, the interest on that is going to add alot on top and then if you don't keep up with payments you lose the house aswell 
. but its not so bad now i've kinda got used to it and its helped build charachter as i've never really had this much responsibility before. But it must be much worse for you, its come through no choice of your own and you've had to take a second mortgage, the interest on that is going to add alot on top and then if you don't keep up with payments you lose the house aswell 