I just don't see why there needs to be a parade for it. Gays don't want to be treated "differently," right? Well having "pride" about it means you have something others don't.
They don't hold parades for being heterosexual....
You do realize that you’re only like the ten millionth heterosexual to make this point and ask these questions, right? A little thought and you’d be able to figure this out. They’re not celebrating or proud that they’re gay, since that’s not an achievement. They’re celebrating and being proud and showing solidarity at how far they have come as a group in securing the same rights as non-gays have always taken for granted. There doesn’t need to be a heterosexual (or “straight”) pride parade because every day is a straight pride parade, where straight people walk around flaunting their equal rights, love, sexuality and bigotry. When your friend, brother or son commits suicide for having a girlfriend and ridiculed in school for being “straight,” then we should probably have a straight pride parade. When heterosexuals get beat, arrested, and even killed for being “straight,” then we need a parade, and much more.
You do realize it hasn’t been easy for gays over the years, right? And the only reason it’s somewhat easier for them now is…because you are going around having parades for them? Or maybe because they’re going around having parades and having protests and saying h
ow you like me now? I can’t even be discreet with my sexuality without taking shit from your straight world, so now I’m going to flaunt it. There’s 10,000 of us here today, let’s see you start shit now. And many heterosexuals who understand what I’m saying here join them in the parade for support. (I watched the NYC one once and had a great time. The guys in drag were hilarious.)
And the black or female pride movements exist for the same reason. Because blacks were treated and made to feel like shit for so long, as you might know, and women were treated as second class citizens who couldn’t even vote or go to college for a long time. So now they are proud at how far they have come, and since they are not yet completely where they should be, esp around the world, these movements need to continue. You don’t hear much about it here anymore, but in Brazil, the black pride movement is strong. Because there’s a need for it there. And there’s still a need for the gay pride movement. The parade is just a solidarity celebration of what is in fact a movement. And as long as the average heterosexual can’t figure out on their own what I’ve just said here, and asks the same questions that you asked, there’s still a need for it. Because it’s not that you or they all can’t figure it out because you’re all dumb. No, ya’ll can’t figure it out because you still have hate for them and don’t want to figure it out. Because then you wouldn’t be able to justify the hate (which you probably just think of as disgust, which you think isn’t hate but is) to yourself, let alone anyone else.