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My Dad's a Douche

I can't really sleep at the moment, so here's my insight.










If Sicc was your father, he'd be sleeping with your girlfriend. So be glad.
 
SicC said:
no u dont if u loved me u wouldnt have cheated on me!

pz
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um.. let me think..
i cheated on you coz ... coz.. you were already engaged so our r/ship couldnt have gone anywhere anyways. its your fault! :mad:
 
Rukas said:
Why is clubbing and drinking bad? As long as he can still pay your bills and isnt hurting anyway let him have his fun. I hope I can still have a good time when Im his age. I think you're just jealous cause he has a better social life then you.

Dude goes to work, puts food on the table, he can do what he likes. You want him to be an old fuddy duddy to make you feel better? Come on thats not fair. Let the man live his life stop trying to put him in an old age home before his time.
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It's bad when it compromises his responsibilities as a father. I'm not trying to put him. He always went out to the "club" (which is really an exclusive bar, not the kind of club you're thinking of), got shitfaced, and stumbled up the stairs at 2 in the morning. The point now is that he's letting it overrun his life, doing it too often, and he's not being the man he's signed up to be when he said his vows.

Rukas said:
Thats bullshit. The dude that posted this is already a grown man, hes going off to college soon. He doesnt need his dad to be home to tuck him in to bed at 8pm and read him a bed time story.

He doesnt state that hes neglecting his wife either, just that he goes out, has bought a cell phone, and goes to bars. Oh no!!! He drinks beer and talks on the phone!!!

Give the dude a break he has a right to a phone and to his friends. He isnt dead.
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I don't need my dad, but my sister does.

I thought I made it clear before that he was ignoring her and the rest of us.

Rukas said:
I think dude has insecurities about being out on his own in the world and still wants his daddy, thats why it annoys him that his dad is being his own man and not there to look after him like he had to when he was a child.
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I have no insecurities about being out on my own, I can't wait. If anything, I would miss my mom, not my dad. He's never been there enough for my being gone to make a difference in my everyday life. He never looked after me - my mom did.

Belle said:
Nothing wrong with going out & having a good time. Nothing wrong with having friends.

Adults, especially parents, just gota find a balance between the 2. You cant neglect one & over-do the other. And adults, especially parents, need to do the 'maturity' thing. Being a parent means you put your childs needs before your own. If (for example), your kid needs a cell phone (like AmerikazMost is sayin), you dont go out and buy a cool one for yourself (coz your boys have one) and disregard what the family needs.

True, hes not dead & he has a right to live his life. But getting married & having children also put responsibilities on him & therefore he doesnt only have to look after himself. He signed up to look after others too.
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Thanks Belle, for being one of the few fair and understanding people on here.




My mom makes more money than my dad recently, which is sad. The reason she went back to work after 16 years was because he wasn't making enough. I'm going to college is because I succeeded in school and was able to get enough scholarships and grants to send me there. We're not paying the rest either - we're getting loans. You know what hurts me? Seeing my mom cry in the kicthen because she's not sure if she'll be able to pay the bills.


Fuck all of you who said that this is simply a jealous kid acting out. You had no right to degrade my family's situation like that.

Maybe if my dad was providing liek he should (but recently the checks have been slim because he's been slacking off) and was still there for my mom and sister like he was in the past, it'd be OK. But he's not.










Edit: Please excuse the "Fuck all of you" thing...I was a little mad when I wrote this.
 
Rukas said:
Since when does going out, getting a phone, or getting a tat equate to not being a parent anymore?
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According to AmerikazMost, his dad goes out almost every night. If his dad works, and A. and his sister go to school, they technically almost never see him then.
Getting a phone is fine, but why not get a family plan instead of getting one for himself? When questioned about it, he gave a pretty silly answer.
Getting a tat does not equate to not being a parent anymore, but getting a tat and not telling your wife whom you've been married to 16+ years is just wrong, imo. Why hide it?

You can't simplify everything.
 
I wish my dad was like him, mine is a miserble old bastard that have no other point to his life than proving to himself and everyone else that he is better than me. Not my problem he's a failure.....
 
Going out and having a good time is fine, but going out every night takes the piss. Not even i do that and im only 22...there is something wrong there, going out everynight aint healthy. But as for him having freedom and doing as he wants, cool - but not to extreems of going out everynight.

-MX!
 
AmerikazMost, give your dad a break man.

fuck,you're lucky he's like that instead of a big old man needing someone to help him wipe his ass or go to the bathroom. he's 55, he's worked hard his whole life,building a family,putting food on the table,bustin' his ass everyday for you.

the man accomplished alot of things,and now after all the hard work he wants to have some fun. and you act like its a bad thing.you want someone to talk to,well tell him,hey dad we gotta set a time we gotta talk bout something.

see everything is me,me,me,me,me. give him a break. you're a grown ass man. looks like emotions are getting to you.suck it up. give your dad a break ok,he's getting old,just give him his freedom. you shouldnt be complaining,you should be proud he's still like that.

hell,the other day i went to a club,and i seen my old man there,he's 45(not as old as your dad), and he had more bitches on him than i can count. shit i was proud.

so what im trying to tell you,and some other people are trying to tell you is,give your dad a big break.if you feel control is being lost in the household,you should be the one to start taking control,take authority man.if something needs to be said,dont keep it in.tell your dad how you feel. don't go snitching to your mom about how your dad got a tatoo,that shit is for kids.let it go.

pz
 
bigmack said:
AmerikazMost, give your dad a break man.

fuck,you're lucky he's like that instead of a big old man needing someone to help him wipe his ass or go to the bathroom. he's 55, he's worked hard his whole life,building a family,putting food on the table,bustin' his ass everyday for you.

the man accomplished alot of things,and now after all the hard work he wants to have some fun. and you act like its a bad thing.you want someone to talk to,well tell him,hey dad we gotta set a time we gotta talk bout something.

see everything is me,me,me,me,me. give him a break. you're a grown ass man. looks like emotions are getting to you.suck it up. give your dad a break ok,he's getting old,just give him his freedom. you shouldnt be complaining,you should be proud he's still like that.

hell,the other day i went to a club,and i seen my old man there,he's 45(not as old as your dad), and he had more bitches on him than i can count. shit i was proud.

so what im trying to tell you,and some other people are trying to tell you is,give your dad a big break.if you feel control is being lost in the household,you should be the one to start taking control,take authority man.if something needs to be said,dont keep it in.tell your dad how you feel. don't go snitching to your mom about how your dad got a tatoo,that shit is for kids.let it go.

pz
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Wow, and I thought my dad was a douche.

You talk a lot of shit like you've known me and my dad for years. So just because my dad is 55 and has a job he's worked his ass off for years? What the fuck do you know. I'm not trying to insult my father here, but he's not exactly the most diligent guy.

My dad is a car dealer, not exactly blue collar, hard labor first of all. And he's worked for about 20 different dealerships over the last 15 years alone. Why? Because when something doesn't go the way he wants it to, he quits. He's a damn good salesman, but he's a baby too. He had a job with Saturn that paid him a salary and commission (life was real good then), but they promoted a guy he didn't like to manager so he quit. He had another good job like this but he left it for another job that paid less (no salary) because it gave him an extra day off every two weeks.

Who's the selfish one?

"the man accomplished a lot of things." You know him so well, so name them. I'm interested in knowing what my own father has done. You know him so much better, so I thought I'd ask.

As for talking to him, we have, but he doesn't care. He still does whatever he wants without considering the effect on the family. He changes cars every few years because he's bored, and it sets us back a lot. We don't need a new car, we can't afford one, but he gets one without consulting my mom. Then my mom has to cut back on everything, such as the food he is putting on the table.

Didn't I say I wasn't gonna snitch? And what the fuck is that anyway? Why does he need to hide it? There's a reason, asshole. I don't care if he gets a tattoo, that's his decision, but I think he's just doing it to lash out against my mom.




I don't what's worse, your ignorant assumptions of my family, one that you don't know, or the fact that you're biting SicC. "pz"? What is that? Be your own damn man.
 
AmerikazMost said:
Wow, and I thought my dad was a douche.

You talk a lot of shit like you've known me and my dad for years. So just because my dad is 55 and has a job he's worked his ass off for years? What the fuck do you know. I'm not trying to insult my father here, but he's not exactly the most diligent guy.

My dad is a car dealer, not exactly blue collar, hard labor first of all. And he's worked for about 20 different dealerships over the last 15 years alone. Why? Because when something doesn't go the way he wants it to, he quits. He's a damn good salesman, but he's a baby too. He had a job with Saturn that paid him a salary and commission (life was real good then), but they promoted a guy he didn't like to manager so he quit. He had another good job like this but he left it for another job that paid less (no salary) because it gave him an extra day off every two weeks.

Who's the selfish one?

"the man accomplished a lot of things." You know him so well, so name them. I'm interested in knowing what my own father has done. You know him so much better, so I thought I'd ask.

As for talking to him, we have, but he doesn't care. He still does whatever he wants without considering the effect on the family. He changes cars every few years because he's bored, and it sets us back a lot. We don't need a new car, we can't afford one, but he gets one without consulting my mom. Then my mom has to cut back on everything, such as the food he is putting on the table.

Didn't I say I wasn't gonna snitch? And what the fuck is that anyway? Why does he need to hide it? There's a reason, asshole. I don't care if he gets a tattoo, that's his decision, but I think he's just doing it to lash out against my mom.




I don't what's worse, your ignorant assumptions of my family, one that you don't know, or the fact that you're biting SicC. "pz"? What is that? Be your own damn man.
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loool take it easy man,shit loool. you need to calm down a bit. im sorry for my assumptions,just do what you gotta do man,talk to your family about it,thats your best bet.other than that i dont think you're gonna get any help from the internet.
 
that must be annoying to deal with man..but what you should do is try to be nice to your mom and spend some time with her before you go to college, cause she must be feeling terrible man
 
artisticgurl said:
His venting not looking for a phycho analysis. Hope ur father calms down Amerikaz :)
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thank you! haha

repped :cool:
tourniquet said:
that must be annoying to deal with man..but what you should do is try to be nice to your mom and spend some time with her before you go to college, cause she must be feeling terrible man
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i'm trying.. we've been on really good terms as of late
 
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