i never particularly cared for your posts.
bitter? no. i just call it how i see it and just because you happen to have a vagina i'm not going to sugar coat jack freakin' squat. i'll explain to you why i said what i said, and this being a message forum for opinions you can disagree or agree, i could give three fucks - but i'm not wrong for saying what i am saying. i find it sad and pathetic when people post little anecdotal excerpts of their pathetic little lives in this forum and not expect or tolerate any feedback. i'm sure you wanted all of us to unilaterally and consecutively say, "don't worry, bucko. things will get better, trish. omfg i love your new hair," but i think that whole aspect some people bring to the net should be admonished and removed from the internet. take that shit to dalnet or usenet.
if you posted an article to a 10 year old in bangladesh giving birth to octopulates i'd be cool with it, but i don't care about your grand am, i don't care about your job, and i don't care that you quit it. am i bitter? not really. every single person i have ever met will give me a glowing recommendation without hesitation. but do i like people who troll for attention, affection, and validation? mmm, not so much.
in the future i'd appreciate internet postings that are palatable for all users of this forum - not just those who will feed you false affections because it makes their inexperienced nether regions feel all tingly when you respond.
so glad to have you back!