annoying situation

ill-matic

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it's annoying how one of your friends is talking to you about something which you couldn't really give a shit about, and you're placed in a situation where you're forced to nod and feign interest.

my friend was telling me about 2 people he recently started speaking to on the internet. all i thought was "do i need to know this?" "why is he telling me this?" "does he really think i am interested in his obsession with 2 random people he met on the internet" and "what will my mother be cooking for dinner tonight?"

it is pretty annoying, and im getting tired of hearing his lame ass stories about his life which are less interesting than watching a plant grow

anyone experience similar things?
 
Oh hells yeah. Brian Ness was telling me about how he called off his engagement because his girl wasn't spending enough time with him. And worse yet, he asks me what I think he should do like I'm in the relationship, like I know what he wants, like he's just looking for reassurance. I told him - there's not much I can say because it's your decision either way.

Another thing. Brian and I were hangin' with a few dudes and the whole night was a repeat of how many fights they got into and the cars they've owned. And they wonder why I did't say shit. I don't take part in such pointless conversations. Then I started to annoy them. I got heated after one of the guys kept telling me to play Pimp C's "I'm Free" because he liked the Tom Petty sample. "I was like no no no, listen to this Lupe joint, it's much better" and he was like "no, play that Tom Petty song". yeah.
The Pimp C part was more about alcohol than anything. Drunks are annoying.
 
ill-matic said:
it's annoying how one of your friends is talking to you about something which you couldn't really give a shit about, and you're placed in a situation where you're forced to nod and feign interest.

my friend was telling me about 2 people he recently started speaking to on the internet. all i thought was "do i need to know this?" "why is he telling me this?" "does he really think i am interested in his obsession with 2 random people he met on the internet" and "what will my mother be cooking for dinner tonight?"

it is pretty annoying, and im getting tired of hearing his lame ass stories about his life which are less interesting than watching a plant grow

anyone experience similar things?

*nods and feigns interest*
 
I went to a restaurant with a very close friend of mine & 2 other guys who i fuckin hate but I had to go cuz they were with a few girls and my friend wanted to hook up with one. anywayz im sittin bored as fuck & one of the guys i hate is talkin bullshit bout how intelligent he is & if u eat a jalepeno pepper ur not supposed to drink pepsi or sumbullshit(bored as fuck by now) until out of nowhere my friend asks me:hey what happens if u take a veryy small cow and put it in a blender? now u gotta understand the randomness of that & how i just bursted laughin wid every1 starin @ me like i just ate a jalapeno pepper & drank pepsi right after it...I fuckin hate ppl who start talkin bout how much knowledge they think they got tryin 2 impress the girls when u cud c they bored as fuck as well.
 
fwn said:
I went to a restaurant with a very close friend of mine & 2 other guys who i fuckin hate but I had to go cuz they were with a few girls and my friend wanted to hook up with one. anywayz im sittin bored as fuck & one of the guys i hate is talkin bullshit bout how intelligent he is & if u eat a jalepeno pepper ur not supposed to drink pepsi or sumbullshit(bored as fuck by now) until out of nowhere my friend asks me:hey what happens if u take a veryy small cow and put it in a blender? now u gotta understand the randomness of that & how i just bursted laughin wid every1 starin @ me like i just ate a jalapeno pepper & drank pepsi right after it...I fuckin hate ppl who start talkin bout how much knowledge they think they got tryin 2 impress the girls when u cud c they bored as fuck as well.


yeh, fuck people...
 
Reading stupid threads on Pacboard. Man, that pisses me off to the extent where I randomly slaughter as many furry animals as possible in a 5 minute time window.
 
He tells you because he believes you're his mate, you will listen to what the dude has to say. I bet my soul that he probably thinks the same thing about you at times. Sometimes you might be talking some shit which he finds boring but he goes along with it anyways. Why? Because his your mate. If it starts getting to you heaps then tell him. But appreciate the fact someone likes you enough to tell you shit, even if it's pety like this.

He believes your his mate, no harm in that is there? Appreciate what you have. Don't complain. I did in the past and it comes back to bite you in the ass.

peace.
 
I got one friend that does that every day. Whether i'm speaking to him in person or on the phone. He'll go on and on and not let me say a fucking word. It annoys the fuck outta me and i'm like "I gotta go, bye".
 
7 Syns said:
He tells you because he believes you're his mate, you will listen to what the dude has to say. I bet my soul that he probably thinks the same thing about you at times. Sometimes you might be talking some shit which he finds boring but he goes along with it anyways. Why? Because his your mate. If it starts getting to you heaps then tell him. But appreciate the fact someone likes you enough to tell you shit, even if it's pety like this.

He believes your his mate, no harm in that is there? Appreciate what you have. Don't complain. I did in the past and it comes back to bite you in the ass.

peace.

:thumb:

and ill, im sur ur jus the most interesting person in the world. Like ur friends must be so lucky to no u, because everything that interests u and u talk about, is jus the most excitin things in the world. :rolleyes:

man, eveyones boring sometimes, deal with it
 
7Syns i was agreeing with ur post, that is y i posted the :thumb:

like i said


i was talkin to ill-matic for the rest of the post

i was not tryin to diss you or take ne shots at u, i was agreeing with ur post


EDIT

PS - y do u believe i wud want to diss u, i like u man, i don no where u wud get any idea that i am out to take shots at u for no reason
 
Saint33 said:
7Syns i was agreeing with ur post, that is y i posted the :thumb:

like i said



i was talkin to ill-matic for the rest of the post

i was not tryin to diss you or take ne shots at u, i was agreeing with ur post


EDIT

PS - y do u believe i wud want to diss u, i like u man, i don no where u wud get any idea that i am out to take shots at u for no reason

Sorry man, I apologise. Then again in other situations when someone reads something wrong that he thought the other person is reading wrong then that person looks like a jack-ass. I look like a jack-ass. I did find it weird that you'd be dissing my post, my bad man. Sorry.

I edited the posts to stop confusion. I'll PM you a free link of Pharoahe Monch's new single.

peace.
 
yes it is fuckign annoying, but you got to pretend if he's your friend man. I do it all the time, I just fucking scream inside while I nod and understand in the outside.

P.S Who else thinks that ill-matic sounds like Sienfield talking like that?
 
Vaudeville said:
yes it is fuckign annoying, but you got to pretend if he's your friend man. I do it all the time, I just fucking scream inside while I nod and understand in the outside.

P.S Who else thinks that ill-matic sounds like Sienfield talking like that?
no one
 
Saint33 said:
and ill, im sur ur jus the most interesting person in the world. Like ur friends must be so lucky to no u, because everything that interests u and u talk about, is jus the most excitin things in the world.

man, eveyones boring sometimes, deal with it

i forgot to mention one thing. i don't tell him anything about my life, and i dont think he's realised it. i havent told him anything about my life for about 3-4 years because he doesn't even pretend to be interested. i found that insulting so i don't tell him anything because all he gives a shit about is giving me a detailed recount about conversations he's had with 2 people he met on the internet (just one example).

my point is, he only ever speaks to me to tell me random things that are happening in his life. in my view that's being self absorbed because he never calls to see how i am, or whats doing in my life, and whenever i TRY to slip something in about myself he gives me the "oh cool" in a very uncaring tone. it's very one sided and i find it annoying.

i dont understand why you're trying to attack me here by being a smart arse. i never inferred i was the most interesting person in the world. i guess you're still holding a grudge about a supposed disagreement we had over a year ago. let it go dude

Duke said:
Reading stupid threads on Pacboard. Man, that pisses me off to the extent where I randomly slaughter as many furry animals as possible in a 5 minute time window.

yeh, reading stupid posts on Pacboard gets me mad as well. life sucks. :(
 
ill-matic said:
i forgot to mention one thing. i don't tell him anything about my life, and i dont think he's realised it. i havent told him anything about my life for about 3-4 years because he doesn't even pretend to be interested. i found that insulting so i don't tell him anything because all he gives a shit about is giving me a detailed recount about conversations he's had with 2 people he met on the internet (just one example).

my point is, he only ever speaks to me to tell me random things that are happening in his life. in my view that's being self absorbed because he never calls to see how i am, or whats doing in my life, and whenever i TRY to slip something in about myself he gives me the "oh cool" in a very uncaring tone. it's very one sided and i find it annoying.

i dont understand why you're trying to attack me here by being a smart arse. i never inferred i was the most interesting person in the world. i guess you're still holding a grudge about a supposed disagreement we had over a year ago. let it go dude

i don hav a grudge against u and i wasnt trying to attack u. i don mind ur posts nemore, u used to bother me, but i actually enjoy sum of ur posts these days.

neways i jus found ur original post kinda ignorant and self centered. and now u say u dont tell him things cuz he doesnt care about wut u say, but meanwhile u do the exact same thing wen he tries to tell u things. Hes ur friend, thats wut u hav friends for, to tell things too. Now whether ur interseted in wut he says, u should listen. Unless everything he says is boring and uninteresting, then wuts the point of being is friend?
 

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