i dont think she purposely got pregnant. from what i read it was an accident and since he was the only man she had sex with in the last months it was clear ot her that he was the father. of course murphy denied and said she must have had sex with tons of other people.
eddie murphy is a good actor, but it appears he is not so much of a good human being. we understand eddie that you moved on with this other girl, but in this case if you dont wanna get surprises like this put a damn glove on your dick. after all with all the money you make from money i,m damn quite sure you can afford a condom.


well it is possible. if she told him she was on BC or something, or only had sex with him for the sole purpose of getting pregnant then what syn is saying is right. but as far as i know, none of that happened, so it seems kinda harsh to judge her as a slut or a golddigger when we don't even know the facts.Syn what I dont understand is how getting pregnant is a solo decision. Unless she stole his sperm. Which I doubt.
Anway Eddie is still a funny guy, its not like we had this angelic opinion of him before this.
is it just me, or do you think every woman is a slut syn? we don't even know what happened here, but you seem to be pretty judgmental towards Mel, and women in general. if she gets pregnant, she's a slut. if she gets raped at a party, she's a slut. why do you hate women?![]()
Syn what I dont understand is how getting pregnant is a solo decision. Unless she stole his sperm. Which I doubt.
Pregnant not married = slut
Drunk at party don't know what's going on, have random sex = slut
Do I hate sluts.. yes.
Clearly all women are not sluts, just look at the ladies of the board (KeCo, Carmi, Katie, etc)
I'm tired of females getting pregnant and using the kids as a supplemental income.
Pregnant not married = slut
Drunk at party don't know what's going on, have random sex = slut
Do I hate sluts.. yes.
Clearly all women are not sluts, just look at the ladies of the board (KeCo, Carmi, Katie, etc)
I'm tired of females getting pregnant and using the kids as a supplemental income.
Unless both parties discuss it and agree upon having a baby then it's a sole decision. If the girl knew they were just having sex and nothing more was to come of it then she purposely got pregnant probably for his money or some other reason then she's a slut and should be solely responsible for her bastard kid. It annoys me, as I said earlier, that some chick makes the decision to have a kid and now both parties are held responsible although the other person had no say so in the matter originally.
Just a discussion.My viewpoint is the moment you decide to have sex is the moment you BOTH have a responsibility to whatever happens, its not as if people dont realise sex can lead to pregnancy.
I agree with this. However, there are preventable steps that can be taken to ensure that it doesn't lead to a baby. So, why did she not utilize them? It seems to me that she was well aware of Eddie Murphy's position, which is not to have a child with her, yet she went against it. In this case, a real woman then wishes not to have anything to do with the father and opts to raise the kid on her own.
the fuck? pregnant and not married equates to being a slut? what is this, the 19 motherfuckin 60s?
this opinion irritates me because it's just bullshit. you're using the word too loosely.
My viewpoint is the moment you decide to have sex is the moment you BOTH have a responsibility to whatever happens, its not as if people dont realise sex can lead to pregnancy. Its something that cant be controlled like she helped the sperm get to the egg lol.
By the way not trying to attack you here..Just a discussion.
I know, it's totally cool. I didn't take it as an attack. And yeah, that's true being pregnant can happen. However, 95% of people probably aren't having sex and trying to get pregnant. And if they weren't in a serious relationship to begin with then she knew where he stood and it wasn't trying to have a baby with her. If people want to have sex with whomever randomly they should definitely take precautions to not get pregnant. However, if one does get pregnant and decides they want to keep the kid then it should be discussed and agreed upon amongst both parties not just one person. And if one person makes the decision themselves then they should take sole responsibility of the kid.