You in the year 2005...

Pacaveli-T

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The end of 05 is coming up and I'm sure we have all gone through some changes on and off the board.

So just make a list of the good and bad things that have changed about you. Could be appearance and/or personality.

Here is mine:

for the good:
-optimistic
-gotten out of a right time in the past year and I'm happier than ever
-letting grudges go
-more open minded
-willing to show my sensitive side( to an extent because im not sappy)
-higher self-confidence
-better control of my feelings
-i take life one day at a time rather than plan the next 50 years
-more appreciative
-more considerate of others feelings
-more patient
-more tolerant
-higher morals/values

-changes my hair color (:p )

now for the bad da da dam:
-procratinate
-hurt a few ppl along the way
-somewhat more stubborn
-no limits on alch ( but not to the extent of getting hungover cause once was enough)
-made a lot of mistakes
-push myself a lot

and now for you guys...
 
cant think of so many differences, so maybe the 2 most important:

good:
found my love, or love found me

bad:
fucked up in school, so one more year
 
good:
more patient
longer temper
gotten bigger, muscle wise
no longer stressing
see direction in life
rarely fart now

bad:
my farts stink badly when i do fart

thats it
 
I won't get into any specifics, but this year has been a huge learning curve for me. I love who I am and could care less what anybody else thinks of me anymore.

I'll leave it at: It's been an interesting, but good year for me :)
 
good:
decided to actually post on this board instead of just lurking
6 more months and I get my degree
Dropped all the bullshit drama I had with some females
Stopped giving a shit about having a healthy relationship (have some fun and then bail)

bad:
All my friends are getting married
In six months I'll have to work 40-50 hour weeks
No more waking up everyday at 10 in the morning (again in six months)
 
The good:
- Completed Honours for my Degree, wrote a thesis.
- Stayed in a good relationship (reaching over a year).
- I cut my hair.
- Learnt a bit more about who I am and where I am going.
- Got a good job.
- Lost weight, lol.


The bad:
- Spent more time on here than I should have
- Didnt appreciate my family and friends enough
- Still too quiet, inconsiderate and unsociable.
- Ate too much chocolate.
- drank too much wine.
- bought too many new clothes.
- Didnt save enough money.
- Didnt go overseas.
 
lol @ sicc always coming with his 3-4 words and project 17 trying to bite his style

as for me i feel to lazy to write that, i'm gon sleep

but like bereal said, what's pretty good is my girlfriend and the few trips that i made, what's bad is usual shit i still need to settle
 
this year has rushed by so fast. many things have happened to me on different spectrums. we have the social aspect, the educational aspect, the career aspect, the self-knowledge aspect etc. etc..

ill start with social.

Social:

- i've lost many friends, which sucks eggs, but yet i have also made many new ones, and have infact strengthened already existing friendships. see, this year was my final year of high school, and this is the time where you really find your group of people if that makes any sense. i have found my group of people, but during that process ive lost the other more 'superficial' friendships. do i mind? yeh, it hurts, but that's life. as long as i have my best mates around, then i will feel safe and happy.
- ive also learnt that i cant socialise with everyone. i used to think that when i couldnt sustain a conversation with someone or couldnt be myself around someone (i.e. all shy and reserved) that i was some sort of anti-social being. i was wrong, because i learnt your personality cant click with every single person. this is true.
- on the other hand, this year has been a good social year. i loved it.

SCHOOL

- not much more i can say other than "i should have tried harder". how much harder i should have tried i will find out next friday when i get my results.

CAREER:

- what career? i've only finished school and waiting to see if i can qualify to obtain a Business degree in a university. will i get it? no, i wont, because i didnt try hard enough in school and i fucked up majorly. life moves on i suppose.
- i have found a summer job tho, which is good, because any job provides good experience. i work as a telemarketer, earning alright money, but i reckon i will be fired soon. very soon, because im not that good at it. oh well, life moves on i suppose.

SELF KNOWLEDGE;

- ive learnt a lot about myself which, in a way, has developed my confidence, personality and interaction with people.


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on the whole 2005 has been like most other years - filled with ups and downs, smiles and frowns. but ive had many more smiles than frowns.


-Phil :)
 

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