well see, what you just described isn't rape. i'm not talking about a "faux rape" scenario. if a girl gets drunk and has sex with a guy and then the next day she screams rape, that is not rape. but if a girl gets drunk, fools around with a guy and when he wants to have sex she says no, and he doesn't listen to her and has sex with her anyway, that is most definitely rape. just because she was drunk and horny doesn't automatically make it not rape. no means no. maybe you should try to explain yourself a little better when you post, because what you wrote is absolutely inexcusable.I certainly did
If she's drunk and not amongst good company and not able to have a working knowledge or whats going on or be able to control herself and something bad happens to her. Yes, it's her fault. She should've had more common sense than to put herself in harms way.
However, I did say it could be either of their fault and it's no way for me to know. Please see first post.
Perhaps, there's no way for me to know that.
Perhaps she wasn't asking for it but it would certainly make it seem as if she wanted the attention that her attire warranted. Every situation is going to be different. There's a time and place for everything. Perhaps leading a guy on, getting drunk whilst dressed like a slut, having sex, waking up the next day and then claiming rape because you don't remember what happens should not be considered rape. Just a dumb girl who hopefully will learn from her mistake. But again, this is situational.
Surely not, but they do want to get drunk, get horny, dress like sluts and then play dick tease. Or get drunk, get honry, dress like a slut, have sex, forget what happened and then scream rape due to their own poor decision making skills.
I wouldn't be in said situation because I don't drink, I carry myself as a lady so that I am treated like one and I dress accordingly. I hang with good company. I don't go out to bars and if I go to a club which is rarely, i'm with people I trust and I still won't drink. I don't play games or lead men on. I shouldn't have to worry about a faux rape situation.
However, if I was walking to my car from work and someone took me by force, then surely, that's rape and he should be punished accordingly. No, I wouldn't blame myself as it wouldn't be my fault.
Did I cover everything?
the comment in this post, "she should have had more sense than to put herself in harm's way" is so false it's almost ridiculous. a lot of rapes are committed by so-called "friends" of the victim. a woman may be in a situation where she thinks she is among friends and still get attacked, does that mean it's her fault? and besides, something as routine as riding a subway in a city like Chicago can be dangerous. so does that mean if a woman, on her way home from work, gets raped or attacked on the train, or followed and attacked after she gets off, does that mean she should have had more common sense than to take the train home? seriously, stop and think about what you're saying.
and i seriously doubt that if a woman dresses in clothes that are considered provocative, she is asking to get raped, or deserves to get raped. i would agree that the only reason a woman would dress that way is to attract attention, but that does not mean she deserves to get raped or that she was asking for it, or that she shouldn't have worn that type of clothing. that's like saying that a woman deserved to get raped because she walked down the wrong back alley, so it's her fault. there is never a situation where rape is acceptable or excusable. i find it quite sad that a woman of your intelligence can actually think there is a situation where someone was asking for it, or deserved to get raped. i just lost a lot of respect for you.
