would you hit your dad back?

[C.R.Y.]

id only hit my dad if he gave me a pretty bad beating. im talking busted lip, bruises, or black eye. not from a smack though. because i can sometimes run my mouth and earn it. but if it got to the point where im fearing i might end up in E.R. then i will fight back. although i wont win because my dad works out

 

[Diaz]

There are members here that come from, with all due respect, shattered families, and as such, I'd assume their father has done something that warrants them fighting back.

However, if your father is a respectable man that is known for being rational, there's absolutely no reason for fighting back. Its a matter of respect and knowing your place. Good for you, being someone in your 20s, and thinking you're a "big boy" now, but still show some respect for the man that raised you.

Please don't say "I'd do it" unless you're from a messed up family where your father was drunk all the time and hurt you as a child. Even in that case, I would not fight back, but there are plenty of people that would.

I can certainly see when a father may want to hit a child. There are times when children become too much, and they deserve someone teaching them something.

I was living with my Mom after my parents got divorced, but my Dad was losing money on the house that we lived in... so he had us evicted and wasn't even willing to provide us with a place to live. My dad is rich and treats me like I'm nothing because my grades and what not, but last year I found out that he got his big ass house and all his possessions from drug dealing, and he still does it today. He dropped out of school and tells me I aint shit because I dont get straight A's. He doesn't even know that I know that he deals drugs, but next time he tries to convince me I'm nothing, I'll rub it in his fuckin face like that one kid did to that girl with his cum. :thumb:

But yea, basically what I was telling in that whole paragraph is that my dad is a piece of shit and I wouldn't mind smackin him around a bit.

 

[Quasimodo]

there's no doubt in my mind i would fight my dad... we've fought before... he's a boxing trainer and he's very knowledgable on the sport.. so when he and i get into a fist-fight, he basically dusts my ass... but i've landed some good shots on him before, i slammed him one time, lol, that was a moment of glory for me. but he's a bad motherfucker.. i'll only fight him if i feel like its a must or if i'm drunk or high, because being sober and fighting him isn't a good idea, cuz of the pain he inflicts!

 

[ArtsyGirl]

If it was an unneccessary beating then yeah, but I'm at that age now that any kind of physical punishment is over the top. But when I was younger my brothers used to get into it with him and they'd try and defend themselves. My mother would then get protective and eventually I come to the conclusion hitting your children should be the very last resort.

 

[not really ken]

I agee with PennyPacker. My situation is that my dad wouldn't beat on me unless he had a valid reason. He wouldn't get angry for the sake of it but becasue I would have done something wrong or may have disrespected him. Of course I would try and restrain him but I wouldn't never fight back neither would i run away. I would just block him and he's pretty rational so he'd come to his sense real quick.

And Chronic, you may have personal issues or whatever with your fahter, I don't know them neither can I comment on your comment 'Why, just 'cos he ejaculated into a woman?'. Simply because for your case that may be the truth. But for me anyway, he did much more than that, like raise me and always try to buy me stuff as a kid even though I mostly never used to want toys and shit. As a kid I was never really interested in toys cos they were boring, I preferred nintendos and sega but now I realise at the time my father couldn't afford this type of stuff, money was tighter in those days. BUt i really respect the fact that he used to try and make me happy how he could, with what he thought would make me happy, he was always around. Now his financial situation is tons better and he still tries to spoil me by any means neccesary, paying for holidays offering to buy me a car or by wanting to go to safari parks with me (cheesy I know ). I refuse everything but I appreciate what he does.

So yeah, when my father hits me, he does mostly have valid reason 'cos i've stepped outta line, mostly with something i've said and he throws a few slaps at me, I just try to restrain him and just curl up into a ball. I let him have his moment because I respect him greatly.

At first, I used to knock people who never had a father. But now as I got a little older I realise how it must have been. COming home from school not knowing where your father is everyday. Nobody to slip you some money for helping him with putting the wallpaper on. Yeah little things must have really pissed those unforutnate people off. You must have a hard time imagining what a normal and loving relationship with your father must have been like. You realise you can never get that bond with him as well. OK!! But those of us who are more fortunate. we would let our father lay the smack down on us, simply because he has earned the right to discipline us and if our father has earned that right in his childs eyes to discipline him, then he would never do it without rational reason and in order to truely try and make him realise in the long run that he can't do that.

 

[Chronic]

And Chronic, you may have personal issues or whatever with your fahter, I don't know them neither can I comment on your comment 'Why, just 'cos he ejaculated into a woman?'. Simply because for your case that may be the truth. But for me anyway, he did much more than that, like raise me and always try to buy me stuff as a kid even though I mostly never used to want toys and shit. As a kid I was never really interested in toys cos they were boring, I preferred nintendos and sega but now I realise at the time my father couldn't afford this type of stuff, money was tighter in those days. BUt i really respect the fact that he used to try and make me happy how he could, with what he thought would make me happy, he was always around. Now his financial situation is tons better and he still tries to spoil me by any means neccesary, paying for holidays offering to buy me a car or by wanting to go to safari parks with me (cheesy I know ). I refuse everything but I appreciate what he does.

You misunderstood me. I was commenting on the guy saying you should respect your father regardless.
So I ask why? Because he ejaculated into a woman?
There's this notion in society that you should respect your parents no matter what, simply because they gave birth to you. I think that's complete and utter bullshit.

So I was just speaking in general. You should respect people because they deserve it not because of their status.

 

[k69atie]

no but i am not stronger than my dad!

 

[Pacaveli-T]

So I was just speaking in general. You should respect people because they deserve it not because of their status.

First time in awhile I agree with you and imo thats how respect should be seen.