Why Do Women Talk So Much?

[2pacnbiggie]

Not sayin all women, but alotta women talk all day about little shit that doesnt need to be talked about. Little stupid shit like how they got outta the shower today and broke a nail , or some shit like that blah blah blah...

is it just me or do alot of women talk 2 much? I think thats why alot of them are easily upset...if u talk to much somebodys gonna eventually say some shit u dont wanna hear...

 

[Emma]

I'm always talking about stuff that no one cares about. Although I probably talk a lot cos I suck arse at explaining things :/ I could talk for England

 

[Confucius87]

Not tryin' to sound sexist, but that's just how most women are. Think about it, you're mom will constantly holler at you. But your dad would just rather punish you and get it over with. Women are just more vocal than men

 

[keco52]

I don't talk a lot...I think a lot.

 

[Ricardo_Brown]

agree with 2pacnbiggie
some of them can go on all day about stuff that no one cares about

 

[Skillz]

Wsup mayne

I don't kno, mang. There b alot of dudes that can't shut they mouth either.

Peace!
Skillz

 

[Jokerman]

^And they are called "gays."

 

[Skillz]

^And they are called "gays."

Wsup Jokerman. I ain't talked to u in a minute. How u doin?

U do strive a good point tho.

Skillz

 

[Jokerman]

But seriously, sometimes women talk as a way of discovering what they want to say, and sometimes they talk about their feelings in order to sort things out, in order to feel better. It's also their main way of sharing. Whereas guys share by punching each other, or by watching other guys punch each other.

 

[Skillz]

I think also (me n my homeboy were talkin bout this tha other day):

Women like to talk ABOUT their problem, n men like to SOLVE their problem. Which is not to say women just talk bout it n waste time, but that women feel better to talk bout stuff.

Like when a woman talks bout her problem to sumone, she likes that person to listen n tell her that they understand her n wat she is feelin is understandable. Where as a guy, when he talks bout a problem, he doesn't do it to get it off his chest - he wants to hear a way to get out tha problem. A women likes to just b able to discuss it n tha fact she expressed herself givs her tha ability to feel control over tha issue where as a male will only talk bout it if he don't hav any ideas left on how to handle a situation.

Well that's my take at least. Might seem a lil sexist, not sure, but that wasn't my intention - just my personal GENERALIZED opinion, but I kno it's not good to stereotype either.

Skillz

 

[haunted]

Females talk alot but add black infront of female and its even worse.

 

[Salar]

hahaha at this thread. I'm so tempted to move this to all about u!

I don't think it's a matter of sex that is the problem. I just think some people need to talk to express themselves. Some more than others. It's all about the person who is in touch with their emotions
(i can't be bothered explaining what i mean at the moment, i'll get into detail later)

 

[Get In The Van I Have Candy]

Females talk alot but add black infront of female and its even worse.

lol nice :thumb:

 

[FreshToDeath]

I'm not sure that it's a female thing. I think that it's an insecurity thing. People that are secure with themselves and the decisions they make don't need constant reassurance about trivial bullshit.

 

[C.R.Y.]

women talk alot because all that hair spray and nail polish gets them high

 

[Amara]

There is a saying that I really like, it goes like this : "there are those that speak because they have something to say and those that speak because they have to say something."

Whether it's insecurity, or what I dont know, but I am frustrated by people who filled their lives with constant, meaningless dribble - which is primarily the reason I hate going to hairdressers, I hate the shitty mindless chit chat. lol

I'm am at the other extreme, I dont talk enough and it bothers some people around me.

 

[critikaldesignz]

As a guy, I tend to keep it quiet. You know how girls hate quiet guys buts thats just the way I am. I keep things to myself and do so too often. So.. WTF?

 

[Steph]

Meh i talk a fair amount, not a lot not a little, but i notice that some (not all) of my guy friends are more reserved than the girls. Maybe its not that we talk alot, but guys dont talk enough...

 

[Jokerman]

Maybe its not that we talk alot, but guys dont talk enough...

Enough for what? To be effective gossipers? I agree.

 

[Steph]

^I dunno, most guys are too quiet, its eriee sometimes.