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Amara

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I'm not a heaps jealous person but sometimes I get a little itty bitty urge to snoop my bfs stuff. I dont actually do it but sometimes I just think ... ooh i'd like to see. I know he gets the same.. i wonder whats shes up to. lol.

I feel bad for feeling like this and i KNOW theres nothing to worry about but i think maybe its part of human nature to get suspicious sometimes even if it has an irrational basis.

Whats everyone else think, am i wrong for feeling like this or is it ok to wonder? Is it wrong for people to actually snoop?
 
nah its okay. every like to spy a lil bit on their bf or snoop. like a lil bit suspicious, but not really. more like curiosity.
 
i always get these urges...once my ex left his phone at my house and it was constantly ringing...the number wasn't stored in his phone so i didnt know who it was. for two hours he was getting these phonecalls and i was very curious to know who it was. then he got 3 text messages one after the other and the phonecalls stopped. and then well...curiousity got the better of me and i rang the number back and it was a woman who answered!

to cut a long story short...he was playin me! so i'm glad i snooped really. it pays off sometimes!
 
^ Hahah. How did you last 2 hours?

I'm less concerned about phone calls as I am about msn and emails... I know lots of little groupie girlies from around where his friend lives like to add him. Stupid girlies.
 
ur man has groupies?! i would find it very hard NOT to snoop if i was in your situation.
u should make him block and delete them. or suggest he put his msn name as "i love amara" lol
 
^my bf too its kinfa the samwe thing. at this place where he works, there's that customer, that girl of like 16 years old, always coming there just for him. she has him on msn and tries to put her cam on and makes stripteases to him. it kinda bothers me but whatever.

oh and there was that time that girl that used to be my friend would talk to my bf all the time on msn, telling him to come to her place (every boy that goes to her place end up fucking with her she's a slut). but my bf told me about it. still he has never blocked her or deleted her which kinda pissed me off but i know my bf wouldnt cheat on me. he's really the boy that believes in love and wont hurt someone he likes.

what was funny once i told him to go on my msn cuz i didnt have the net cuz i wanted to talk to someone, and there's that guy that used to wanna go out with me that came and talk to me (not knowing it was my bf) and put his cam and was naked. my bf was on the phone with me at the same time and was like WTF. i was laughing.
 
Helena said:
ur man has groupies?! i would find it very hard NOT to snoop if i was in your situation.
u should make him block and delete them. or suggest he put his msn name as "i love amara" lol
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Yeah he asked me to delete a guy I used to date who is just a friend, so I guess its fair. Actually though, he got a new account to get rid of the girlies (I dont know who's groupies they are his or his friends.. I think they are just silly young girls with boys on the brain) but shit why add them in the first place? Just click block, do not add. lol. I suppose though I talk to guys off here occasionally but not people to be worried about, just Menace and Salar pretty much and they know about my bf... so they are hardly threats. Still, the girls he talks to probably arent threats to me... nevertheless, I'd like to be a fly on the wall (or fly on the screen) if he talks to them, haha.

_carmi said:
my bf too its kinfa the samwe thing. at this place where he works, there's that customer, that girl of like 16 years old, always coming there just for him. she has him on msn and tries to put her cam on and makes stripteases to him. it kinda bothers me but whatever.
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Stupid girlies. Oh well, he was probably pissing himself laughing. Next time watch it as well, record it and post it on the board. Haha, that'll teach her and give everyone a good laugh!
 
Amara said:
Stupid girlies. Oh well, he was probably pissing himself laughing. Next time watch it as well, record it and post it on the board. Haha, that'll teach her and give everyone a good laugh!
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sadly i wasnt there. he told me on the phone later. i saw that girl at his job when i went once. she wasnt happy to see i was there. she definitly knows i'm his gf. whatever she's a young dumb girl and the most funny is that she makes bets that she'll go out at my bf. when some guy told that my bf he was laughing. but whatever i dont feel threatened by her anyways. anyways my bf is MINE. lol
 
Amara said:
Yeah he asked me to delete a guy I used to date who is just a friend, so I guess its fair. Actually though, he got a new account to get rid of the girlies (I dont know who's groupies they are his or his friends.. I think they are just silly young girls with boys on the brain) but shit why add them in the first place? Just click block, do not add. lol. I suppose though I talk to guys off here occasionally but not people to be worried about, just Menace and Salar pretty much and they know about my bf... so they are hardly threats. Still, the girls he talks to probably arent threats to me... nevertheless, I'd like to be a fly on the wall (or fly on the screen) if he talks to them, haha.
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don't u get a lil insecure about urself from time to time? i have this thing where ive been with some guys who all the girls have liked...like this one guy i was with had girls falling at his feet and it made me VERY insecure. i jus had this fear that one day he would give in and jus like sleep with sum1 behind my back amd that fear or paranoia turned me into a very jealous bitch.
 
Helena said:
don't u get a lil insecure about urself from time to time? i have this thing where ive been with some guys who all the girls have liked...like this one guy i was with had girls falling at his feet and it made me VERY insecure. i jus had this fear that one day he would give in and jus like sleep with sum1 behind my back amd that fear or paranoia turned me into a very jealous bitch.
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I probably would if it werent for the fact that he does reassure me all the time. I'm prone to feeling insecure, I guess maybe he realises that and puts in extra effort. Thats probably why I dont fear anything ever happening, I still just like to know, well if he flirts or if girls try and flirt with him... You know what guys can be like sometimes - they are so oblivious as to what constitutes flirting (most just think they are being friendly, :rolleyes: lol). I wouldnt blame him for flirting, I'm ok with that to an extent (if its harmless), still I like to know what goes on.
 
...yeh i get what you are saying. you say u wouldn't blame him for flirting, but how would he react if you did the same?
 
Helena said:
...yeh i get what you are saying. you say u wouldn't blame him for flirting, but how would he react if you did the same?
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Hmm, probably wouldnt be happy but i doubt he'd yell at me or anything like that.
 
^yeah trust is the key. but yeah like amara i like to know and my bf knows i like to know. but since i see him so often and i know who he hangs out with (cuz they,re my friends also) i dont really fear anything. and he knows if he cheats on me he's dead anyways. but he reassures me all the time that he wont cheat on me cuz he loves me. + i'm he's longuest relationship (4 months 1/2) so at some point i think he really loves me and wouldnt hurt me.

theres no such thing as trust. my bf knows i wasnt a trustworthy person cuz of my past (cheated on my 1st bf, 2nd bf i never loved him) but he still trusts me and i'm thankful for that because me if i'd knew he had done what i've done in the past, i would definitly not be with him right now.
 
My boyfriend has two cell-phones, one for private calls and one for work. He had only brought the work one with him so I got jealous (...) and I decided to look through his text messages. When I did I saw that he had saved all these cute messages that I had sent to him like months ago. Taught me not to do that again, lol.
 
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