eat 3-4 meals per day and make sure there really filling
i notice, asians(like my self) like to eat every 2 hours and dont each much every meal and your digestive system can take it so u dont get big, but i notice alot of white people like to eat tiny breafakst like cerial then a tiny lunch like a sandwhich and for dinner they like to pack it sooooooo much thats y alot of them get obease,
do 3 BIG meals and ur digestive system will slow down heaps and then the protein and other shit will go into your stream
and lifting weights doesnt make you big, eating does , then lift weights