Seriously men...do you really care?

[Casey]

^^ The thing is, once you get more experienced and hit your stride in regards to working out that you can (and how to) get most women out there, you will realize things like this.

When you have a 100 women to pick from inside of a club, those little things will be the deciding factor.

Me? I like high maintenance girls that look after themselves, dress fresh and stay clean, so I always looked for nice hair, nice nails, etc etc.

I know with my girl when I first saw her the little things got me, her hair style, the way she walked, her nails, her fragrance, the way she wouldnt look at me, her shoes, ect ect. At that stage of my life Id just come off of a Ying Yang Twins tour, had a song on the radio, been in national magazines, done a bunch of local shit, and was running my own nightclub, so I had PLENTY of access to pussy. I mean, when I was single, pussy was just everywhere, me and my boys were just pussy magnets there is no otherway to describe it. And at first it was fun but I got sick of it and thats when I began noticing those fine touches that are visible signs of feminine substance and worth.

In my opinion the guys that say they dont care dont care because they are just so happy to be fucking they dont care if the girl has no fingers let alone fingernails, same goes for hair, you're just so happy to be fucking. But when that because normal, you look for more.

So you may think you dont care about nails, but you will. Everybody hits that stride where you can go out every week and pick up because your confidence is just high (unless you commit early).

And in regards to you ladies, I say keep doing it, because like me for an example, the type of guy you should really want to be attracting is successful, paid, famous, whatever, and we do notice those types of things. When you put in that amount of work, money and sometimes pain to look good, make sure its for the right type of guy and if you dont want that type of guy dont bother.

And thats some real talk for ya all.

Rukas just layed it down in laymans terms for you all. Couldn't have put it any better myself.

"visible signs of feminine substance and worth" - that's exactly it.

You got any tours coming up Ruk? We just got booked for some big stuff later this year, won't say too much as I don't want to jinx it.

 

[Flipmo]

what's funny to me is that probably 90% of the things women do like this (hair, nails, etc), most guys don't care or notice. i hate to bring this up but it's humorous. when i went to meet my "online relationship" girl a year ago, she was making a big deal about how she should do her hair for when i got there. i didn't say anything cuz i know how sensitive women can be about their hair, but all i was thinking was "as long as she's not bald when i get there, i really don't give a shit" lol

but seriously, most men don't care about that kind of shit.

True that a lot don't care. I agree with that, for me the only things I rarely notice is the nails. Hair, make-up, different perfume she's wearing, new dress or shoes.. I notice all that, it's just the nails I don't. I don't know why.. I'll notice if they do something to their feet though, since I like women's feet.. lol

 

[Rukas]

Rukas just layed it down in laymans terms for you all. Couldn't have put it any better myself.

"visible signs of feminine substance and worth" - that's exactly it.

You got any tours coming up Ruk? We just got booked for some big stuff later this year, won't say too much as I don't want to jinx it.

I was supposed to tour with Juelz Santana next month but the tour just got canceled so we up in the air at the moment. I got the Urban Music Awards next in Sydney then moving my ass there for good, finishing up some projects and hustling them CDs with a couple tours booked in between. Im bout to branch off solo for the time being as some of the crew gotta go back overseas on some personal shit for a while so taking the time to focus on me and rediscovering myself as a solo musician.

 

[Casey]

I'll notice if they do something to their feet though, since I like women's feet.. lol

I'm with ya on that one homie.

 

[Eric]

Fake anything is a turn off.

 

[Devious]

^^ The thing is, once you get more experienced and hit your stride in regards to working out that you can (and how to) get most women out there, you will realize things like this.

When you have a 100 women to pick from inside of a club, those little things will be the deciding factor.

Me? I like high maintenance girls that look after themselves, dress fresh and stay clean, so I always looked for nice hair, nice nails, etc etc.

I know with my girl when I first saw her the little things got me, her hair style, the way she walked, her nails, her fragrance, the way she wouldnt look at me, her shoes, ect ect. At that stage of my life Id just come off of a Ying Yang Twins tour, had a song on the radio, been in national magazines, done a bunch of local shit, and was running my own nightclub, so I had PLENTY of access to pussy. I mean, when I was single, pussy was just everywhere, me and my boys were just pussy magnets there is no otherway to describe it. And at first it was fun but I got sick of it and thats when I began noticing those fine touches that are visible signs of feminine substance and worth.

In my opinion the guys that say they dont care dont care because they are just so happy to be fucking they dont care if the girl has no fingers let alone fingernails, same goes for hair, you're just so happy to be fucking. But when that because normal, you look for more.

So you may think you dont care about nails, but you will. Everybody hits that stride where you can go out every week and pick up because your confidence is just high (unless you commit early).

And in regards to you ladies, I say keep doing it, because like me for an example, the type of guy you should really want to be attracting is successful, paid, famous, whatever, and we do notice those types of things. When you put in that amount of work, money and sometimes pain to look good, make sure its for the right type of guy and if you dont want that type of guy dont bother.

And thats some real talk for ya all.

well that may be your opinion, and i'm not even saying that none of that stuff matters, just not as much as most women like to think it does. but your comment about guys not caring is not quite true. again, it's your opinion, but i don't care much for that stuff because it's a sign of vanity, and i don't care much for vain women. there's nothing wrong with looking good, and if you want to put that extra effort in, we do appreciate it, but to me, if you spend more time worrying about your hair, how your nails look and what you're gonna wear when you go out than anything else, then you are just too vain and shallow for me. i don't think it has anything to do with just being happy you're getting some, considering that when i'm looking for a woman, sex isn't the only thing i'm looking for, in fact it's the least important thing for me when i meet someone. personality ismuch higher on my list than anything, and a vain personality is one i tend to stay away from.

again i have to say tho, there's nothing wrong with wanting to look good or having pride in your appearance, but the majority of men don't care as much about things like hair and nails as women think we do.

the girl i'm with now, for example. she paints her nails, and spends quite a bit of time with her hair, which there is nothing wrong with that, but she's not one to go spend $300 dollars to get her hair done (i've known a few women who pay that much just for a new hairstyle) or spend hours in a salon just to get her nails done, and that's part of what attracted me to her.

 

[Flipmo]

I'm with ya on that one homie.

We should get together, have a pint and talk about feet. :thumb:

 

[Rukas]

True that a lot don't care. I agree with that, for me the only things I rarely notice is the nails. Hair, make-up, different perfume she's wearing, new dress or shoes.. I notice all that, it's just the nails I don't. I don't know why.. I'll notice if they do something to their feet though, since I like women's feet.. lol

Man I hate feet! Haha, I either cant stand a girls feet or I think they're "aiight" and normal. When I meet a girl and she takes her shoes off for the first time Im holding my breath on the outcome, if they normal we straight, if her toes are too long, too short, curl, or are in any way shape or form fucked up I am out of there, I cant deal with that shit at all.

In fact once, I made a girl keep her heals on and pretended it was a fetish when in fact I just didnt wanna see her feet haha..... I am TERRIBLE with feet.

 

[Casey]

We should get together, have a pint and talk about feet. :thumb:

Word.

Man I hate feet! Haha, I either cant stand a girls feet or I think they're "aiight" and normal. When I meet a girl and she takes her shoes off for the first time Im holding my breath on the outcome, if they normal we straight, if her toes are too long, too short, curl, or are in any way shape or form fucked up I am out of there, I cant deal with that shit at all.

In fact once, I made a girl keep her heals on and pretended it was a fetish when in fact I just didnt wanna see her feet haha..... I am TERRIBLE with feet.

Man you crazy for that one, some women got some fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiine ass feet. I love a woman with fine feet. It's just so damn sexy.

 

[hizzle?]

^^^You're crazy... feet are just weird...

 

[Casey]

I was supposed to tour with Juelz Santana next month but the tour just got canceled so we up in the air at the moment. I got the Urban Music Awards next in Sydney then moving my ass there for good, finishing up some projects and hustling them CDs with a couple tours booked in between. Im bout to branch off solo for the time being as some of the crew gotta go back overseas on some personal shit for a while so taking the time to focus on me and rediscovering myself as a solo musician.

Damn, sorry to hear the Juelz tour fell through man. Urban Music Awards sounds fun though, I always enjoy award shows.

Movin to Sydney, that sounds tight. Good luck on the re-discovery, it's always a good thing to sit back and reflect on what you're doing and what your next move is. Keep me updated.

 

[SicC]

I don't give a fuck.

pz

 

[keco52]

^^ They think its cool to rebel and be anti establishment and they see VIP as somehow being an establishment. :shrugs: Dont know how being non-VIP makes them feel cool or rebellious but it seems to..

d.k. what ur talking about...I've had V.I.P every year I've been here except the past what...3 months. And I've also donated...so you better CHECK MY RECORD!!! :fury:

 

[Synful*Luv]

*Sigh*

I missed so much in my moving absence that I don't even know how to comment

 

[Preach]

although most people have said no, it surely makes a difference on an unconscious level.

 

[ImmortalTech]

I hate them, I cant stand girls with fake nails, and colored contacts. Infact I hate make up, a lil bit on the eyes, and some lip gloss is fine, but thats it. I like the natural look when it comes to everything else.. Actually i dont even like nail polish, it pisses me off :s

~peace

 

[Cooper]

Yea I care...kind of.

 

[_carmi]

I hate them, I cant stand girls with fake nails, and colored contacts. Infact I hate make up, a lil bit on the eyes, and some lip gloss is fine, but thats it. I like the natural look when it comes to everything else.. Actually i dont even like nail polish, it pisses me off :s

~peace

so when you wake up with the girl the next morning you're not scared.

nail polish pisses me off too. first i'm not even able to put some properly on my own, second the next day there's always someo f it gone on my nails. i hate make up too. too much trouble for nothing. occasionally its okay, but everyday? and then you have to take off all the make up. nonono too much trouble.

 

[k69atie]

I stopped getting my nails done, i couldn't be arsed - and dave didn't care either way.