Jibster said:It's a very hazy line between rape and regretting it in the morning and i think that it's going to be almost impossible to implement, what are people meant to do to gain consent? When it's 3am and you're gettin in a taxi with a bird pissed out your face it's never exactly gonna be legally watertight but it doesn't make it rape either, what you gonna do? Make her sign a contract?
This money would be better spent educating people about the dangers of drinking to excess and training bar staff to spot when someones had too much and to refuse to serve them, something club owners are guilty of not doing. That's when all these "sexual assaults" are occuring, not when people are sober. Prevention rather than cure i say.
Jibster said:It's a very hazy line between rape and regretting it in the morning and i think that it's going to be almost impossible to implement, what are people meant to do to gain consent? When it's 3am and you're gettin in a taxi with a bird pissed out your face it's never exactly gonna be legally watertight but it doesn't make it rape either, what you gonna do? Make her sign a contract?
Amara said:No it isnt.
This is nothing new at all. The law has always required consent. Basically consent is common sense, something which actually the majority of people seem to have in regard to consent for sex. You dont fuck someone so shit faced that they are virtually incapacitated!
Consent doesnt mean verbal agreement, would you like sex? Well yes thank you, I would. lol. It means a clear indication of willingness. Unless you are pretty bloody stupid, you know the difference between someone wanting to have sex and someone who doesnt and someone who is asleep and someone who is rolling drunk. The last three all being capable of being construed as rape. Like I said, common sense.
Kareem said:But whats to say that when it happened she was fully aware of what she was consenting to, but come morning regrets her actions an pulls some bullshit flips the script lies an says she didnt consent.Normally a true "rape" is easy to prove there is typically some physical bruising in or around the vaginal area, ect. where as there would be no signs of trauma with consitual sex, there lies the contridiction in the law, any female at any given time could change her mind the next day knowing damn well she wasnt incapacitated an consented willingly, now because she has had a sudden change of heart your a rapist, i am currently in law school we study stuff like this all the time, anyway you see where Jibster is getting at? That law isnt just defining rape as forced sexual intercourse, but leaving a wide open gap for anyone to say "oh i didnt want it", "well wait i did but now im ashamed so im changing my mind". Im all for prosecuting someone who does force themself upon someone else while they are truly incapacitated, but this law to me just appears to loosely defined.
Amara said:I have done criminal law. There are two elements. Physical and fault: physical doesnt require trauma, it just requires intercourse so i dunno what tangent you are on. Change of mind wouldnt sufficiently give recourse to a rape charge because of one important thing, the fault elements. A man, even if the woman didnt consent, has the defence of a reasonable belief in consent. That is subjective yet based on the objective reasonable person. I have to go to a class right now, but I can go into detail later. But I know what Jibster is saying and what I am saying is the law is "smarter" than that. No stupid bitch could get away with it like that.
Kareem said:ok ok maybe the U.S. is different from Australia but here there are 2 forms of prosecutable rape, statatory (sp) an forced, statitory being sex with a minor depending on what state law says the age of consent is an the other being what i described, a good solid rape case, when the woman comes forward immedately saying she has been raped, she is then taken to a hospital where a rape kit is used, seman samples, pubic hair samples, and linear notes of all trauma caused to the spot down below is all recorded, maybe i took it the wrong way but i felt like you were insulting me, if im wrong i apologize we come from 2 different countries, im speaking of what i know here, anyway a weak rape case is when the woman fails to come forth right away an waits days even weeks before saying anything, by that time all the physical evidense is gone an the case is hard to prove, its a he say she say, not to say its not impossible but its much harder. from cases we have studied 90% of the time a true rape a woman will suffer bruising or vaginal tearing, sorry my spelling sucks, rape isnt about sex, its about power, belittling someone, anyway im rambling, im just saying here Intercourse alone doesnt prove that she was violated, it can an still we be treated like such but im just saying its harder to prove, ok im done ranting.
Jibster said:Amara,t he "haziness" comes from the consent, what constitutes consent and what doesn't? Does flirting in a club all night insinuate you want sex thus giving you consent or does it need to be more explicit than that. The fact of the matter is that it isn't black and white what constitutes consent, and it becomes even more blurred when both parties are drunk (hence the education of drinking to excess part) and flirting can be confused to be consent to sex. The fact that it's not as straight forward as needing verbal consent makes it more complex.