Political Correctness.

[dilla]

Should just call them XX or XY because no matter what surgery or identity they think they have you can't change biology.

It's pedantic but not everyone is XX or XY. Women can be XY, and it's not all that rare.

But for general usage, look to the chromosomes. I believe the same as you but people will bring up people with genetic abnormalities. Women can also have just an X and no second chromosome.

It's a complex thing, but letting a man in a dress or having women "bind" their chests to pass as male is not the best solution, I feel.

 

[Rukas]

Men always pay.

 

[k69atie]

Men always pay.

Should they though

i am happy to pay my way and don't expect to be wined and dined for free

 

[dilla]

Should they though

i am happy to pay my way and don't expect to be wined and dined for free

It's probably something that needs the pressure taken off of both parties. Men shouldn't feel obligated to pay early on and women shouldn't be confined to the "implications" of a guy paying.

No expectations to pay for the entire meal and, if one part does pay, alternate taking turns paying the bill after each outing.

 

[k69atie]

It's probably something that needs the pressure taken off of both parties. Men shouldn't feel obligated to pay early on and women shouldn't be confined to the "implications" of a guy paying.

No expectations to pay for the entire meal and, if one part does pay, alternate taking turns paying the bill after each outing.

Deffo that is what I do take turns paying