When I was 17, my manager (who was 24 at the time) from work told me - "In 5 years, you won't be hanging out with the friends you have now" - I'm finding this to be true as time passes by. What about you? Have you changed? Did they change? Tell us.
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i think think it all depends on the life u choose i chose to go work full-time while most of my friends went to UNI this didnt stop our friendship i think my group is built to last 4 life..
^ Leaving behind your friends for education is something that happens. In my case, I had better relationships while they were at school.
My lifestyle is something that I choose, but the decisions they make is mostly out of my control. What I'm looking for is the change - How did you and others changed and in your case, what is holding you guys together despite the change?
My lifestyle is something that I choose, but the decisions they make is mostly out of my control. What I'm looking for is the change - How did you and others changed and in your case, what is holding you guys together despite the change?
lol well the people that went to uni got bigger! lol no offense cooper or anyone else that mite see this 
, but i dunno we dint really change too much in ourselves...
the thing holding us together is the fact that we bin together for so long theres about 12 of us, say recently 8 of us went on holiday together had a blast i thnk its the fact that we cna go out or stay in no matter wat we do its always fun we barely argue and like each person brings a separate component to our group so like we just are like 1 big unit so to speak its cool!
, but i dunno we dint really change too much in ourselves... the thing holding us together is the fact that we bin together for so long theres about 12 of us, say recently 8 of us went on holiday together had a blast i thnk its the fact that we cna go out or stay in no matter wat we do its always fun we barely argue and like each person brings a separate component to our group so like we just are like 1 big unit so to speak its cool!
i dont dont keep in contact with anyone of my friends from high school. it's for the better probably, if you knew the kind of life i had back then you might understand. i talk every know and then to one friend who is in grad school in S.C.
i did run into some people from high school that i had mutual friends with, at a music festival a few summers ago.
but i have changed a lot since i was in high school, which was better for me and my whole family. i have made new friends and met lots of new people. honestly, i could really care less what my old friends are up too. there is only a select few that i wish i had stayed in better contact with but shit happens when you move away.
i did run into some people from high school that i had mutual friends with, at a music festival a few summers ago.
but i have changed a lot since i was in high school, which was better for me and my whole family. i have made new friends and met lots of new people. honestly, i could really care less what my old friends are up too. there is only a select few that i wish i had stayed in better contact with but shit happens when you move away.
i dont have time 2 friends these days so much
started makin beats and that is all i want 2 do right now
ofcourse im lookin for job at ame time
and sometimes its good to b alone i have so many things 2 worry bout so i choose 2 be wit myself for now
i also have plans to move in different city if i got lucky and get work from another place
started makin beats and that is all i want 2 do right now
ofcourse im lookin for job at ame time
and sometimes its good to b alone i have so many things 2 worry bout so i choose 2 be wit myself for now
i also have plans to move in different city if i got lucky and get work from another place
that's true. I had a couple of good friends in middle school, then we graduated and went to different high schools. We would still hang out freshmen year in high school but not as much as we used to. Now i haven't seen or talked to these guys in a couple years. One of them now has baby and the other guy went the bad route. Always in trouble with the law. Its not like i have anything against these guys, but we just drifted apart. Maybe its for the better. Now we have new friends that we kick it with and the friends that i have now are probably gonna be the ones that i have until im old.
I have many friends from all different groups. I guess they all see a different side of me.
I definitely don't hang out with people I went to H.S. with. I was a bad girl.
I don't have one group of friends I'm with ALL the time...I think I change a lot every year and I kinda feel they stay the same.
I have friends that drink every weekend, go to clubs 3x a week, friends with kids.
I have black friends that don't like white ppl. White friends that don't like black ppl. rappers, strippers, engineers, doctors, murderers...
So I associate with A LOT of different ppl but I would only call a select few...friends.
I definitely don't hang out with people I went to H.S. with. I was a bad girl.
I don't have one group of friends I'm with ALL the time...I think I change a lot every year and I kinda feel they stay the same.
I have friends that drink every weekend, go to clubs 3x a week, friends with kids.
I have black friends that don't like white ppl. White friends that don't like black ppl. rappers, strippers, engineers, doctors, murderers...
So I associate with A LOT of different ppl but I would only call a select few...friends.
basically my core group of friends is the same from HS (i'm almost 25 now). sure, i've made good friends since, but the ones i hang out with the most i've known since HS (my BEST friend, who doesn't live near me but we still keep in touch, i've known since 1st grade when we were 6).
Iam 24 years old and i have 4 best friends i consider to be brothers that ive been friends with going on 16 years now. i met them back in first grade and i love all four of them like i said they are like brothers to me, i know they will be there for me all through my life and with some luck my kids will grow up with theirs.
i'm only 19 and a little over a year out of high school, but it's already true. i only hang out regularly with my best friend and his girlfriend if she's around. there were two guys we used to chill with all the time. one works too much, the other changed a lot in college. he's pretty much a dick.
one of my friends moved down to philly where she goes to college. i see her when she comes back up.
one of my friends moved down to philly where she goes to college. i see her when she comes back up.
I finnished high school 4 years ago and I only talk to 1 dude from my school, we all changed too much. When I see them they are totally different ppl, and they think the same about me.
I'm lucky enough to still hang out with the same 5 people I've hung out with since I was in 5th grade.. 1 moved away, but at least he still comes up to visit once inawhile.
Now that i think about it, im pretty damn lucky to have good friend slike that..
Now that i think about it, im pretty damn lucky to have good friend slike that..
funny, my brother told me the same thing when i was around the same age.
And yeah definitely. I only keep in touch with 2 of my friends from highschool and we don't see each other that often but it's sort of like we pick up right where we leave off everytime we see each other so it's good. The rest i see around but we're all in different places now. We're no longer teens trying to make a mark or prove a point.
And yeah definitely. I only keep in touch with 2 of my friends from highschool and we don't see each other that often but it's sort of like we pick up right where we leave off everytime we see each other so it's good. The rest i see around but we're all in different places now. We're no longer teens trying to make a mark or prove a point.
i don't have friends...only enemies N' if they wit me then that means they my brothers n' sisters
I only hang out with 1 person that i was friends with in high school, been my best friend for years, and he remains my only friend to this day because he never acted stupid or backstabbed me, so yes i guess that does hold pretty true
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