one of those days

[keco52]

Do you ever have one of those days when you feel so insecure for no reason? It's completely superficial but it still sucks. You just wanna curl up in a ball and go back to bed? Blegh...that's what my day is like.

I've just been sizing everyone up today...which is really sad. Like "Her boobs are bigger than mine" "Her belly is flatter than mine" "Her hair, clothes, blah blah blah is better than mine. I never do this and I think it's because my b.f. is gone and I feel like I'm missing half of myself.
Tell me I'm not alone.

 

[Helena]

damn girl u are sooooo not alone!! i feel like that a lot!
more times then not it is when i am manless!
ur beautiful though! dont be feelin like that! the best thing to do..is have some "me" time. pamper urself! then go out! that always works for me!

 

[behind-my-eyez]

I feel alot like that sometimes, I feel that I just want the whole world to go way and let me be alone for a little bit. And it's a weird feeling that happens at random times. It's not like you lead up to it and boom it happens, but yeah I get what you're saying. I'm kinda having a day like that today. I guess the only thing to do is sleep...

 

[Amara]

Yeah I was having one of those days not that long ago... think I wrote a journal entry on here about it, lol.

I usually respond with retail therapy... it doesnt cure it, but buying shit tends to make me feel less fugly.

It's just part of being a female in a superficial society...

 

[Steph]

I have one of those days right now, and its also because of a guy. Not because I dont have one, but because I cant make him feel better about himself, it bums me out because I really like him. I want him to think otherwise of himself. It also bums me out because I'm usually so good at raising peoples self-esteem and this is one time I just cant change someones mind. And I've tried soo hard. I just cant bear to see him so depressed.

 

[k69atie]

Yeah i have days like this all the time

I find a new pair of shoes/jeans/handbag makes me feel a little better, either that or eating a huge bar of chocolate!

 

[Synful*Luv]

Yeah, i've had one of those days, for me, I just curl up in bed with a good book, watch tv, and find something tasty to munch on, oh yeah, having a sweet guy to tell you that you're hot doesn't hurt either

 

[Missy "C"]

Sometimes I feel like that too and it sucks Going shopping works for me, but usually I just write something like a bad poem, lol. At least it makes me feel better

So don't worry, you're not alone :S

 

[_carmi]

i feel like that a least once a week. i feel ur pain. there are days like that but tell urself that tomorrow will be better and go to sleep lol

 

[Amara]

having a sweet guy to tell you that you're hot doesn't hurt either

I get angry if a guy trys to tell me something like that on an ugly day!

 

[_carmi]

^yeah me too its like u know ur ugly that day u feel ugly and that guy is just there tells u ur hot but u know ur not

 

[Amara]

^ Exactly. I'd rather he just agreed with me on those days because hearing anything else just feels like a lie.

 

[_carmi]

i know and it feels sooo bad

 

[k69atie]

I had one of these days yesterday, still feel it today