My Prom Is Tonight - *Help Me*

[Mixture]

so heres my situation, i got a girlfriend who loves to dance, and i DONT know how to dance. This is my first high school dance (loser i know) and she just tells me i will be fine and that its easy. but im completely terrified and making my self look like a total dumb ass. i would apperciate any POSITIVE advice. Thanks

 

[EriMakaveli]

Drink some alcohol...not too much and not beer(nasty!).

 

[gobnik]

Just Lean back when it's time to "dance", or just follow her lead and motions.

 

[Hituup]

You don't have to drink any alcohol to be cool. If you drink you could be unaware of yourself and make a total ass out of yourself on an important night like prom night.

Just be cool and try not to have too much butterflies. Well you'll get butterflies regardless, but its just a day/night that'll pass. Once you get to the prom/dance destination, it'll be out of your system by then and you probably won't be as nervous. If you have any friends, you'll feel comforted once you see them and can sit and have a good time with them at their table or something.

If your girlfriend wants to dance, then get on the dance floor with her and have a great time. I mean who's going to be looking at you or focusing on you dancing anyway. Theres going to be like probably more than a hundred other people on the dance floor having a good time dancing with each other.

Sure this dance/prom may be stressing, but once you get over it, it'll be a great moment to look back on. Try not to take it so hard and make the best out of the situation when you get there. Its one night/day and you won't die, well thats if you don't get drunk and or drive recklessly.

 

[Mixture]

i have to drive her there and back so drinking is out of the picture. Im not really nervous about going there its just the whole dancing thing - i dont know what to do...im not one of thouse club dudes or anything so its all new to me. anything would help

 

[Khalil]

Peace Mixture

The bark is much stronger than the bite, last year I had to do live improv in fornt of my entire school. I had hella butterflies before I went on stage but When I performed I thought I sucked-but no one seemed to notice and having faced this fear I fear it no more.

Live your life, the worst that will happen is someone will judge you harshly and this will only effect you if you allow it, remove the doubt in your heart by experiencing the act, who say's you gotta dance good? Just dance!!


peace,

You scared to be yourself, cause you in a trance
Feel free, hear the music and dance
who care what they think, why wear what they wear, just be you

Nas

 

[S O F I]

Just Lean back when it's time to "dance", or just follow her lead and motions.

:thumb:

If it's dancing to rap music, this advice works well. Half the dudes at clubs don't know how to dance either, they just have fun with it. Follow the girl's motions, do whatever. The trick is to not try and do too much that you're not accustomed to doing, because that's the only way you're going to come out to look like a dumbass.

 

[FoeFoe]

smoke a few bowls of some killer weed before u go and youll be fine all that nervous shit will go away and u wont think about anything but having a good time

 

[hizzle?]

Drink some alcohol...not too much and not beer(nasty!).

here's my analysis of your comment

Drink some alcohol

that's a good advice, it shows that you are actually a normal dude

not too much

ok you are probably a metrosexual who doesn't want alcohol to smell more than your sean john parfume

not beer

You went from metrosexual to HOMOsexual

nasty!

You are definitly a fag

 

[hizzle?]

oh...and it's not hard..if it's rap...you just grind...follow the beat and just move your body to the music..


at the worst, do the head dance... you know, you follow the beat with your head :thumb:

 

[Mixture]

thanks for all your advice guys, i acutally had a blast, i grabbed my ladys hips and she did all the work. but again thanks for all help

 

[hizzle?]

you didn't listen to that sammy guy i hope!

 

[H.E. Pennypacker]

Dancing is too easy. Its letting your body do what it wants to do. There are no rules and there's no specific way of dancing. Anyone who makes fun of has nothing to do or they are insecure about themselves.

Fat Joe couldn't dance so he came up with Lean Back. Make up something for yourself.

If you are really lost, do any or all of the following:

1. Lean back as in the Lean Back video.
2. Brush your shoulders as instructed by Jay Z.
3. The Hustla dance from the Ima Hustla video.
4. Walk around like you're lost.

 

[bigmack]

here's my analysis of your comment

that's a good advice, it shows that you are actually a normal dude

ok you are probably a metrosexual who doesn't want alcohol to smell more than your sean john parfume

You went from metrosexual to HOMOsexual

You are definitly a fag

ahahahhahahha lmao

Dancing is too easy. Its letting your body do what it wants to do. There are no rules and there's no specific way of dancing. Anyone who makes fun of has nothing to do or they are insecure about themselves.

Fat Joe couldn't dance so he came up with Lean Back. Make up something for yourself.

If you are really lost, do any or all of the following:

1. Lean back as in the Lean Back video.
2. Brush your shoulders as instructed by Jay Z.
3. The Hustla dance from the Ima Hustla video.
4. Walk around like you're lost.

ahahahahahahhahaha

 

[CalcuoCuchicheo]

Dancing is too easy. Its letting your body do what it wants to do. There are no rules and there's no specific way of dancing. Anyone who makes fun of has nothing to do or they are insecure about themselves.

Fat Joe couldn't dance so he came up with Lean Back. Make up something for yourself.

If you are really lost, do any or all of the following:

1. Lean back as in the Lean Back video.
2. Brush your shoulders as instructed by Jay Z.
3. The Hustla dance from the Ima Hustla video.
4. Walk around like you're lost.

You should make number 5 that little dance Timberlake & Pharrell were doing at the end of one of his videos. You know, the one featuring the Clipse. The little hand on the chin thing, then moving your hands in the air. Anybody can do that!

 

[71Outlaw71]

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