Mad as HELL right now..

Fataldawg

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My best friend of 14 years' little sister just had her 2nd kid a couple days ago.. I'm closer to his family probaly even more then mine since i spend every major holiday with them and they've always supported me in everything I've done or did.. But anyways the baby was born premature (about a month and a half) and so happens that the kid was born with coke and some other stuff in his system and the State is taking custody of that kid and also her 3 year old. My friends sister is 22 and this is all her boyfriend/baby daddy to blame..

The guy is some wack ass 24yr old punk that thinks hes a rapper .. When she first started going with him I would kick it with him over his apartment and chill, smoke weed, etc but I stopped since I got to know his dirtbag friends and wasnt feelin it (although i admit he did hook me up with a couple chics I banged) That girl never did any serious drugs before she met him so basically the whole family including me hates him since hes such a piece of shit and obviously has her whipped.. And he cant rap for shit either. His mom Od'd off coke about a year and a half ago that he gave her.. so its like how the fuck can you still do drug that killed your own fuckin mother? And her death aint even faze him cause I saw him a couple days later and the 1st thing he said to me was something like if I heard that new Kanye.

I know its my boys little sisters fault too since she has a mind of her own.. But shes dumb as shit.. She always was, but shes a good person.. 4real she reminds me of Brenda from Brendas Got A Baby.. She just makes stupid choices.. Has drama like this happened to you? Although its not my immediate family, I still love all of them like they're mine so this shit really pisses me off.. I honestly wanna choke the shit out of this kid if I ever see him again. He lives in a motel a few towns away, and my boys little sister is staying with a lady they used to sell crack too.. wtf...

The good thing is that my boy and his other sister are going to take custody of the children so they'll be takin care of. Sorry to make and thread and vent but 4real I'm extremely mad right now and had to vent!
 
I feel you on this dawg. My sistaz boyfriends always turn out to be assholes. They're "grown" and they can make their own choices but I don't know, if love is there, it can make people stupid at times. All I can tell you is that u gotta wait and see how things turn out. Ya sista may have a lot of grownin' up to do to see tha light.
 
You know, i'm sorry to be the devil's advocate but she deserves to have her kids taken away from her. Unless he put a gun to her head and told her to do drugs... it's not entirely his fault, she holds the majority of the blame man.

Again i'm sorry, not for her I hope she goes to prison for child abuse and endangerment, but i'm sorry for the children.

I understand he played a part, but if she's old enough to open her legs she's old enough to use her brain.
 
Man that's a fucked up situation, especially for your friend. Good you're taking care of it with him and his other sister. That other guy sounds like a real low-life if you ask me...I know the type..

I have to point out out though, even though your post is about such a serious subject, you made one of the funniest typo's in a while:

Fataldawg said:
the baby was porn premature /QUOTE]

Maybe you wanna correct that before people come in and start making jokes in such a serious thread..
 
B-art said:
I have to point out out though, even though your post is about such a serious subject, you made one of the funniest typo's in a while:

Fataldawg said:
the baby was porn premature /QUOTE]

Maybe you wanna correct that before people come in and start making jokes in such a serious thread..

Yea when I type fast I always do that and make weird spelling mistakes.

Tru Principle said:
You know, i'm sorry to be the devil's advocate but she deserves to have her kids taken away from her. Unless he put a gun to her head and told her to do drugs... it's not entirely his fault, she holds the majority of the blame man.

Yea i feel ya. Shes just an idiot.. It actually is best for her to have her kids takin away since shes definately an unfit mother. Coke only stays in your system a couple of days so for it to be in the babies bloodstream she musta been doing it alot the last month or so. My boy has his own house, wife and makes decent money so its definately better if he takes one, and his other sis takes the other.
 
Word man ^, I understand completely what you're saying and I understand sometimes there are unfortunate factors that push somebody to drugs but still.. she has kids, and its awful it angers me that she would get pregnant and do drugs...

Crack babies really lead a hard life, and being premature... I don't know, I hope the baby becomes healthy but I doubt it.
 
In ohio they give crack addicted babies right back to the moms that made them that way...it's sad. I helped take care of a baby that was born addicted to crack when I volunteered...Their cry is like no other cry I've ever heard. It's really sad and any woman that would put their child through that deserves to have them taken away...

Sorry that's just how I feel. At least they will be taken care of now.
 
now thats really messsed up....what else can i say but..i hope everything works out for that baby....
 
The chick is 14 with two kids and was doing coke while she was pregnant? Fuck that, it's a good thing they took the kids from here. Atleast this way the baby will have a fighting chance at a good life. As far as your friends sister, she is still really young. Hopefully she can get some help. She is just a kid herself.

I lost my mother to drugs so it's a personal subject with me. Differnce was I was old enough to know what was going on, atleast this way the kids wont have to go through the hell I went through.
 

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