Ladies......

[LilShOrtiE485]

Hey ladies, I need ur help again

...See the thing is..uhh...lol the thing is that I wanna be like really really pretty! Kinda weird I know but like my best friend is so pretty and she gets every guys attention and all, and she like puts on some make up too and all and like I wanna be like her too like really pretty! Can u guys please help me!!! Im like desperate here!

 

[KiRsTyBoO]

I wish i could help u but i cant, cos i have the same problem..

All i do is just ignore it,, sorry im sure the others will help.

Keep ya chin up

xXxXx

 

[k69atie]

I am sure you are very pretty, but if you feel like this you need to make the most of your best points (legs, bum, chest, eyes, cheekbones etc!!) highlight them, draw people's attention to them!

or you could even get your friend to give to a make over (or another friend if you feel uncomfertable asking her!) try something different with make up! you never know, could make you feel loads better about yourself!

sorry i can't be more help

 

[~live2tell~]

Beauty is so superficial, you gotta be happy in your own skin and don't try and be something you're not. Real beauty comes from within, sure your friend might look good but that won't last forever.

If this is making you really unhappy you could try what Katie suggested, making the most of the assets that you feel are your best, but you really shouldn't have to.

 

[k69atie]

[QUOTE=~live2tell~]Beauty is so superficial, you gotta be happy in your own skin and don't try and be something you're not. Real beauty comes from within, sure your friend might look good but that won't last forever.If this is making you really unhappy you could try what Katie suggested, making the most of the assets that you feel are your best, but you really shouldn't have to.[/QUOTE]


Very true :thumb: :thumb:

 

[Synful*Luv]

Girl, i know how you feel, been there before.

My best friend from HS, was gorgeous, all the guys wanted to talk to her wherever we went, so I know how it feels to feel like the "ugly friend" so to speak, not that I was ugly, but when you're friends with someone who is abnormally pretty, you feel like you just can't compete sometimes.

Anyway, I say don't worry about it, once you ignore the guys and stop thinking about it, more than likely, that's when they'll try and talk to you.

I know you're looking for like a "fix quick" but for something like this, there really isn't one unfortunately, try to just enhance what you have, also, a good personality is a match for a hot girl anyday

 

[Helena]

^she's right hun....
i think everyone goes through that phase sooner or later.
i honestly think u'll get over it given time. sure if it makes u feel better...get a makeover.
i know u'll hear this a lot but beauty IS only skin deep. u need to remember that.

It might just be that ur being paranoid. Ive heard the most prettiest girls say exactly the same thing...and when the situation is assessed...the girls friend isnt even all that pretty but jus gets all the attention cuz of the way she comes accross. she might me extra confident o sumthin.

darlin ive just noticed...ur only 14! dont be gettin down on urself.
this is the time to be carefree...ur only young once!

 

[Amara]

Hey ladies, I need ur help again

...See the thing is..uhh...lol the thing is that I wanna be like really really pretty! Kinda weird I know but like my best friend is so pretty and she gets every guys attention and all, and she like puts on some make up too and all and like I wanna be like her too like really pretty! Can u guys please help me!!! Im like desperate here!

Yeah I had a friend like that too... the pretty girl that everyone wanted to know and be with etc... I guess though, probably what you dont realise is that whilst you're thinking you'd love to be like her, someone else is probably thinking they'd love to be like you. So rather than beating yourself down with what you perceive as your weaknesses or bad points, start thinking about your good points... everytime you look in the mirror - learn to see what's really there and whats good about it.

 

[ArtsyGirl]

I bet if you asked your friend she looks to someone else and wishes the same transformation. Alot of people especially females arnt happy with themselves, I had a friend similar to yours who everyone adored and admired but she had very low self-esteem so being someone else wont improve your outlook forever. If you wanna be pretty start by giving yourself a personality make-over Corny I know but confidence is the biggest attraction.

 

[Beautiful Angel]

you're only 14yrs old
the way someone looks shouldn't be your top priority
give it time, when i was younger i felt the same way but then i grew up i'm not sure if the way i looked changed or if it was just the way that i precieved myself.
when it comes to make up just rememeber LESS is MORE!! don't over due the make up just use a little blush, a light colored eyeshadow, thin line of eye liner and a little mascara and some lip gloss......just be yourself, and be happy with you, if you're not happy with yourself you can't expect others to be

 

[LilShOrtiE485]

Hey everybody,lol artisticgurl ur comment about getting a personallity make-over was funny...anyways I'm over that whole 'my friend being prettier then me thing.' I realised that she's just pretty...n nothing else. She's so B!tchy towards EVERYONE and guys like here cuz well...shes hecka flirty n all lol. I'm not really into make up n all so I doubt I'm gonna start wearing it now Beautiful angel, I prefer the natural look!

P.S...if anyone cares posting in this forum always cheers me up!

 

[_carmi]

im sure ur pretty. feel good in ur own skin and u'll be really pretty.