I have a date tomorrow!!

[k69atie]

will do, i mean i will see him on saturday in the pub but the football will be on and all his mates will be there so i'd prefer it just the two of us

 

[Amara]

well he is taking me out for a meal on sunday, i am going to ask him then

how are you gonna bring up the topic, ask straight out or work it in?

 

[k69atie]

i haven't figured that out yet! lol any ideas?

 

[~live2tell~]

Oki I read a little of the thread not all of it though, I know I prob just sometimes like to be different - but I wouldn't ask him... just leave it and see how it works out - it's only been a couple of weeks right?

 

[k69atie]

yeah it's been about 3 weeks.

do i wait until he asks me?

 

[~live2tell~]

From what I've heard guys find this thing weird, talking about the status of their relationships, yeah go figure, so just don't have the conversation by asking. If you really want to know where you stand do it sneakily not by asking outright... now we need ideas on how to do it sneakily hmm when's his birthday? or yours for that matter?

 

[k69atie]

his is march 6th and mine is march 28th!!

he has already told me that he wants more than fun so that is a start right?

 

[~live2tell~]

his is march 6th and mine is march 28th!!

he has already told me that he wants more than fun so that is a start right?

Yeah yeah, when you buy him a card for his birthday buy him one that says 'To My Boyfriend', and wait for his reaction - then see what kind of card he buys you for your birthday - with both being in March it's not even that long to wait. A few of my friends have done this before and it worked for them!

 

[k69atie]

Mmmm great idea!!! It is only a few weeks til his birthday and then mine a couple of weeks after!!!

he got me a valentines card, it was dead sweet

 

[~live2tell~]

^ aw sounds sweet. I'm sure you're over-thinking the whole 'boyfriend/girlfriend' thing (but who doesn't right)! Let me know how it goes

 

[k69atie]

lol yeah that's true, i have been single for that long with some very unsuccsessful dates inbetween i have forgotten how it all works!! lame i know!

Thanks sara (a star as always) I will keep you updated

 

[_carmi]

mm the card idea is a great idea actually. yeah do it do it

 

[k69atie]

well we were in the pub over the weekend, loads of his mates called me his girlfriend and he didn't correct them, so who knows!!!

will still do the card thing, 2 weeks to go

 

[_carmi]

seems to me he might be considering you as his gf now. thats great but do the card thing just to be sure.

 

[k69atie]

lol yeah i am still going to do the card thing, just so i know for sure.

i am spending all the weekend with him, he is cooking for me etc, so will hopefully finally get some loving :horny:

 

[_carmi]

its about time

 

[k69atie]

lol i know tell me about it!!! i am gagging :laugh:

 

[k69atie]

From what I've heard guys find this thing weird, talking about the status of their relationships, yeah go figure, so just don't have the conversation by asking. If you really want to know where you stand do it sneakily not by asking outright... now we need ideas on how to do it sneakily hmm when's his birthday? or yours for that matter?

Hey sara!! I sent him the a card that said boyfriend on it for his birthday and it worked!!! He was smiling loads and he asked me if i was his girlfriend as i said yes!!

Thanks sara

 

[_carmi]

^awwwwwwww SWEEEEEEEEEEEEET

 

[k69atie]

Thanks Carmi, he text me last night saying he was really proud that i got him a card saying boyfriend on