I have a date tomorrow!!

[k69atie]

thanks carmi, he seems so different from all the other wankers i have been attracked too, i really like him i haven't felt like this for ages and i am both happy and scared

 

[k69atie]

well things are going really well, thursday night that we spent in together was great and also saw him on sat, we spent all day togther and then went out for a meal for his best mates birthday was 15 of us all together, had a wicked time.

i really like him loads, we have had "the talk" about what we both want and we both want the same thing whcih is cool.

hopefully gonna see him tomorrow, not sure if he classes me as his girlfriend yet though!!

 

[_carmi]

well do you see him as your bf? or you can ask him if he sees you as his gf

 

[k69atie]

yeah i do. do i ask him?

 

[Helena]

^yeah ask him. it seems like you are a couple now though!

 

[k69atie]

mmm i hate things like this, do i ask him via text or do i ask him tomorrow night? (if i see him) and do i just ask him if he see's me as his girl?

sorry i am so shit at this sort of thing!! lol

 

[Helena]

lol, chill out! y not say it in a jokey kinda way? that way, it's less awkward and if you don't like his answer (i'm sure u will though!) you can laugh it off!!

 

[k69atie]

good idea :thumb: will let you know what he says, cross your fingers for me!!

 

[Helena]

*crosses fingers* don't worry about it hunny!

 

[_carmi]

*crosses fingers* i think you should tell him in person tho, not via text messaging

 

[Amara]

mmm i hate things like this, do i ask him via text or do i ask him tomorrow night? (if i see him) and do i just ask him if he see's me as his girl?

I havent read the entire thread but seriously, its that time between dating and a relationship that confuses me the most! lol. You feel silly for asking but at the same time, you gotta know.

 

[k69atie]

^^^ excactly!! i hate that part too, i think i am going to ask him tonight!!

 

[Beautiful Angel]

yeah it is a pretty interesting part of the relationship, i remember that with me and matt.....glad we got it settled eventually

good luck katie

 

[k69atie]

thanks kellie, do you think it i too soon to ask him as it has only been a couple of weeks?

 

[_carmi]

i never had that "am i his gf" problem. looks confusing to me. me all i know its at the afterprom i finally kissed my bf and then i became his gf and him my bf and it was automatic. there was no / are you my bf? am i your gf" questions. but then i know i asked him in a really confident way after kissing him: you love me ehhh.

 

[k69atie]

lol i wish it was always that easy!! i bottled it, i didn't ask!

 

[Helena]

lol i wish it was always that easy!! i bottled it, i didn't ask!

awww, doesn't matter! u'll get another chance to ask

 

[_carmi]

lol i wish it was always that easy!! i bottled it, i didn't ask!

its okay. theres always another occasion to ask

 

[k69atie]

well he is taking me out for a meal on sunday, i am going to ask him then

 

[_carmi]

cool. you'll keep us updated