I am standing up to my boss, finally.

[H.E. Pennypacker]

This is for all the people that have been put down at work. This is for everyone from Harry_Potter to AmerikazMost. A lot people just don't have it in them to go up to their boss, but here it is.

I am not exactly standing up to my boss, but I am complaining about how she treats me. Here's a letter that I wrote to her, and will give her some day soon (if you want the complete letter, let me know):

I wanted to say that I’ve been extremely uncomfortable around you. I say this because of how you speak to me, what you say, and how you address me. I will elaborate on what makes me feel uncomfortable around you. For the sake of ease, I’ll give an example out of the innumerable times I have been disrespected and quite frankly been put down. I came to you one time, and I said “I will use this product” in reference to a product that had more than one manufacturer. Quite simply, you replied “No, you won’t.” It wasn’t “Oh no, that’s the wrong one.” You said “No, you won’t,” with an extremely bad attitude. I’ll give another example because I feel I won’t run out of examples any time soon. Another day, I was talking with a patient on the phone and told that patient I would check to see if we had it in stock. You overhear me, and you say “Don’t be ridiculous!” suggesting that we did have the product. Whether we had it or not is a completely different story. It the manner you spoke to me that bothered me beyond belief. Perhaps you weren’t feeling well or your day wasn’t exactly fun. No, that wasn’t the case. You are like this so often that it could not possibly be how you’re feeling that day. Besides, everyone has days when we’re upset but we don’t let it get in the way of our work or how we treat co-workers.

Because of your ways, I constantly wish that I am not scheduled on the same days as you are, or I think to myself “I wish someone else would come in for Stacey.” I nearly beg Ellen to stay after her hours so that I can ask her questions without having to be embarrassed or ridiculed. I hate to say this to you because I am sure it makes you feel bad, but what else can I say? I cannot sugarcoat anything that’s on my mind.

All this time, I was hoping you’d start treating me better, but nothing has changed, and I know nothing will change. I don’t think its simply how you treat me. That’s for sure. I’ve seen it with others and even with your own fiancé. I am not sure if he’s used to it, but I’ve even seen you treat him like dirt. The only persons I’ve not seen you disrespect must me the ones that are either on your level (pharmacists) or your supervisors (Jean, or others that have firing power).

I ask you, Stacey, may I wake up one day without fearing how I’ll be treated at work that day? May I actually look forward to going to work? May I be at peace with myself when I am working? Please, allow me to do my work without making me feeling like an idiot, sub-human, or unworthy of being amongst my colleagues.

There's more, but I'll leave it at that.

 

[H.E. Pennypacker]

This is for all the people that have been put down at work. This is for everyone from Harry_Potter to AmerikazMost. A lot people just don't have it in them to go up to their boss, but here it is.

I am not exactly standing up to my boss, but I am complaining about how she treats me. Here's a letter that I wrote to her, and will give her some day soon (if you want the complete letter, let me know):

I wanted to say that I’ve been extremely uncomfortable around you. I say this because of how you speak to me, what you say, and how you address me. I will elaborate on what makes me feel uncomfortable around you. For the sake of ease, I’ll give an example out of the innumerable times I have been disrespected and quite frankly been put down. I came to you one time, and I said “I will use this product” in reference to a product that had more than one manufacturer. Quite simply, you replied “No, you won’t.” It wasn’t “Oh no, that’s the wrong one.” You said “No, you won’t,” with an extremely bad attitude. I’ll give another example because I feel I won’t run out of examples any time soon. Another day, I was talking with a patient on the phone and told that patient I would check to see if we had it in stock. You overhear me, and you say “Don’t be ridiculous!” suggesting that we did have the product. Whether we had it or not is a completely different story. It the manner you spoke to me that bothered me beyond belief. Perhaps you weren’t feeling well or your day wasn’t exactly fun. No, that wasn’t the case. You are like this so often that it could not possibly be how you’re feeling that day. Besides, everyone has days when we’re upset but we don’t let it get in the way of our work or how we treat co-workers.

Because of your ways, I constantly wish that I am not scheduled on the same days as you are, or I think to myself “I wish someone else would come in for Stacey.” I nearly beg Ellen to stay after her hours so that I can ask her questions without having to be embarrassed or ridiculed. I hate to say this to you because I am sure it makes you feel bad, but what else can I say? I cannot sugarcoat anything that’s on my mind.

All this time, I was hoping you’d start treating me better, but nothing has changed, and I know nothing will change. I don’t think its simply how you treat me. That’s for sure. I’ve seen it with others and even with your own fiancé. I am not sure if he’s used to it, but I’ve even seen you treat him like dirt. The only persons I’ve not seen you disrespect must me the ones that are either on your level (pharmacists) or your supervisors (Jean, or others that have firing power).

I ask you, Stacey, may I wake up one day without fearing how I’ll be treated at work that day? May I actually look forward to going to work? May I be at peace with myself when I am working? Please, allow me to do my work without making me feeling like an idiot, sub-human, or unworthy of being amongst my colleagues.

There's more, but I'll leave it at that.

 

[CalcuoCuchicheo]

It the manner you spoke to me that bothered me beyond belief

Missing a "was" here my man.

As for the thing as a whole, good for you. If shit is unjust & is bothering you, then you should complain & obviously you've waited a while too so you're not just moaning at every turn.

Although if I were you, I wouldn't mention her partner. It really seems to have no place in this letter being that your complaint is about a co-woker's behaviour while on duty.

 

[CalcuoCuchicheo]

It the manner you spoke to me that bothered me beyond belief

Missing a "was" here my man.

As for the thing as a whole, good for you. If shit is unjust & is bothering you, then you should complain & obviously you've waited a while too so you're not just moaning at every turn.

Although if I were you, I wouldn't mention her partner. It really seems to have no place in this letter being that your complaint is about a co-woker's behaviour while on duty.

 

[Hankaveli]

I ain't gonna read all that, But yeah stand up say "Fuck you, Fuck you, you're cool, Fuck you, I'm out" if you got to.

I don't take shit and it is a downfall in many ways but I just don't get why people subject themselfs to adverse conditions.

 

[Hankaveli]

I ain't gonna read all that, But yeah stand up say "Fuck you, Fuck you, you're cool, Fuck you, I'm out" if you got to.

I don't take shit and it is a downfall in many ways but I just don't get why people subject themselfs to adverse conditions.

 

[Butt Rubber]

you sound like a crybaby, that letter wont get you anywhere/anything but fired

 

[Butt Rubber]

you sound like a crybaby, that letter wont get you anywhere/anything but fired

 

[H.E. Pennypacker]

Missing a "was" here my man.

Thanks for point that out.

Although if I were you, I wouldn't mention her partner. It really seems to have no place in this letter being that your complaint is about a co-woker's behaviour while on duty.

I had to mention her (Ellen) because she's her partner as a pharmacist. I need to give her an example of how a person can communicate properly. She can use Ellen as an example.

you sound like a crybaby, that letter wont get you anywhere/anything but fired

Thanks for adding such a useful reply...as worthless as many other of your posts. I am complaining to her...if that's being a crybaby, so be it. If its going to get me fired, fine. I am not going to make a big deal over a place where I am paid pretty bad and where I am treated bad.

 

[H.E. Pennypacker]

Missing a "was" here my man.

Thanks for point that out.

Although if I were you, I wouldn't mention her partner. It really seems to have no place in this letter being that your complaint is about a co-woker's behaviour while on duty.

I had to mention her (Ellen) because she's her partner as a pharmacist. I need to give her an example of how a person can communicate properly. She can use Ellen as an example.

you sound like a crybaby, that letter wont get you anywhere/anything but fired

Thanks for adding such a useful reply...as worthless as many other of your posts. I am complaining to her...if that's being a crybaby, so be it. If its going to get me fired, fine. I am not going to make a big deal over a place where I am paid pretty bad and where I am treated bad.

 

[CalcuoCuchicheo]

I had to mention her (Ellen) because she's her partner as a pharmacist. I need to give her an example of how a person can communicate properly. She can use Ellen as an example.

Unless you work with Ellen DeGeneres then I think we've had (another) misunderstanding.

I meant you shouldn't mention her fiance.

 

[CalcuoCuchicheo]

I had to mention her (Ellen) because she's her partner as a pharmacist. I need to give her an example of how a person can communicate properly. She can use Ellen as an example.

Unless you work with Ellen DeGeneres then I think we've had (another) misunderstanding.

I meant you shouldn't mention her fiance.

 

[Jokerman]

"The only persons I’ve not seen you disrespect must me the ones..."

"must me the ones" should be changed to: "must me the mones"

But it was a good letter, and you probably should memorize it and say it to her in person (one day).

 

[Jokerman]

"The only persons I’ve not seen you disrespect must me the ones..."

"must me the ones" should be changed to: "must me the mones"

But it was a good letter, and you probably should memorize it and say it to her in person (one day).

 

[PuffnScruff]

if you decide to walk out, VA isn;t that far. take a bunch of happy pills as a going away present. i'll take them all off your hands.

just tell your boss how you feel. if she still is a bitch, then i'm sure she has a boss that you can talk to about this

 

[PuffnScruff]

if you decide to walk out, VA isn;t that far. take a bunch of happy pills as a going away present. i'll take them all off your hands.

just tell your boss how you feel. if she still is a bitch, then i'm sure she has a boss that you can talk to about this

 

[DJ THREAT]

get a life, no one cares about your job and how much you suck at it. don't like the bitch? its called the 1-2 fuck you across the face.

 

[DJ THREAT]

get a life, no one cares about your job and how much you suck at it. don't like the bitch? its called the 1-2 fuck you across the face.

 

[not really ken]

get a life, no one cares about your job and how much you suck at it. don't like the bitch? its called the 1-2 fuck you across the face.

He has never said once that he sucks at his job, rather that he has supervisors who treat him like sub-human. I think there's a big difference, don't you?

And slapping people gets you locked up, which is where you'll be heading with that attitude, or do you just turn it on over the net?


Packer, let's have the rest of the letter!

 

[not really ken]

get a life, no one cares about your job and how much you suck at it. don't like the bitch? its called the 1-2 fuck you across the face.

He has never said once that he sucks at his job, rather that he has supervisors who treat him like sub-human. I think there's a big difference, don't you?

And slapping people gets you locked up, which is where you'll be heading with that attitude, or do you just turn it on over the net?


Packer, let's have the rest of the letter!