Happy Birthday xxsaraxx!

[Rukas]

no one could give confirmation or updates because the thread was closed, listen it doesn't really matter because its in the past but obviously i'm sure if it was the other way round and someone you loved was hurt and then you saw comments that it was a lie or whatever then you'd lose interest in being a part of this board too. the board is great don't get me wrong just some of the ppl come across as insensitive and selfish. and i wouldn't hold my breath that everyone wished him well.

yup and sometimes i miss being a part of this board. You take care too.

If someone Amara loved who didn’t post on the board, and whats more, was banned and wasn’t wanted on the board, was hurt then Im sure that she wouldn’t make a thread about it.

Dude has no part of this forum, why make a post about it? If he has some friends on here and you wanted to tell them and don’t have their emails or MSN or whatever, PM them, simple.

There was no proof that he was in an accident, and from his past history of bullshit and lieing I had and have no reason to believe it and the thread was closed, we’ve had a number of fake deaths and suicides before and I had no reason to believe this was anything different. The thread was closed and I said that if anyone provided some proper evidence then I would consider opening it out of respect for you, not for him, even though I think the thread had no place here, but no one came forward.

Furthermore, I don’t like the dude, and to be quite honest and totally blunt, if he was in an accident, my feelings about him don’t change. I don’t like him, and I don’t care about him what so ever. Im sorry for anyone when they are hurt and like I said in the thread I hope that if its true he’s alright and I was sorry for your hurt and his families, but that doesn’t mean I like him. Him being hurt isn’t going to make me turn around and say “oh well he was a total dickhead but now he’s hurt Ill be his friend and suddenly care.” That would be totally weak of me.

A friend of mine was killed last year in a car accident (which I made no thread about because it had nothing to do with this board) and I hated the fake friends coming out of the woodwork crying like they were down when they really weren’t. Is that what you wanted us to do? Shed fake tears because he was in hospital? Sorry but no, no matter what happens to dude, Im not going to like him, and I speak for a lot of people on here, that’s not being insensitive of me or selfish that’s just being real.

If you think that him being hurt would warrant everyone suddenly liking him then you are naive.

Like I said, you have a right to be sad, he’s YOUR friend, not ours, and you have a right to let the people that like him know whats up, but the rest of us simply don’t feel anything towards him and don’t care, and whats more, have no reason to even believe it was real. Im not saying you are lying, Im saying we, those who don’t know him or don’t know you, have no reason to give it a second thought.

Enjoy your stay on the board, if you think Im being insensitive then feel free to leave, but Im just being real with you.