gawd damn father-in-law

Jocka

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Ok well last time I showed anger on here i got banned so don't piss me off or i'll get michael vick and dmx to attack your pets.. and your friends pets.. and their families pets.

Moving on.

As most of you know my wife just gave birth to my 2nd child. Well her dad lived with us for about 3 months prior to this. About a month before my daughter was born he moved out. During these 3 months he only gave $100 the whole time. That's all he would give. Well the last month they was here they ran my electricity bill up over $150 it's normal. All we asked for was $100. Just $100. Not for past rent, not for $150, but $100. He basically told us to go fuck ourself. Now most of his shit is still in our house and he insists he's getting it but I'm not letting that happen. I'm selling it to pay his end of the electric bill.
No he's telling my wife he wants nothing to do with her and she can die. He's appearantly bringing a cop over here tomorrow with him to help get his stuff. I told my wife to just keep the door closed and locked and they can't do anything about it. He just told her (long story short) he hated her and never wants to talk to her again. She has post-pardum depression (i think thats how its spelled) so shes already depressed as hell as it is and now he's just throwing this on top of it.
I know violence isn't the answer.. all the time. But can I reasonably beat the fucking life (not literally) out of this man? Do I have enough reason to be violent or should I attempt to be the bigger man? He won't speak when I'm around and refuses to talk to me cuz he knows I'll knock his gawd damn head off his shoulders. I'm going out of town tomorrow which is the only reason he's supposed to be coming tomorrow. I'm going to get someone to stay here with my wife (preferably a mutual guy friend) so if this dick does show up, he doesn't say shit to depress her more.

I just don't know how to handle the situation. I mean I don't want to be violent now that I have kids I don't want them to see that but GAWD DAMN it's so hard to hold back on this piece of fucking shit... advice PLEASE
 
Your father inlaw sounds like a real fucking asshole. Shit give me his phone number name and address and i'll call him pretending to be the IRS. He won't even know you have anything involvement cos i'm british. I'll record it and put it online for your entertainment.
 
no there was no agreement at all. Infact I asked my wife to tell them they'd be paying rent before they moved in and she insisted it wasn't necessary. Now he's being a dick to her over all this instead of me.. cuz he's a fucking pussy.

And the IRS thing wouldn't work.. he does pay taxes lol. He's like this rent-a-cop that thinks he knows law. I always outsmart him. For instance he told my wife he was going to file theft and I explained to him that A. He has to prove this isn't my stuff and IS his (which he can't) and B. If the 'thief' sales your stuff he can't be stuck with the charge unless they can prove he sold it (also impossible.. i've already got some stuff sold HA!)
 
he sounds like he needs an ass kicking, but i don't really think you should do it. first of all, i'd imagine this guy would have you arrested for assault and thrown in jail. since you have a kid now, that certainly seems like it should be out of the question, but i can imagine how tempting it would be. i don't know if i could restrain myself. if i were you, if it were at all possible, i would cancel the trip out of town and stay with her. considering the fact that she's dealing with post-partum depression, leaving her alone to deal with this situation (even if you have a friend stay with her, i'm sure she'd much rather have you there) just doesn't seem right to me.

also, you said he wants nothing to do with his daughter anymore, but does he feel that way about his grandchild? if i were you i'd give him a call tonight and tell him that if he does come by tomorrow, you'll make sure he never gets to see the child ever again. if that doesn't get to him, then he's a heartless bastard who doesn't deserve life.
 
yea me and her talked about it and shes going to her moms. im gonna have my mom stay here with my uncle until i get back. if he shows up after i get home then im liable to beat the shit out of the dude since my wife wont be here. I'll have 2 witnesses to say he trespassed and wouldnt leave. I can't lose that one right????
 
This sounds like one of those Judge Judy cases...

Go on Judge Judy dude...

But yeah, seriously, be the bigger man... I mean who the hell beats family...
 
well he's not MY family. i don't share blood with this dude. I don't want his rent money or his money to help with that bill he ran up either for that matter. We just said he's not getting his shit til he gives us $100. He refuses to do that so we're getting rid of his stuff. Because of that he's ranting this bullshit to my wife and just ripping her world apart over his gawd damn computer, a desk, and a bed. THATS IT. But he likes his computer so much cuz his porn which is why I'm holding it.
 
This sounds like one of those Judge Judy cases...

Go on Judge Judy dude...

But yeah, seriously, be the bigger man... I mean who the hell beats family...
true, but what kind of family decides they want nothing to do with you over a measly hundred bucks? the guy is a piece of shit who deserves to have his head kicked in, but i guess the best you can hope for is that he gets run over by a speeding bus
 
He's an ass. To keep the situation from getting too nasty I say let him get his shit, cut your losses and don't help his ass out ever again. You don't want things too messy with the grandfather of your kids.
 
Does your wife want to keep a relationship with him? If not give him his stuff and be gone with him. If so, give him his stuff, and let your family mend their relationship. Family is worth more than any amount of money, no matter how big of a dick he is. It looks like you put yourself in a situation that is lose lose, take it and walk with it.
 
The only reason I haven't gave him his stuff is the principal of it all. The man wouldn't help us out when we needed help and we need more help now that our daughters here. Not only does he refuse but he feels he owes absolutely nothing to his own daughter and if anything she should be helping him pay his bills. Like I said earlier, all he has here is a computer and a dresser. That's basically it. All he wants is his computer mainly because he has to buy porn otherwise (he's a real bad pervert). My wife told me it only hurts because she can't just stop loving her dad although he's a dick. So I might just have her call him and tell him to wait until I get home. Then she can leave to avoid the strangeness for her. I for one won't have to cuz the fuckhead won't say anything to my face. Then I'll cut my ties to the man and let him be out of MY life and if my wife wants to keep contact then she's more than welcome to.
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but i still feel like the principal is worth keeping the stuff lol. I don't know what i'm going to do. I'm going to TRY and take the high road here and give the man his stuff..... we'll see if I can make myself do it.
 
dont really have any suggestions for you. just wanted to say take it easy and dont get violent, hes obviously a piece of shit that isnt even worth it. getting rid of his shit though, thats good :)
 
just make sure that you change the date on your computer when you download it, so the police sees that he downloaded it while you werent kidnapping his computer.
 

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