do you like yourself?

ill-matic

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do you ever just think to yourself and then realise that you have a lot of really terrible idiosyncracies?

the responses i got from the "annoying situation" thread did open my eyes to how much of a fuckwit i am. im an unappreciative, ungreatful rude son of a bitch. this is something i really hate about myself.

at the moment my life is all over the place, and ive been re-evaluating a lot of things. ive taken a long hard look at myself and i can't stand who i am to be honest.

in fact i will make a list of what i hate about myself.

- im too lazy
- i do more "talking" than "doing"
- i bitch about my friends behind their backs
- i'm self centered sometimes
- i can be pretty unreliable sometimes
- im rude to people sometimes
- i get annoyed very easily
- i have a knack for arguing with people over petty shit
- i get angry quite easily
- i dont work hard enough for what i want
- i always think im right. most of the time anyway.
 
You are whom you are. Even though you can change everything about yourself, at the end of the day your still you. (?¿make sense?¿)

You seemed to be stressed because of cirumstances that are happening around and with you. But don't worry dude, I mean just dicipher the right times to do things. Be lazy when you can afford to, if you have something to do don't be lazy do what you gotta do. You bitch about ya mates, but no matter what you forever have their backs and love em as mates. Just stress. Ive done it to as Im sure most of us have. Just stress, thats all it is.

Sure you have a lil' ego, but I see it as confidence. Thats a good thing but then again maintain and be open to the fact you can be wrong at times. And remember, we only learn when we are wrong.

How old are you anyways man, out of curiosity?

Cheer up man:thumb:

peace.
 
Who doesn't have or had those problems? Do you know what's worse? People that don't realize the problems they have.

I hate and love myself like I hate and love people. Nobody is perfect. I just try to make something out of who I am.
 
ill-matic said:
ive been re-evaluating a lot of things. ive taken a long hard look at myself

Cool, i might have a go too...

- i'm easily irritated
- selfish
- unsociable
- self righteous
- impatient
- stubborn
- difficult to talk to/be around
- insensitive
- dont share what i'm thinking/feeling, lack of emotion

Yeah i dont like myself much either... then again, looking over that list with my stubborness etc, i'm not likely to change... oh well.
 
ill-matic said:
do you ever just think to yourself and then realise that you have a lot of really terrible idiosyncracies?

the responses i got from the "annoying situation" thread did open my eyes to how much of a fuckwit i am. im an unappreciative, ungreatful rude son of a bitch. this is something i really hate about myself.

at the moment my life is all over the place, and ive been re-evaluating a lot of things. ive taken a long hard look at myself and i can't stand who i am to be honest.

in fact i will make a list of what i hate about myself.

- im too lazy
- i do more "talking" than "doing"
- i bitch about my friends behind their backs
- i'm self centered sometimes
- i can be pretty unreliable sometimes
- im rude to people sometimes
- i get annoyed very easily
- i have a knack for arguing with people over petty shit
- i get angry quite easily
- i dont work hard enough for what i want
- i always think im right. most of the time anyway.

i have those same traits, except I do it better than you
 
7 syns;

im only 18, still young


im adding another thing to the list;

- i am a hypocrite (hey, atleast i can admit it)
 
ill-matic said:
7 syns;

im only 18, still young


im adding another thing to the list;

- i am a hypocrite (hey, atleast i can admit it)


Now it how you work towards fixing this, you have a leg up on alot of people however by admiting it (and from the dicition it seems you know that this is not a good quality).


cheer up man, we all go through shit....but to answer your qeustion of course I do......obviously
 
ill-matic said:
do you ever just think to yourself and then realise that you have a lot of really terrible idiosyncracies?

the responses i got from the "annoying situation" thread did open my eyes to how much of a fuckwit i am. im an unappreciative, ungreatful rude son of a bitch. this is something i really hate about myself.
Glad we could help you on your road to self-improvement.


My biggest problems are that I'm lazy (I have high ambitions, but I'm still lazy when it comes to smaller stuff) and I'm not emotionally expressive, which annoys my girlfriend.


People call me arrogant, but it's only arrogance if it's an exaggeration of self-worth, which it of course is not.

Oh, and I'm proud, which is a only a bad thing sometimes.
 
AmerikazMost said:
My biggest problems are that I'm lazy (I have high ambitions, but I'm still lazy when it comes to smaller stuff) and I'm not emotionally expressive, which annoys my girlfriend.


People call me arrogant, but it's only arrogance if it's an exaggeration of self-worth, which it of course is not.

No i know why i like you.....i share the same point of view.

Amara said:
Cool, i might have a go too...

- i'm easily irritated
- selfish
- unsociable
- self righteous
- impatient
- stubborn
- difficult to talk to/be around
- insensitive
- dont share what i'm thinking/feeling, lack of emotion

Yeah i dont like myself much either... then again, looking over that list with my stubborness etc, i'm not likely to change... oh well.

Ha, how could you not reply to this thread? ;-)
 
the more i grow, the more i learn to like myself. i wouldnt have said this a year and a half ago but now i can.
 
yes, i love myself, im not emo :rolleyes:

on the real tho, jus be able to admit those things is a strong step in the right direction. we all hav similar problems or other problems that r jus as bad or worse, but if u cant admit u hav the problem, thers no way that ur goin to change those problems. if ur willing to admit ur problems, then ur a stong enough person to no that u hav flaws, and hav the intent of being a good person. ther r too many people in the world, that ignore ther flaws, and continue to liv life like ther perfect and they shouldnt change. Its a very immature and unrealistic prespective on life, because as u grow older, u should always learn things, and improve on urself in being an all around better person
 
Saint33 said:
yes, i love myself, im not emo :rolleyes:


No this is emo



Emo.jpg
 
Saint33 said:
yes, i love myself, im not emo :rolleyes:

on the real tho, jus be able to admit those things is a strong step in the right direction. we all hav similar problems or other problems that r jus as bad or worse, but if u cant admit u hav the problem, thers no way that ur goin to change those problems. if ur willing to admit ur problems, then ur a stong enough person to no that u hav flaws, and hav the intent of being a good person. ther r too many people in the world, that ignore ther flaws, and continue to liv life like ther perfect and they shouldnt change. Its a very immature and unrealistic prespective on life, because as u grow older, u should always learn things, and improve on urself in being an all around better person


thats the most profound thing youve ever said on this forum
 
i am lazy.
i always talk about how i see my future but never think of how to get there.
sometimes im a little too confident
 

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