Dealin with the loss of a close friend/loved one

[XxXxDanXxXx]

I'm just wonderin how many people here have been through it?

I've lost a few friends -- Not to violence though. It's always alcohol poisoning. Chokin out on their own puke. About to lose my father to cancer. Never hits me until I'm at the viewing and see them laid out. It's something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Takes alot of time and alot of liquor for me. -- How do y'all deal with it?

 

[bigmack]

^^ i feel ya man lost alot of friends, through violence mostly. ive seen a few friends get blasted right beside me. its harsh. id get fucked up dreams man. i still do. matter a fact i had a dream last night with everyone that died and i was there with them. maybe its a sign that im soon to go,who knows. its life. no one knows whats after. i guess we cant do nothing about it,but just live. sometimes i think about it,and i just dont wanna think about it. but i aint afraid to die though,cuz when i do i wont really know that i died,until i see whats after,if there is an after. so just keep livin' man with what happens,and stay strong.

pz

 

[AmerikazMost]

My 7th and 8th grade English teacher died from a blood clot that was caused by her pregnancy. Saddest time of my life. She wasn't just our teacher, she was our friend. I owe her so much academically and otherwise.

 

[C.R.Y.]

your best bet to get over it is try doing normal activites. when my friend died i was really stressed and didnt want to do shit. i mourned for a day or two, but then i started playing basketball, working out, etc. again. it was the normal shit id do. it didnt help me forget him but it got my mind off of it for some time.

 

[WayCide-Ridah]

me, I lost so many friends these past 4yrs, I remember them all, some to violence, some to some bullshit, some to suicide. All I can do is to drink the pain away, sometimes cry, sometimes scream. But all in all, it helps to talk about it, lay it out, the good times, bad times. But never forget, never

 

[poeticDaVinci]

My 7th and 8th grade English teacher died from a blood clot that was caused by her pregnancy. Saddest time of my life. She wasn't just our teacher, she was our friend. I owe her so much academically and otherwise.

I went to her gravesite for the first time the other day. I never accepted that she was gone until I did that. I got my chance to say thank you and goodbye. I cried so hard I could hardly drive myself home. Mrs. S. showed me pics of Abbygail and Aubrey a little while ago. They really look a hell of alot like her. Does it ever piss you off that her husband remarried less than 11 months after she died? It pisses me off.