confusion

[_carmi]

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[ArtsyGirl]

My best advice would be to try and see your bf more, because it seems like your not getting the attention you need from the relationship thats maybe why you considered the guy at work. If things still dont work out with your bf and you keep losing desire to see him I'd let him go, that way you or him might meet someone thats going to connect better. Choice is yours ofcourse

 

[Amara]

now i'm scared my bf has become for me a affection ressource and nothing else. i dont know how to really find out what i'm feeling for him. i'm totally confused. plus these days i just dont feel the need to see him.

I think that is an interesting point and probably one that a lot of people can relate to. If you cant find a reason to wanna stay with him or your reason is simply based on the need to just have 'someone' there without being anything specific to him, then perhaps it is just an affection thing that may be better served outside a relationship. In any case, I dont think you should make any quick decisions... it's normal to feel attracted to other people (at least I think so) but that may just be a reaction to not seeing your bf. It's hard being in the kind of 'part-time' relationships and more often than not, you really have to work harder than usual to maintain your feelings and theirs, coz it just wont happen by itself.

 

[Helena]

i dont know how to really find out what i'm feeling for him. i'm totally confused. plus these days i just dont feel the need to see him.QUOTE]

He's your man, u saying u dont feel the need to see him is saying something. I agree with artisticgurl, you need to spend more time with him. u'll find out soon, dont worry yourself thinking about it. Listen to your heart.

 

[_carmi]

yeah i'm not taking any decisions any soon. i'ma take my time and see...

 

[_carmi]

oh and at the current moment we just dont have schedules that fit to see each other but by next week things should be more okay.. at least i hope so cuz with this week it'll make 2 weeks that i dont see him.