Bullying

[The.Menace]

I kinda agree.....These days people tend to tell them kids.....there is a place for you in this society.....everybody is unique and apprechiated.....we don't have to fight.... etc etc etc.....

It would be nice this way but it's just not the way it is......

 

[Sebastian]

I would teach them about Animal behaviour, as I believe that is where it stems from. The instinct to dominate someone, putting another down to make one feel better/more powerfull/Proud etc. If those so called shy/quiet kids understood that, they would know what to expect from other people.

Sure tell them to tell someone else, I don't mean to go against that notion, but if they do it shouldn't stop there. Its a life long lesson.

Educate the young for gods sake.

now you told them the concept and they understood what you were saying...and now? the bullying goes on...what should they do?

 

[1671...1396]

now you told them the concept and they understood what you were saying...and now? the bullying goes on...what should they do?

People have to stand up for themselve's it's just that simple!
at some point in life you have to deal with things for yourself.
Bullying is one of life's experiences that a person has to overcome
i dont think it's healthy to alway's have somebody else deal with your problem's
i will teach my kid's how to talk about thing's then fight if it come's to that....if he get's his ass beat that's that but the bully now know's its not a walk in the park to bully him so he find's sombody else..

kid's that allow themselve's to get pushed around are not at fault here
parent's cant shelter there kid's away from reality
to the point you cant defend yourself
there pussy ass parent's are promoting snitching instead of self managment......
now if weapon's are involved at the young age to where you cant have them then yes you do need to confide in sombody that know's how to deal with that.........
just my opinion............

 

[1671...1396]

the art of war...damnz...every kids needs to realise its not superior to ne 1..so it needs to get bullied once in a while...kinda like ur immunesystem...u get what am saying? once you know what it feels like...you know that u shouldnt do it ..the trick is to bully the bullys back...

that is somewhat of a good point!

to be humbled once in awhile is a good thing!

exactly counter the bully with the same shit!!

 

[Sebastian]

People have to stand up for themselve's it's just that simple!
at some point in life you have to deal with things for yourself.
Bullying is one of life's experiences that a person has to overcome
i dont think it's healthy to alway's have somebody else deal with your problem's
i will teach my kid's how to talk about thing's then fight if it come's to that....if he get's his ass beat that's that but the bully now know's its not a walk in the park to bully him so he find's sombody else..

kid's that allow themselve's to get pushed around are not at fault here
parent's cant shelter there kid's away from reality
to the point you cant defend yourself
there pussy ass parent's are promoting snitching instead of self managment......
now if weapon's are involved at the young age to where you cant have them then yes you do need to confide in sombody that know's how to deal with that.........
just my opinion............

ok, your kid is 10 and the other guys who r bullying your kid are 16..and you tell him to fight back? suicide would be a better option i think...

 

[1671...1396]

ok, your kid is 10 and the other guys who r bullying your kid are 16..and you tell him to fight back? suicide would be a better option i think...

listen you can make up any kind of situation you want to justify something you still havnt made clear yourself.............

there are exceptions to everything.....judgment is always an option
and unless your kid is retarded hell know this.........

 

[Sebastian]

look at the first page and u'll see what im thinking about this

 

[1671...1396]

look at the first page and u'll see what im thinking about this

na i saw it and agree with some of what you said but there are numerous different way's you can get pushed around by people some of them... ive stated you have to confide in sombody!

 

[XxXxDanXxXx]

I think bullying revolves around the whole idea of ' survival of the fittest ' . I've never really seen a 5'1 90 pound kid smackin around a 6'1 250 pound guy. But anyways, I agree with alot of members. I think if your being bullied, your best bet is to get into some sort of training, rather it be boxing or some type of karate. Schools idea of self defense is ' get your jaw broken, don't swing back, and tell on them ' Well, in the real world, you would more than likely create more problems. To eliminate bullying would be to go against nature. It's a never ending cycle and the only way it will be eliminated is by everyone becoming a flower child, aka hippy.

 

[Roaddogz]

bullyin where can i start? bullying can be from verbal 2 physical... and u kno, amongst the types of people i dont like high up in the ranks is 'bullies' i hav no respect for these motherfuckas... for instance a member of my family is bein bullied now, has been bullied before an when dey come home and cry an are scared 2 go out u jus got hate for the bullies dat done dis... the thing is... bullies think they can go round pushin others around an i dont like dis shit, so u kno wot im jus tryina educate my lil family about not bein scared of bullies... how 2 take on a bully and in the end defeat em... ders been threats made on my family member all kinds of shit and u kno as long as im around i kno if anythin happens den ders gonna be vengence upon the bully... i dont giv a fuck wot anyone says i kno dis is the net so i will get called an 'internet gangsta' for sayin dat any bully dat seriously fucks with my family gets fucked up demselves, dat ain a wanabe gangsta from me das jus my feelin an das how i sort shit out, i figure 2 beat a bully u gotta beat dem at der own game, i never been bullied, i had people try an bully me but u play em at there own game der will b a showdown, and u jus gotta beat em down... win or lose, u stood up 2 em... an dat'll show the motherfuckas courage... everytime i got a problem i sorted it out, simple

 

[2pac4prez2004]

ok here's my version of bullying, its normally due to neglect as a child or jealousy, i do think that bullying is wrong, however as long as there is people with money and people living in poverty there will always be bullying, if ur rich u cant help the fact that u r...then u brag which leads to the poor people being pissed off at you, which then creates various bullying situations....

one way we could try to target bullying is to change schools, i mean the emphasis should be on communication and how people are, because in my school there was never any real help to bullie's, ill admit i was bullied twice and i stood up twice...the 1st time i knocked his ass out the second time i was bullied i got knocked the fuck out (real bad, like my face was so messed up)...Lmao! we can laugh back at the situation now, but when it was happen we become paranoid people...mainly because people are reluctant to help...

i think that if schools had weekly 1 on 1 meetings and shit like that they would break the bullies...and every one was open with everyone else...realistically it aint gonna happen but if we really tried to communicate with these bullies we would see what shits emotionally effecting them and theyd open up and start crying and shit...

 

[CalcuoCuchicheo]

if he get's his ass beat that's that but the bully now know's its not a walk in the park to bully him so he find's sombody else..

This is totally right. I know people who are just average fighters but anyone who knows of them will think twice before instigating a fight with them as they never run away/back down. They aren't nuts or anything, they just found that fighting is the best option for them because even if they get beat down, the guy'll think next time as no-one (with rare, rare exceptions) likes being hurt (& it is unlikely you can come out of a fight without a mark on you.)

 

[Bina]

Mixed thoughts on this topic, on one hand i agree with the first statement that Daniel wrote, then again, teaching children the Art Of War- aint that gona provoke bullying more?? Kids like to copy adults, especially those who seem to be strong and powerful, i.e. 4 year old kids act like superman or batman. A 10 year old may watch a gangster film (18 rated) and copy the violents acts- case of Jamie Bulger (toddler who was kidnapped by two 10 and 12 year old boys who tortures and murdered him on a railtrack after watching Resevoir Dogs).

How can u stop emotional bullying if the victim is not emotionally stable to stand up against bullies? How can a disabled person fight against a fit person? Bullies tend to bully those who are less physically strong than them.

Maybe, they do need a taste of their own medicine, but hey, who am i to judge?

 

[-Daniel-]

I think teaching them an Art of War would be good for children, because if you have read it - it teaches: ' The art of war is to win without engaging in a fight! '

 

[Illuminattile]

What makes you think kids are more likely to obey Sun Tzu than their parents?

 

[-Daniel-]

I never said that.

They would benefit from the information. I'm tired of this thread now can we close it please.