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[k69atie]

What does it mean when a guy says he wants to "switch up" your conversations??? I have never heard this before?

 

[~live2tell~]

Well I'm not too sure to be honest, in what context is he saying it?

 

[k69atie]

he said that we talk about the same things and we need to switch them up and talk about different things it doesn't good does it?

 

[~live2tell~]

he said that we talk about the same things and we need to switch them up and talk about different things it doesn't good does it?

Hmmm well it depends, its cool that he's interested in talking about different things, it's not like he just wants to quit talking to you, so its not all doom and gloom

What kinda things do you already talk about with him?

 

[k69atie]

it feels like it i really like him.

just work, drugs, drink, football, what each other is doing etc. i think i've fucked it up before it has even started

 

[~live2tell~]

it feels like it i really like him.

just work, drugs, drink, football, what each other is doing etc. i think i've fucked it up before it has even started

I take it this is the guy who you met from tb the other week-end? Katie, don't worry bout it - ask him what other things he wants to talk about first. I mean what else does he expect you guys to talk about?

 

[k69atie]

yeah it is. that is a good idea i never thought of that!

i am crap at this sort of stuff, have been single for nearly two years and my ex was a twat we hardly spoke at all. so i am not used to all this stuff, sounds lame i know. no wonder i am single, i can't even keep him interested

 

[~live2tell~]

yeah it is. that is a good idea i never thought of that!

i am crap at this sort of stuff, have been single for nearly two years, no wonder i can't even keep him interested

Heeey stop putting yourself down, he must be interested in you otherwise he wouldn't care and would just stop talking to you.

Just ask him what things he wants to talk about and go from there, if he is the one with the problem then let him help fix it!

 

[k69atie]

^ yeah that's true i suppose, i had never thought of that, thanks . i don't have much confidence when it comes to things like this, my ex saw to that. i never know what to say and get all nervous!

i have just asked him now, so will see what he says. men! i will never understand them!

 

[~live2tell~]

lol, hope it all works out anyway, let us know how it goes

 

[k69atie]

Will do thanks girl i really needed someone to talk to

 

[~live2tell~]

np, anytime

 

[k69atie]

^ thanks will keep you updated! (i will do tomorrow i go las vegas on sunday for 2 weeks!!! )

 

[~live2tell~]

^ thanks will keep you updated! (i will do tomorrow i go las vegas on sunday for 2 weeks!!! )

Awesome, I wanna get married there

Hope you have a great holiday anyway!!!

 

[Amara]

What does it mean when a guy says he wants to "switch up" your conversations??? I have never heard this before?

Hehe, Katie you are cute. I wouldnt take it as meaning anything bad. I think he probably just wants to get to know you on a deeper level. Talk to you about lots of different things so as to better get to know you. That's all.

 

[k69atie]

^^thanks girl!

it has been so long i am crap at all this sort of stuff!! lol

 

[Amara]

it has been so long i am crap at all this sort of stuff!! lol

Nah, I've come to the conclusion there is no good or bad in that regard. Everyone is different and has had different experiences in the past, and most of the time, none of us have a damn clue what's going on, where its leading, what stuff means or what's appropriate. Lol, that's the fun part of dating... the confusion and anticipation. :thumb: