Well, this moral dilemma has a side to it that I don't think you've explored fully.
You are supporting the ban for security reasons which are very perspective dependent. Consider this:
- Driving a car is among the most lethal things a person can do, and can potentially kill you at any moment. It doesn't only come down to you and your state of condition. You can't account for road raging lunatics who drive while under the influence of incapacitating substances.
- Flying a plane is not statistically as dangerous, but has the same potential for a fatal accident if something goes wrong.
- Any person you pass on the street can potentially be wearing a concealed weapon that they could pull out and shoot/stab you in the face with at any point.
- Alcohol incapacitates your judgment to various degrees depending on the individual. Some people drink so much alcohol they die, because once the buzz starts coming they lose all control. Alcohol has a certain effect on the body which can not be compared to many other drugs, but one drug which has withdrawal effects comparable to those of alcohol, is heroine. While under the influence of alcohol, you may at any point black out and go nuts. You don't know what lies latent in your body until something like that happens anyway, so you can't rule it out, even if it's as unlikely as being in a plane crash. It's still a viable chance it might happen.
- Speaking out strong opinions in public might provoke members of the audience to violence. If they are crazy enough. You don't know that another person isn't crazy. This point overlaps with what I said above about someone randomly stabbing you in the phase, but I wanted to emphasize that we often speak out on things that can potentially provoke others, and we don't always consider everything we say from every possible angle.
- At any point, a plane could fall out of the sky and right on top of wherever you are at the time, and kill you.
- At any point, a comet may hit you.
- At any point, an earthquake might send a tsunami your way.
- At any point, all prisoners of a jail may take over the jail and escape, having several thousand murderers, thieves and other types of criminals on the loose.
I can come up with more trivial and extreme examples. I tried to balance between very trivial and very extreme for the sake of the point I am trying to make. You don't necessarily fear any or all of these things I've listed. Why? Well, I can't know for sure, but I'm guessing like most people, your judgment is that it's so unlikely it'll happen, that it's not something you should worry about. Whenever you see a plane in the sky you don't immediately start fearing that it will fall down on you. When you see a car driving in traffic you don't immediately fear that it will hit you.
And you probably wouldn't have feared women in burqas had it not been for 9/11, the invasion of Afghanistan and Iraq, and the following worldwide opposition by Muslims who felt like the West treated them unjustly, and robbed them of their human rights. There is no logical difference between expecting a plane to fall out of the sky and expecting a woman in a burqa to blow up a bank. Both are equally unlikely. You've just subconsciously decided that one of the very unlikely accidents that can happen is a more prominent threat than any of the others. It's not necessarily so, and suggesting that it is, is offensive to all of the Muslim world. Because you are suggesting that due to the actions of a few, you view all Muslims as a whole. So then, why do you accept cars, planes, and people around you? You go out on the street even though a car/plane can hit you or someone can stab you, but you won't go into a bank in case a bomb goes off. I mean, dying in a bomb explosion is probably preferable to being shot or stabbed to death anyway. I don't see the logic. I understand where you are coming from, I do, but it's pretty obvious that you've used our built-in selective-ness in deciding what you are for and what you are against, and I'm not saying that that's wrong. It's very natural. Just saying that if you aren't already, you should at least be aware of your own hypocrisy.
Edit: As for the job thing, I have a problem with that too. You are suggesting that Muslims should have to suffer due to the prejudices of others. You speak of these jobs where it wouldn't be appropriate to wear a burqa. It's only non-appropriate because we've decided it is. We have let pop culture decide for us what we accept and don't accept, and in that way, we are being sheep when we expect Muslims to follow our ideals. I see nothing wrong with a female executive wearing a burqa if it's by choice, and if she otherwise does a good job. It's not a traditional image, but sticking to tradition is retarded and discourages social evolution, which is ultimately negative and why the Catholic church is so retarded. They refuse to be open to new things, they insist on sticking to traditions that are unhealthy for human minds.
Maybe if we just accepted the fucking things and shut our mouths for ten years, they wouldn't feel so scrutinized, and integration would be easier as they would not feel unwanted and criticized. This could have a positive effect on the world community. Then in ten years, they will have slowly become integrated, at which point maybe they decide for themselves that the burqa is useless. Let them come to that decision though, don't try to make it for them. What happens when you nag at a smoker to stop smoking? They keep smoking, but end up feeling guilty about it. You are destroying their life quality by allowing yourself to say whatever you feel without applying discipline. It's your right to utter your opinion, but if you ask a smoker to stop smoking you must have a motive behind it, and if the motive is to actually get the person to stop smoking, nagging at them will be counter-productive. Do not for a second think that Muslims aren't homo sapien with the same basic primitive needs like attention, affection and respect as any Westerner. They are and they do. And the way we are treating them, I fully understand why they feel robbed of these needs. The ban is counter-productive to what it is trying to achieve - control over the Muslim population and peace. It is a selfish ban that implies that "no, we will not tolerate change, and we will demean and force those that are different". I will not say anything further, you see where I am going with this.