I'm dumb

[Ristol]

So I was talking to this girl I met through Twitter. We developed feelings for each other and made plans to meet.

Then I found out she'd hooked up with three other Twitter dudes, two of whom are good pals of mine. She's...some sort of...Twitter groupie? Could such a thing exist?

I feel like a fucking idiot for developing feelings for her, and for being jealous of the dudes. It would be fine if I didn't know them, I guess? In a way I know I'm being a bitch. But I just think the resentments would eat at me and I'd hurt her eventually.

Just wanted to share that. I dunno.

 

[k69atie]

You aren't dumb

 

[vg4030]

You aren't dumb, how were you supposed to know?

Count yourself lucky you found out now rather than 1 year down the line..

Note to self, start using Twitter..

 

[ARon]

I just spent 275 on soccer cleats, that's dumb. You just need to think about your emotions a little and invest in bamboozle insurance

 

[dilla]

lol you live and you learn, man, gotta make mistakes

If someone a wrote a step by step guide to a perfect life, we'd still fuck it up because we never hit the potholes along the way that taught us the lessons first hand.

 

[ARon]

You gonna hook up with her though?

 

[masta247]

Agree with all of the responses. Your feelings are very natural too. That's part of the package. I think the feels would go away for me a few moments after I found that out about her, and I'd be able to meet up without any pressure on my end, which is a better starting point.

 

[Ristol]

You gonna hook up with her though?

It's a maybe

 

[keco52]

It's a maybe

Do it and never call her again.

(Evil)

 

[Ristol]

Do it and never call her again.

(Evil)

I'm trying to be a better person damn it lol

 

[keco52]

I'm trying to be a better person damn it lol

I know lol don’t listen to me.

It is the ultimate revenge though. Blow her mind sexually...pull out all the stops...and then be super nonchalant and call her bro.

but don’t listen to me.

 

[Ristol]

I know lol don’t listen to me.

It is the ultimate revenge though. Blow her mind sexually...pull out all the stops...and then be super nonchalant and call her bro.

but don’t listen to me.

She'd be the only one blowing anything. She's a Christian like myself and a virgin unlike myself (I've done sex). She's 24. I only added the detail of her age to make sure no one thinks I was talking to a minor

 

[keco52]

She'd be the only one blowing anything. She's a Christian like myself and a virgin unlike myself (I've done sex). She's 24. I only added the detail of her age to make sure no one thinks I was talking to a minor

Oh. We have different definitions of hooked up. Lol.

Shes 24, shes dating and trying to figure out what she wants in a relationship. I’d give her a little bit more slack.

 

[Ristol]

Oh. We have different definitions of hooked up. Lol.

Shes 24, shes dating and trying to figure out what she wants in a relationship. I’d give her a little bit more slack.

You're right but she's blown a good friend of mine. Like if I'm ever in LA doing comedy he's who I'd stay with. It's just weird.

 

[Rukas]

Do you know how stupid I felt when I found out my ex was married? Bro she was pretty much living with me for six months. I felt so dumb. And so guilty that I was unknowingly “the other man.”

I used to always joke that girls with boyfriends were easier to hook up with and I could make any girl leave her man because all I had to do was prove that I was better than him, rather than prove I’m better than every other guy out there, but it was always just a joke I ran like a comedians bit. But man did I feel guilty like karma sorted me out and I deserved it.

There was this weird sense of still wanting her because those feelings don’t just go away, but also being disgusted and furious at the same time.

 

[keco52]

@Rukas we’re they legally separated or was she living a double life??

 

[Rukas]

@Rukas we’re they legally separated or was she living a double life??

He was overseas expanding his family’s business (hotels).

 

[ARon]

The hooked up with three other Twitter dudes but then she's a virgin confused me.

If there is one thing rap music has taught us is don't catch feelings over these hoes, your partner yes, but not these hoes.

 

[Ristol]

The hooked up with three other Twitter dudes but then she's a virgin confused me.

If there is one thing rap music has taught us is don't catch feelings over these hoes, your partner yes, but not these hoes.

She sucked a bunch of dick. And it's dick of dudes I know so it's weird. You're right though, I shouldn't have caught feelings. Rookie shit

 

[keco52]

I’m not sure what you could possibly say but have you confronted her about it?