When someone calls you a slut

[G.Litt]

When someone calls you a slut and for no REAL reason but to spit that SLUT shit.. how do you deal with it.. same way how males see a female are inclined to call you a BITCH how do you deal with it..


For me I rather punch them in their face.. I deal with a very select crowd -- nowadays, so if someone pull that, either my fist meets the face or kick in the butt.. but there was a time when I use to deal with a club scene and be among ppl I didnt know, or my ppl didnt know.. now if they ever dealt with me on that slut or bitch shit, that shit would pop off.. thats how I dealt with it, dealt with it harsh, on some rumble shit, and my boys was down.. and mind you I am a very nice and calm person if you meet me in real life.. but how you deal with it... My boys got me.. how about y'all. G

 

[_carmi]

i simpoly ignore the person or reply with an harsh comment to them. i dont wanna come down to violence.

 

[G.Litt]

i simpoly ignore the person or reply with an harsh comment to them. i dont wanna come down to violence.

I agree. But sometmes ish pops off and I aint scared of nobody. BRING IT!!!

 

[Helena]

^LOL, it depends what kind of mood i'm in at the time. i can handle idiots calling me names. most of the time i just say it back, it's when they come with the racist shit, that's when i tend to get violent.

 

[G.Litt]

^LOL, it depends what kind of mood i'm in at the time. i can handle idiots calling me names. most of the time i just say it back, it's when they come with the racist shit, that's when i tend to get violent.

Good point.

 

[Katarina]

I know I'm not a slut so I don't really care if someone would call me that. I used to hang with girls with slutty tendencies so I don't find it surprising if people would think I was like that too. I have never been intrested in short term relationships though and I know that so...

As for someone calling me a bitch... well, I am.

 

[Beautiful Angel]

i usually say something like "wow! that was original! i've never been called that before!" usually catches them off guard, they expect me to get mad, but why get mad i know i'm not a slut

as for being called a bitch: i say "well ya know i'm not a bitch but i can BE a bitch!" also catches them off guard!

 

[_carmi]

I agree. But sometmes ish pops off and I aint scared of nobody. BRING IT!!!

y'know what i think, if they wanna call me a bitch or a slut FUCK 'EM. i aint got no time to lose with them. being ignored is worst than being dissed sometimes

 

[k69atie]

^ very true :thumb:

 

[keco52]

I would never put my hands on someone. I don't have that right unless I feel threatened at which point I'd prob kick some ass...but it'd take me a lot to get to that point.

being called a slut doesn't bother me...I know I'm not

 

[Synful*Luv]

Yeah, that's why I'm not big on the club scene. I feel that as an adult i'm too old and too mature, and I respect myself too much to be out in the streets arguing and fighting like a hoodrat.

Don't get me wrong, if it gets to the point where it's time to scrap, I will get in that ass, but I mean, that's soo childish. I wasn't even trying to fight and stuff when I was younger.

 

[Amara]

I'd probably take it personally and feel bad but do nothing. Gutless but it's true.

 

[ArtsyGirl]

I cant remember being called a slut or a bitch, probably have behind my back tho. I was at basketball a few weeks ago and at the end of the game this girl from the other team was walkin up to my friend like she was gonna fight her so I backed up my girl and she quickly backed off but was still yappin callin my friend a slut so I said "whats bein a slut got to do with basketball? Your pissed coz she kicked your ass!" So I think if anyone said anything like that to me I'd probably talk back and try and make them look weak and stupid.

 

[G.Litt]

I had a forum member whom I have never spoken to, imply I got my clout and exclusive hip hop material due to me being a slut. This upset me, guys throw that slut, and bitch shit around like its nothing.. but dont disrespect me like that...

I took issue with his comment. I think I have a right to do so. Don't take away my integrity and my accomplishments by saying I am just a slut and thats why I got what I got... and you cant accept/acknowledge my acomplishments. same member ended up drawing a horrible cartoon charcter of a distant relative of mine, living in a 3rd world country.

Upset that he was just banned for a week. Mind you he had already accused me of selling my body for exclusive songs and drew a horrible picture of a relative of mine, mocking a picture I posted in the picture gallery. He was also a person on probation, guess what his punishment was... ONE WHOLE FUKKING WEEK of getting banned from streethop. Kinda upset about that...

Dont blame the admins, I never brought it to their attention. But I think when you call me a slut and show a relative of mine in a cartoon in a bucket full of garbage, and he is on probation... I'd expect more than a week ban.

 

[Amara]

The point of shorter bans was explained in the mod forum.

If you had an issue take it up with me in there not in here... that has also been discussed in the mod forum.

 

[G.Litt]

The point of shorter bans was explained in the mod forum.

If you had an issue take it up with me in there not in here... that has also been discussed in the mod forum.

Sorry girl when I wrote this post, I was also writing you a PM. NO disrespect.

Kinda venting, little upset.. but check your PM.. sent you a message and you'll see its in correspondense with my last post in this thread.

 

[G.Litt]

Recieved a fair reply from Amara and thanks so much to her for hearing me out on my complaint. Very Fair Lady. SOrry it took me so long to have the guts to say what I wanted to say, this forum helped a lot... knowing its us ladies only here