What Makes an Adult?

Shadows

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Seriously, What makes an adult?

I am 19 years old, turning 20 soon.

It baffles me of how some people can say "You're very mature for your age, responsible...etc so, i consider you an adult."

meanwhile, others say "You're very mature but your still a kid."

I know I don't have to prove to anyone that I am an adult, otherwise I would be childish.

However, its put me into a state of confusion of why I am seen completely different from some people, than others.

Is it appearance? Some say I look 22, some say i still look 17...

I know appearance gives a false sense, but im talking about the people that truly know me. So why would they judge me by appearance if they know that i am responsible and stuff?

I know i ask a lot of questions, and i thought maybe that could be it, but i know geniuses ask questions, adults do too. So, again i am baffled.

So, In your opinion what makes an Adult?
also, in your opinion what does society think?
 
At nineteen you're still a teenager. I wouldn't worry too much about becoming an adult now.

I matured late because, well, genius does.
 
an adult is someone who takes responsibility for themselves and of their own actions..thats what makes a person a mature adult..it doesn't really matter what age you are once you realize there won't always be a back door in life and some things u just have to face even if you don't want to..and thats what matters
 
Is this something of concern to you?

not really, it just had me wondering how people can see totally different views. its just a question.

No lie, I have fun because i know how to be a kid, i just think im adult enough to not let it overtake my life. For example, i will go party every so often but i wont if i know i got an important exam or work the next day early or something you know?

an adult is someone who takes responsibility for themselves and of their own actions..thats what makes a person a mature adult..it doesn't really matter what age you are once you realize there won't always be a back door in life and some things u just have to face even if you don't want to..and thats what matters

Thanks...that makes sense.


now all thats left is some smart remarks from more people, some semi-serious ones, and the big man Preach to reply like crazy. lol
 
In every culture there are events or characteristics that mark the transition of a person from childhood into adulthood. These may take place in a moment or over the course of time. They may be recognizable by all or perceived only by the individual.

The journey of life is a series of passages that must be bridged to fulfill our purposes for being. The journey begins with birth and ends with death. Life is a succession of stages or passages.
 
I will probably become an adult when I stop putting cartoon network on the tv. That will be the last transition phase for me.
 

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