All this is easy for you to say because your not in the situation. Its not your place to judge people, you call people stupid yet you know jack shit about their situation.
I didn't say I don't get along with my family, I don't have issues with them but people drift apart, I hadn't seen one of my brothers for half my life until my Dad died.
I can understand what you mean. My boyfriend has three brothers and he doesn't talk to any of them. They just don't talk. One of them owes him a lot of money and avoids him b/c of it, as for the others.. they just have absolutely nothing in common. So they can't force friendship as they are such different people. Personally, I would probably still try to talk to them, but that's just the kind of person I am. My bf isn't like that at all, he's not going to work to force something that isn't there, i've tried to talk to him to try and get him to change his mind... but you can't force someone to do anything.