Reply to Rukas

[~live2tell~]

If someone Amara loved who didn’t post on the board, and whats more, was banned and wasn’t wanted on the board, was hurt then Im sure that she wouldn’t make a thread about it.

Dude has no part of this forum, why make a post about it? If he has some friends on here and you wanted to tell them and don’t have their emails or MSN or whatever, PM them, simple.

There was no proof that he was in an accident, and from his past history of bullshit and lieing I had and have no reason to believe it and the thread was closed, we’ve had a number of fake deaths and suicides before and I had no reason to believe this was anything different. The thread was closed and I said that if anyone provided some proper evidence then I would consider opening it out of respect for you, not for him, even though I think the thread had no place here, but no one came forward.

Furthermore, I don’t like the dude, and to be quite honest and totally blunt, if he was in an accident, my feelings about him don’t change. I don’t like him, and I don’t care about him what so ever. Im sorry for anyone when they are hurt and like I said in the thread I hope that if its true he’s alright and I was sorry for your hurt and his families, but that doesn’t mean I like him. Him being hurt isn’t going to make me turn around and say “oh well he was a total dickhead but now he’s hurt Ill be his friend and suddenly care.” That would be totally weak of me.

A friend of mine was killed last year in a car accident (which I made no thread about because it had nothing to do with this board) and I hated the fake friends coming out of the woodwork crying like they were down when they really weren’t. Is that what you wanted us to do? Shed fake tears because he was in hospital? Sorry but no, no matter what happens to dude, Im not going to like him, and I speak for a lot of people on here, that’s not being insensitive of me or selfish that’s just being real.

If you think that him being hurt would warrant everyone suddenly liking him then you are naive.

Like I said, you have a right to be sad, he’s YOUR friend, not ours, and you have a right to let the people that like him know whats up, but the rest of us simply don’t feel anything towards him and don’t care, and whats more, have no reason to even believe it was real. Im not saying you are lying, Im saying we, those who don’t know him or don’t know you, have no reason to give it a second thought.

Enjoy your stay on the board, if you think Im being insensitive then feel free to leave, but Im just being real with you.

I didn't make the thread about it, the only time I even heard about the thread was when Marv (I think it was him) told me that it had been closed - that's when I looked at the thread and that's when I PM'd you and told you that yes it was true but to keep the thread closed because he wouldn't have wanted it anyway. After everything that happened with him and others on this board he was done with it anyway which is fair enough, his choice. So I had nothing to do with that thread anyway.

Thats your call that you make when you close a thread it has nothing to do with me and as my PM to you pointed out I wanted the thread to stay closed anyway.

I wasn't expecting anyone to wanna be his friend just because he's been in a car accident I'm certainly not that naive, but when I came in and read your catty remark about it 'prolly being fake and for his ex Sara to confirm it' (or something along those lines) well yeah that hurt, obviously I was hurting anyway and I did find it insensitive of you. I wasn't asking anyone to care about him but have a bit of respect for those that are friends with him and still post on this board. Its not about being weak Rukas its about having a lil empathy.

And yes I still think you were being insensitive due to the comments you made knowing full well that ppl who were down with 221 would read it, its not about how you feel about him or the fact you don't like him, he doesn't like you either so as far as I'm concerned there is no issue about that.

We're just different ppl, I care about things that don't even affect me its just the kind of person I am, if someone posts a problem on this board 8 times outta 10 I would actually take it at face value and care about it and try to help and offer advice anyway I can.

You on the other hand, well I don't really know you, but from what you posted above you only seem to care about things that may affect you, or care about ppl that you know which is fine its you and I don't have a problem with you cus I don't even know you. I only have a problem with regards to your insensitive remarks, but if thats you being real then fair enough.

I do enjoy my time on the board most of the time otherwise why would I be here?

 

[Pittsey]

You put your point across thoughtfully and respectfully. But this thread is closed.